Have you ever fantasized about someone else during sex?

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  • Guilty!
    When I was with my 3rd boyfriend, I fantasized about my 2nd boyfriend.
    When I was with my 5th boyfriend, I fantasized about my 4th boyfriend (who's also my 2nd).
    When I was with my 7th boyfriend, I fantasized about my 6th boyfriend (who's also my 4th & 2nd).

    • He became boyfriend #8 and now my husband. <3

    • Wow that was detailed and interesting! At least you found a keeper ❤️ in the end!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Ever? Sure I have.
    Where I grew up it was the norm. Irritated me, but I did it like everyone else (they take whatever body is available and have sex with whoever they are thinking about that day - in Turkish circles - entirely normal, accepted, even glorified as the solution to all hassles about love (afterwards they hate each other and break up violently/abuse, but they don't see the causal relationship AT ALL - and wouldn't believe you if you told them 1000 times))

    After leaving the Balkans - just once, recently. Seemed naughty, and she knew it (it was discussed previously)

  • Yes I have, typically only more than a passing thought if they were in the room and I'm debating, like who to get in first, who to get off with first, or maybe tease both of them and have them work all that out themselves while they're frustrated and wanting.

    I never fantasize about the abstract, unreachable, unknown. That is no fun at all, and it isn't too tall an order to just get someone else involved as long as you don't put too many strings on that one.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Everyone has and does. It's just the way the human brain works.

    • Provided you are respectful & friendly, sure.

    • I promise I'll be haha can you call me there? I still have enough level

    • Call you where?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Sure, all the time. Obviously, it’s not something that I would ever act on though. That’s why the are called fantasies

  • Yes. It may be morally sin but it is the best way to relieve your desire of having sex with that person. If you can't have in real, at least have her in imagination. But, are we being loyal to our partner who is giving her treasures to us to enjoy?

  • No. Not during sex. It could be hot tho.

  • Never. My mind is not capable of focusing on anything else but the person I am with.

    I hope to find a guy that appreciates the moment with me, instead of fantasizing about another women... That is just a major turn off.

  • I don't think I have.

  • Yes.

  • A few times. One time was with a guy who was so boring that I just wanted it to end. All I could do was think if being with someone else.

    • I grabbed the remote to see what was on TV once LOL

    • @JenniCollins97 lol. Anything good?

    • @JenniCollins97 lol. I just didn't have the heart to tell him how bad he sucked, because I know it would have crushed him.

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  • Honestly I have not, is that weird? :o)

    • On of course keep going

  • Sometimes, however it is amazing just what goes through your mind when having sex (foreplay, sex, after play).

    I have a sudden thought about shopping, what’s for tea tomorrow, did I lock the door, where did I put the keys for the handcuffs.

  • If I gotta be honest no, I haven't fantasized about anyone else and wouldn't dare to do so since I chose the person to do it with for a reason, because I love her. However I did think about other non-sex related things just so I could last longer in bed 😅

  • Not during. But I have fantasized about sleeping with other people.

    • Are you in a relationship now?

  • Why do you think girls like doggy so much

    • That's a good answer

    • 🤤🤤🤤

    • Lmao! 😂

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  • Of course. Sometimes I remember sex with a previous girlfriend or a certain place I had sex. I think it is normal

  • Nope.

  • Yep @davidfox

  • No. I guess pussy feels so good that there isn't much need to fantasize.

  • No, I try to stay in the moment because if I don't it will get very dry very quick.

  • Not fantasized so much as remembered.

  • Yes I did

    • Hey, Can I know your opinion on a topic in your DM?

  • If I feel passionate about the woman I just focus on pleasing her. Otherwise, I do think of other women, mostly dominant women controlling me.

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