Kinks, Fetishes, Curiosities... Oh My! Ask, Answer, Anything Goes?

Kinks, Fetishes, Curiosities... Oh My! Ask, Answer, Anything Goes?
Each of us have unique kinks, fetishes, curiosities, and sexual interests whether or not we choose to do anything about them. We may feel restricted from sharing such interests, let alone persuing them, due to fear, guilt, timidness, embarrassment, or other reasons. Suppressing these thoughts and desires, to remain confined to our minds, doesn't make them go away and may lead to frustration, resentment, and unhappiness.

Whether tame or taboo, use this as an open-minded and sex-positive forum to post your interests, curiosities, fantasies, questions, and experiences no matter what might be involved.

Have ideas, tips, or other suggestions? Know that it isn't always easy to open up, so lend an ear (and possibly a helpful hand) to share your adventures, perspectives, and recommendations upon the responses below.

Give it a shot and know that you are worth it!
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  • Kinks: Mild bondage done to me and being the one doing it to a romantic partner (no whipping or crazy stuff) I would love to have/give a sexual massage from a romantic partner. Cfnm me being nude around a group of girls (they would have to be ok with it) I think the reverse could be hot too like if my girlfriend was nude around my guy friends and teasing them (wouldn't let them touch though her though) I would love to try a threesome with two girls.

    Fetishes: I have a foot fetish and would love to worship a woman's feet and have her do so to me. I would love to receive a footjob.

    One of my fantasies is having sex on a beach.

    • Great ideas. Having grown up near the ocean, let me encourage you to use a large enough blanket (s) such that the sand and cool breeze don't detract from the excitement.

    • Thanks for the tip. I find too many people are scared to talk about sex and their kinks/fantasies. Everyone has them and there's nothing wrong with it, just embrace it and don't be ashamed I say.

  • I love cumming on my wife's face. I really like doing it after I have already gotten her off and then like to put her vibrator in her while she is doing it, so she struggles to suck my dick because she is getting so much pleasure. Then, seeing her cum while I am cumming on her face or right after I have looks so hot.

    • Nice way to use overstimulation. Not sure if you've explored sexual frustration or orgasm control (edging)/denial, but you may also enjoy repeatedly working her up to being close to orgasm followed by an abrupt cessation such that each pause becomes shorter and you deciding how/when she'll get her release.

    • Thanks for MHO. I have tried edging/denying her from orgasming, but she gets pissed when I do that. Lol, so usually after trying it once, I just get her off. I agree with you that it would be hot if she would let me edge her several times before getting her off.

    • Makes sense. Still, it may help to talk about things ahead of time and convince her to give it a shot since the excitement, stimulation, and pleasure may be worth it for her in the end. Should she hate it, at least she gave it a shot.

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  • I'm curious about lesbian sex. I enjoy watching lesbian porn, I think it's hot so I would like to know what's like having sex with another female in real life.
    There's this guy I've been talking to, we like each other and we want to be together. We are not a couple because we live in different countries. We are planning on meeting in person and if everything goes well, we might become a couple.
    He said that he dated bisexual women before and that he would be ok with seeing me having sex with a woman. He also said that he would jerk off while he is watching us.

    I'm looking forward to see this happening Lol

    • There are many women who share your interests. You might be surprised who might be interested if it's brought up in a playfully exciting way. I remember a female friend of mine from college professing her thoughts that all girls were just a few drinks away from their first lesbian experiences. I'd imagine that there's a bit of truth to this especially if some liquid courage is involved.

    • FYI, I've always been curious to know how many women experiment with each other.

    • Really? Yes, it's definitely surprising. I thought most straight women would be grossed out by the thought of having lesbian sex. Maybe your friend is right, even though I don't drink. Perhaps you could ask some questions on here to satisfy your curiosity. :)

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  • Depends on who I am with. I am a Dominant with women and switch with men. I challenge a lot so I am considered a brat when in submission. As a Dominant I can get a bit sadistic. I enjoy watching and will absolutely strip you bare and enjoy every imperfection. Most find it intimidating some freeing. I find it amusing.

    • I would like to ask you something in dm. About someone i know and what you think could help them.

    • Sounds like you've found great, clever ways to incorporate a rather cerebral method of stoking the fire of the mind.

    • Sure ask away

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  • I have so many. Not enough time to begin to tell this morning.

    • Hi andria 😊 will you pm me?

    • @hizprest creep

    • Hi mimi! Congratulations for judging! Please reward your self for being such a fantastic white knight! 😊 women will flock to your side now that you are truly a man

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  • I want to share my man with another girl, or maybe more

    • Many are aware of cuckholding, but cuckqueaning (woman sharing her partner with another woman) is quite common as well. Some enjoy watching, whereas others like to be much more engaged (e. g. servicing the other woman). Feel free to elaborate as you'd like.

    • I don't want to be involved with the other women, except in reverse gangbanging my man. Also, I want it to be permanent and emotional, not just a fling. That's half the fun, and why I wouldn't call myself a cuckquean (especially since I don't want him doing it without me knowing). A lot of my fantasies revolve around waking up from snuggling with him to see her blowing him off. Or giggling mischeviously together when we ambush him in the shower. Or both snuggling into his shoulders on either side, arms wrapped around him as we all fall asleep. Or taking turns having to drive while the other makes out with him in the backseat. I've got a lot of them...

