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Do all men that are in a relationship have lust thoughts when they see another woman?

I notice that my boyfriend sometimes looks at attractive women from head to toe and maybe even their butt sometimes.

It's hard for me to not get upset and anxious.

I worried that he has sexual thoughts when he sees them and their body.

He says he isn't thinking of anything other than they have a pretty face and a fit body but that's all.

I find it hard to believe him though. There must be some sexual thoughts and in a way having a sexual desire for her and wanting her?

Am I wrong for thinking that? Are there actually some men that don't look at other women in a sexual way and have desire for them when in a relationship? Just checking her out because she is very pretty and has a nice body with nothing else to it?
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  • Well first of all it depends on the guy you have but let me try to answer your question by asking you a question. Do you love any orher guys other than him?

    • No I don't why?

    • Why not? Because you love him. When you have a guy that loves you ( and that's the key) it's like that part of our brain that wants to pursue gets turned off or at least gets turned down. Because while everyone likes sex any smart guy know love is harder to find and keep. You have to understand when a guy loves a woman, truly loves a woman. She becomes infinitely more beautiful to him. So believe it or not your guy MIGHT be telling the truth when he says he's looking at her and thinking ok she's attractive but nothing else because the drive to chase her just isn't there.

    • Okay thank you so much, I really appreciate it and I need to just work on my insecurities and having more trust also in those that love me. :)

  • Nothing wrong with just seeing another woman.
    Lingering stares are becoming disrespectful to the wife and the random female stranger.

    • Do all men think sexual thoughts though?

    • When they see a very attractive woman?

    • All? Of course not. Some do, some don't. How long they stare is an indicator to what category he falls into. Some guys, she doesn't even have to be attractive for sexual thoughts to pop into his mind.

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  • 'It's hard for me to not get upset and anxious. '

    You wouldn't even be together if not for such desires... and yes most men do have those thoughts regardless. You don't suddenly stop being attracted.

  • yes belive or not we do, we even love other women when we are in relationship literally 99% of men, keep on coping but its a die hard real fact. doesn't mean we gonna cheat on you tho 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

  • Might be in a relationship, his brain doesn't disengage..

  • We just enjoy looking.

  • That’s the way men are wired.
    As long as your getting all of his sexual attention, don’t worry about it.

  • you are wrong for thinking that, if you continue then you will drive him away, a guy will not stay, if the woman doesn't trust him...

    • Thank you for you're honesty and I will do my best to work on my insecurities and trust issues as I do not want to drive him away.

    • HUGS...

  • For a quick second he’s wondering what she looks like naked. We’re all wired that way

  • I never had sexual thoughts Just because I Watched a beautiful women. I don't even have sexual thoughts when I watch beautiful müde women

    • You're different than most men so. Whoever has you as a partner would be a very lucky person.

    • I have a partner but she is not Jealous and I bet sometimes she hates my low sex drive

    • That's good and I probably wouldn't either if I had a guy like you. Low sex drive is better than a guy lusting over other women like a dog

  • I fucking do

  • It all depends on when I've had sex last.
    Please oblige your partner's sexual needs, you'll have less to worry about.

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