Have you ever fantasized about someone else during sex?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Guilty!
When I was with my 3rd boyfriend, I fantasized about my 2nd boyfriend.
When I was with my 5th boyfriend, I fantasized about my 4th boyfriend (who's also my 2nd).
When I was with my 7th boyfriend, I fantasized about my 6th boyfriend (who's also my 4th & 2nd).

[petargrom]

Ever? Sure I have.
Where I grew up it was the norm. Irritated me, but I did it like everyone else (they take whatever body is available and have sex with whoever they are thinking about that day - in Turkish circles - entirely normal, accepted, even glorified as the solution to all hassles about love (afterwards they hate each other and break up violently/abuse, but they don't see the causal relationship AT ALL - and wouldn't believe you if you told them 1000 times))

After leaving the Balkans - just once, recently. Seemed naughty, and she knew it (it was discussed previously)

[razelove]

Yes I have, typically only more than a passing thought if they were in the room and I'm debating, like who to get in first, who to get off with first, or maybe tease both of them and have them work all that out themselves while they're frustrated and wanting.

I never fantasize about the abstract, unreachable, unknown. That is no fun at all, and it isn't too tall an order to just get someone else involved as long as you don't put too many strings on that one.

[jessacat83]

Everyone has and does. It's just the way the human brain works.

[TayTay21]

A few times. One time was with a guy who was so boring that I just wanted it to end. All I could do was think if being with someone else.

[Andres77]

Many times.. sometimes I tell my wife... on a rare occasion I don't because I know she'd feel insecure but I never communicate with anyone else and I've never cheated... it's just that some moments just before I cum I remember a really wild stinky slut and BAM... I cum... but my wife is still the best lover I've ever been with and I really don't want anyone else...

[Phoenix98]

That's not something I would do honestly, my mind would be focused on the person in front of me and when I'm passionate about someone, something that would need to happen to have sex with them. I get caught up in the moment, the passion and it's all directed to the person in front of me.

[Mlem321]

If I gotta be honest no, I haven't fantasized about anyone else and wouldn't dare to do so since I chose the person to do it with for a reason, because I love her. However I did think about other non-sex related things just so I could last longer in bed 😅

[kellytheman]

Yes and so has some of my ex's. I have fantasize of Emma Stone, Drew Barrymore, Kristin Dunst, and some others. I had one girl call me channng Tatum, Leo DiCaprio, one of the Hemsworth, and George
Clooney. By the way I look nothing like those people.

[CMC93]

Never. My mind is not capable of focusing on anything else but the person I am with.

I hope to find a guy that appreciates the moment with me, instead of fantasizing about another women... That is just a major turn off.

[JosyJosy]

No, I'd like to look at him during the deed. But I chuckled, imagining that while riding I suddenly go "oh OH OH OSCAR" like a random old school name like that, killing the moment, but it made me laugh

[Kabluie]

I have, I had sex with my non-mono partner early in the morning, and three hours later went to have sex with someone else. You can feel a flashback especially if they aren't a regular relationship I suppose.

[Miristheiss]

Well, those that have slept around a lot probably do this the most since they've got like 1,000 images and memories of other sex exploits and scenarios they've done.

[caitlin36DD]

Absolutely. My husband Robert has has a “lack of endowment” issue. So when he is trying to have sex with me I fantasize about a well endowed man thrusting deep inside of me and giving me orgasms 😉

[Anonymous]

I talk to this guy online and he always ends up getting naked and seducing me
so when I have sex with my boyfriend I usually think of my online friend's dick and body

[anupamagrawal]

Yes. It may be morally sin but it is the best way to relieve your desire of having sex with that person. If you can't have in real, at least have her in imagination. But, are we being loyal to our partner who is giving her treasures to us to enjoy?

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Not that I can remember. Though there was the odd time I'd have a dream about a celebrity I thought was hot and when I woke up my partner and I would have morning sex. But by then I was only thinking about them

[AirtightAmanda]

Yes I’ve fucked some guys that weren’t quite my type so in those cases I just closed my eyes and imagined someone my type instead

[Anonymous]

Funny story, my partner realised she was serious about having feelings for me when she was with her (now ex) boyfriend and called out my name by mistake 😂

But yes I have fantasised about it being someone else. Not just during sex but like during massages and stuff too

[Hjknv76]

Not during. But I have fantasized about sleeping with other people.