    • Have you looked into polyamory? I've known many who have enjoyed such open relationships with another more permanent member involved. If you look into your local BDSM D/s community, you'll likely find many like-minded individuals with similar interests.

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  • Loads.
    short list version - BDSM, role play which all cover a multitude of kinks and sins.

    this is probably weird and perverse for some guys, but I ask the girl what she likes, that is likely to far and perverse for some I know.

    • LOL, nice facetiousness with the latter part. As for the former, you're safe here, so share what you like.

    • I do actually like what the girl likes, it’s a huge turn on as a Dom to satisfy a sub both emotionally and sexually, to be there for her. I first had sex at 13, and realised I liked bondage about that age, then just got more in to it from then on. A key part of it, is understanding how to work the others minds, senses etc. It’s amazing how many kinks people have but lock behind the bedroom door, me I am more bedroom door open.

    • You're absolutely right. Knowing what one thinks/feels helps to tailor what you do. Nothing like a good mindfuck.

  • I liked to be spanked, dominated, have my clothes ripped off, I like to lick a guys ear and I like to be choked a little, and I think i might like being an all time submissive rather than a dominate.

    • All quite normal. The degree and duration to which some might enjoy exploring submission might range from occasional spiced up play to TPE (total power exchange).

  • I’m not really sure tbh

    • That's alright. Having an open mind, exploring your curiosities, and trying things that might push you out of your comfort zone may help you to grow and learn.

  • I’ve always wanted to have a threesome with 2 guys just for the DP. I also enjoy anal, being spanked, and anything a little rougher

    • You may find it more enjoyable to explore this with a full bladder to increase the pressure and stimulation you experience.

    • Never thought about that! I’ll have to try that!

    • It does help. Also from your likes, it’s begging for role play What about tied, for me that links to the spanking / paddling side of things

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  • Guys who have a brain turn me on

    • Mmm, I also love women with strong intellects and aspirations.

    • Accurate

  • I like being tied up and chocked midly. I like spanks and gags. Deep thrust and chained up. I like bondage 💯

    • Sound like great ways to heat things up.

    • Thanks I’m a sub of 15 years

  • I like to lick a girl's butthole before anal or in a 69. That's pretty much the only thing I have that might qualify as a kink. Don't really have a fetish. And I suppose I'm curious about a threesome with a girl and a gay guy but only mildly.

  • My fav. kink is hairy men that crossdress in the some of the most girliest sissy clothes.

    • Many enjoy the loss/gain of power and control through explorations in emasculation and feminization depending upon which side you're on.

    • I dont know all about that. I just do it because it fun to play dress up and have wild crazy sex after

  • I do like bondage, both submissive and dominant. I am a switch.

    • What do you like most?

    • Mainly dominant

    • How easy do you find it to get guys who are submissive by nature or are able to act submissive correctly?

  • Ripping off a guy suit and dominating him. I think I watched too much fifty shades of grey that one has been on repeat for about a week.

    • Rest assured that there are lots of men, even the biggest and strongest, who'd love to be on the other end, so find your courage to bring it up. I think that you'll be pleasantly suprised.

    • Once I find a loyal great guy to be in a relationship with I will

  • Im just here for peoples weird comments

    • Don't forget to come back and share once more responses are posted.

  • My fetish is nylon as in tights/pantyhose. I get very excited and aroused seeing good ladies legs clad in nylon. I also like to wear them as I enjoy the feeling on my skin.
    I am also discovering my bi side and I've had a little experience with a few guys but I really want to experience a MMF threesome.

    • Nylon on oneself or others is a common fetish that arouse many and may find it's way into sex and/or masturbation. In exploring your fantasies with men, especially with the goal of a potential MMF threesome, you may find that the female involved can help set up the scenario with another man/men.

    • I have had interest in that on some contact sites but they can never accommodate or are too far away. One day.

  • Do you ever wonder if you had one more sec to live what, who, or how would you spent that one more second to find out you were given another chance to live and make things right with all your wrong you've done

  • Femdom, cuckold, sph, cfnm, bi MMF, handjobs,...

    • Very powerful means of exploring a deep loss of control.

    • Yes I like to explore a side of me that I don't show to the world

  • Fuck off you asshole

    • Rude

    • @Dayman343 agreed

    • @Dayman343 i don't care. Insatiable curiosity? More like Insatiable horniness. He asks disgusting perverted questions only and constant invites me to them. It is annoying as hell. Somebody needed to tell him this.

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  • Tied one leg up while he licks me lightly and fingers me hard.

  • I'm really into the thought of giving blowjob, but I've never actually done it. I don't like my body, so it'll be a miracle if I ever even lose my virginty lol. But in spite of that, I want a boyfriend. But since I don't feel comfortable enough to be naked and have sex, I would most likely give him oral sex instead.
    And sure, I want to be the center of attention to once in a while, but I'd probably be to embarrassed to relax so I prefer giving over receiving. ^^

    • I'm sorry to hear that you feel that way. Everyone deserves love and intimacy. Some physical attributes can be changed while others cannot. You only have one body, so love it.

  • I’m a Vanilla streets, and kinky in the sheets lol
    I have things that aren’t of friendly, I’ll try anything at least once, not anal eww lol

    • It's good to keep an open mind and be willing to explore things despite potential negative preconceptions.

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