Am I still a virgin if I gave oral to boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

A little context: I have been in a long time relationship with a great man, I love him. We are in our late 20's. However, he is my first boyfriend, I had never ever dated anyone before him, he actually gave me my first kiss. I had never had anything with a guy. I have always wanted to wait until I get married for sex. But after a couple years dating him, one day in his room we were alone and I decided to give him oral sex (he did not give any oral to me, I have not even idea what it might feel like), so I don't know if I am no longer a virgin. Other than that he has seen me naked and kissed my breast. That's all. Sorry for being so graphic, I need to know serious and educated opinions about this. I am not a puritan or anything, I know sex is normal in humanity and that I already did too much by giving him oral, but I need an opinion. Thank you.

[SueShe]

The strict definition of virginity is

"the state of a person who has never engaged in sexual intercourse".

Sexual intercourse is defined as

"sexual contact between individuals involving penetration, especially the insertion of a man's erect penis into a woman's vagina.

Thus, from a theoretical point of view, you are still a virgin since you had no penetrative sex. However, from a more broad definition, you are no longer a virgin since you have sexually interacted with another person, even though it did not involve penetrative sex.

You will not be able to tell anyone that you are sexually inexperienced since you had sexual contacts with another person. It does not matter whether this person is a man or another woman.

[Jusin]

I guess it depends on perspective but most people will say that there need to be vaginal penetration for a woman or man to lose their virginity. I have given and received oral but haven't done any vaginal sex and I still consider myself a virgin. Just waiting for the right woman to share that with or lose it with I guess.

[Meldrum]

I'm amazed when I see a girl ask this question. A virgin is a girl that still has her hymen, inside her vagina. You're mistaking the concept of sex with the physicality of sex. You don't lose your virginity, no matter how many blowjobs or handjobs you do. You don't lose your virginity by butt-fucking.

[slatyb]

Who cares? There’s no value in being a virgin.

[Dargil]

Virginity ends only by intentional PIV or PIA intercourse. Everything else is sexual intimacy.

[RHK36]

I guess depends on one's thinking about sex and virginity, technically oral is considered sex for some. To me you're a virgin until penetration.

[Iron_Man]

You are heading down the wrong path and you’ll probably lose your virginity before you get married The way you’re going

[Jamie05rhs]

You are not a virgin anymore. The guys looking for a virgin woman will not accept what you have done. (Unless they're one of those weirdos who wants an unbroken hymen.)

[kellytheman]

Oral is a form of sex but since it wasn't intercourse you are still a virgin. The only form to lose your virginity if you have normal sex. Same thing with anal sex that is still not consider losing your virginity.

[Twalli]

I consider virginity to only be lost when you have vaginal sex.

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Valnac]

I always believed that penis in pussy gets virginity over.

[nudeNhorny]

yes you are still virgin

[Younghungguy17]

Yes you would be

[ShadowedSoul]

Yes you are

[Anonymous]

you're still a virgin the only way you can lose your virginity is by pushing something big enough in your pussy so you break your hymen.
although most people count real dick in a pussy "losing virginity"

[Anonymous]

Virginity is lost once penis enters vagina