[CrazyGirl2]

Sure, all the time. Obviously, it’s not something that I would ever act on though. That’s why the are called fantasies

[summiter]

Of course. Sometimes I remember sex with a previous girlfriend or a certain place I had sex. I think it is normal

[Anonymous]

My ex. He was an asshole but he was hung and knew how to work my pussy.

[ChrisMaster69]

Sometimes, however it is amazing just what goes through your mind when having sex (foreplay, sex, after play).

I have a sudden thought about shopping, what’s for tea tomorrow, did I lock the door, where did I put the keys for the handcuffs.

[David92506]

If I feel passionate about the woman I just focus on pleasing her. Otherwise, I do think of other women, mostly dominant women controlling me.

[Ashleezlut]

Yup, and don’t feel guilty or ashamed of it either.

[OddBeMe]

Sure. I dont think its a problem. 1) thoughtcrime isn't a thing. But 2) sex is weirdly psychological. If my wife didn't think about some hunky actors I'd consider her weird.

[Titanic1912]

I never did fantasize about anyone else when I was sexually active with my girlfriend because I was too distracted by the view of her naked body!

[Tomsta]

During sex no. My mind tends to kinda go blank during sex i legit struggle to think about anything sexual or otherwise

[krin_m]

Honestly, no. I love to be in the moment and enjoy the lovely lady I'm with to the fullest extent. I like to work together to fulfill both our fantasies!

[Meldrum]

When I'm with someone that I've wanted to have sex with, there's no need to fantasize about someone else.

[HiveBee]

No. I guess pussy feels so good that there isn't much need to fantasize.

[Dargil]

I have, but it's a composite of details I prefer and no name.

[Anonymous]

no, why would I? when I have a great pair of boobs and a great looking person in front of me who is my true love

[psychoticanimaIIover]

Sometimes I fantasise about the Queen.

[Gedaria]

I've called a girl the wrong name.
It was dark and I was tired.
Lame excuse I know but it didn't go down very well.

[nevermind__]

No. I am completely focused on the guy I am with during sex. 😋

[Mangospacho]

99% of the time I don’t. The only time I do is if we’re role playing and her character she’s playing reminds me of someone else. But that’s very rare.

[Anonymous]

yep while was hookup was banging me, i couldnt help but think/imagine that it was my ex

[jakejacobson110]

Plenty, especially with random hookups. Just don't say the wrong name lol

[AwanAlphaMale]

Yes when I was fucking a disgusting prostitute I was dreaming about my beautiful blonde queen

[Anonymous]

I did it but i feel so bad i have feelings for a guy i’ll never be with anyway

[TazWax]

No, I try to stay in the moment because if I don't it will get very dry very quick.

[offendedsorbet]

Why do you think girls like doggy so much

[commentdeja]

Yes I did. Long ago it was about a guy I had incredible sex with. More recently, it's about a guy I had ones-sided love for.

[blackbull9]

Yes. I’ve fantasizes about exes while fucking other women.

[Anongirl567]

Always dreamed my ex. Because sometimes you can't be with him even if you love him. Sadly, the situations are not suitable for this.

[Tel86]

Many times. I fantasised about a girl bk in my school DAYS when I was having intercourse with my missus & no i ain't proud of it

[Fiveanddrive5]

I have. I always feel pretty shitty but hey. She doesn’t know.

[KimmyB]

Honestly I have not, is that weird? :o)

[Anonymous]

I just did 5 mins ago while having sex with my husband.
I've never cheated on him though.

[Anonymous]

There have been times I’m just trying to mind my mind on anything else than what is happening to me.

[RickVienna]

Sometimes it happened but I try not. I try to make the woman happy because I have a small penis and I don't get so often the chance a woman wants Sex

[Waldoe]

I always do... sometimes I fantasize that I am Clark Kent, sometimes I am Betty White, once I fantasized I was a VW Golf...

[Kelly6]

Mostly always

[Cheeky_Scorpion]

Evli bir kadınla sevişirken kızınızı hayal ettim, aslında bunu söyledim

[jjj101010]

Yes. Various different women. Normally other girls I know rather than celebrities

[ConfusedbutAmazed]

Honestly no, but I’ve been with my wife for about 17 years in total and she’s still way out of my league 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Citizenkirk]

Yes, but my right hand got jealous.

[MikeTheBartender]

All the fucking time.

[normalice]

Not fantasized so much as remembered.

[SouthGeorgiaGirl]

Yeah

[zeekitten26]

I don't think I have.

[Ewgies01]

No. Not during sex. It could be hot tho.