When guys take forever after flirting over text, are they jerking off?

Lot's of heavy flirting, then his spelling becomes terrible and he doesn't even make an effort to fix it like usual. Say's he'll be back. Is gone for about 10-15 minutes, is he jerking off?
When guys take forever after flirting over text, are they jerking off?
Jerking off
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I said what are you doing? He said I'll tell you later
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I asked and he said he had to "clear his head" what his penis head? lmao
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  • I would go with masturbating.

    Admittedly does not explain poor typing skills, it is apparently possible to wank and text at same time.

    Personally, I would discuss it, mutual masturbation just raises the bar and makes things interesting.

    It also means you do not have to ‘clean up’ his mess lol.

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  • It might be a combination of jerking off and dealing with the post-nut clarity. He might feel a little bad about jerking off or sexting, so he comes back in a couple of minutes when his mood stabilizes again.

    I've done that exact thing before, so 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • Yep, definitely his penis head. He was absolutely playing with his dick

    • lmao that makes me happy

    • Have you played with yourself talking to him?

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yesterday I had a conversation with this guy and he told me that he needs to go away to take a shower lol. I don't know I mean some of them use it as an excuse but some are actually busy. It's hard to tell.

  • Heck the guys I talk to will straight up admit that's what they are doing. I think I shocked a couple when I told them I was doing the same thing. LOL

    • lol. That is hot. More women should be like you!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes, it's very likely that he's jerking off.

    • He's being really vague about it and it's annoying the crap out of me

    • I understand your frustration. He probably doesn't want you to see him as a pervert.

    • Valid point. Girls seem to judge guys they don’t know as perverts until they form an emotional bond with them. Any idea why it’s ok to be sexual once earning trust but not before?

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  • The spelling could be due to nervousness and trying to shoot messages back quickly or thinking too fast. Being gone for 15 or so minutes could be him doing other stuff at the same time like watching a show or him taking to to think of other flirty things to type back.

  • I think you are pretty sure what is happening. We can't tell from this little bit, but if you are into serious flirting or sexting, it is safe to say that with your looks he is definitely taking care of a personal need.

  • As you have figured out all younger guys jerk off frequently... but most will never admit it!

    • He's not younger

    • How old is he?

    • Older, I'm not gonna say out in the open

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  • Guys are jerking off all the time😂so probably he didn’t respond because he was actually resting

    • he wasn't resting in the middle of our flirting session, he'd been replying like normal before

  • I'm actually not sure 😂 it could be that he is busy doing something too.. like someone is asking a favor and he is distracted but I honestly don't know the answer to this one 😅

  • Lmfao I don't know.😂

  • Prob has to clean up after getting off.. No joke lol

  • Sometimes or they will text you in between

  • Yeah. I've jerked off during sexting many times. For sure.

  • Def jerkin it, no doubt

  • Yes 😊

    • Tempted to PM you but I won’t. Really happy for you 😊.

  • I really need a c option here for both

  • Sounds like me when I've had phone sex with my girl except I wasn't hiding it. Bad spelling... Yes lol. Although I must say, from my experience women are more casual masturbators. They can get away with it easier to. You move your hand, no evidence. We move our hand and are shorts or the sheet is sticking 8half inches in the air up off of us and it's not hard to figure out. Well it is hard, you know what I mean.

  • He is jerking off that is why it's taking him so long

  • not always beating off but likely is most of the time

    • as to your 2nd update, more like his balls

  • Maybe he bored From convo. Maybe he got a call. Maybe something comes to him

    Why jerkin?

    • Bc I was hardcore flirting with him

    • Oh girl than I bet he jerkin by imagine you. Fuck ya. 🤣

    • So? Iits not a big deal. Chill. It's not a huge achievement that you keep posting. Ugh

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  • Were you sexting?

    • No, it was one sided flirting lol

    • heavy flirting though

    • Maybe it was emotional for him and hard for him to deal with in the moment?

  • No we are trying to come up with something interesting to say, so you would like us and give us the sex, so we wouldn't have to jerk off, again.

  • If you guys were sexting probably he might jerked off, flirting nobody jerks off kinda inconvinient and kills the mood if flirting.

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