When having sex, are do you prefer to give or receive? Does it change based on who you’re with?

Like personally I’m more of a giver but I’m with a submissive guy i can receive and order around all day lol
Give, never changes
Vote A
Give, sometimes changes
Vote B
Receive, never changes
Vote C
Receive, sometimes changes
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  • Usually I'm a giver, but sometimes I get a hunger. I never get truly satisfied by the sex I have, even if it's with multiple women, I get nice and drained, but have to act a certain way.

    If I act too many times than I just need to take, and then I'm not the giving tree, I'm the stuffing a head down into a pillow, slapping an ass and pounding tree. Trying to devour and hold everything I can as hard as I can until I go pop. Typically this kinda takes the women I'm with by surprise, even if it has happened before, leaves them all tuckered out and not moving for a while, and me just kinda sore and with a completely empty tank and wonderful feelings.

    So, I give as much as I can, but sometimes I just have to, and I mean have to take.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm a very giving person, so I end up giving a lot.
    At the start of my relationships, I notice that women too give a lot. (Perhaps a way of making sure they hook you? Or giving you sex you can long remember?)
    But, with time, they tend to opt for dead-body sex, which is a real pity!
    Generalising a bit here, and others might have had different experiences.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm a very dominant person so during sex most of the time I like to be submissive and it also gives the guy I'm with the chance to assert some dominance without my interference. Something I didn't know I did until my ex pointed it out to me lol. But there are time when I will be dominant because in my mind no guy wants to always be the one trying to have sex.

  • Ummmm like giving and receiving should always be going both ways so I don't get this poll tbh.

    • It’s simple. Not everyone is exactly like you. You realize that right?

    • Omg. I never realised that until I read your comment. Thank you.

    • Tha ks for the MHO and sorry if I offended you.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I'm a dominant type of person so I usually make you "give" ;)

  • Definitely a giver, prefer being in control.

    bit I have tried being more passive

  • Depends. But looking at your body it would be close to impossible to pull my mouth away from your sweet pussy!

  • I like to give. Rimjobs, blowjobs etc

  • I prefer to give.

  • with my doll obviously i have to givebut when it comes to sex with a real woman its nice if we reverse the roles sometimes

  • equally give and receive

  • I'd rather give or do something mutual. The attention of being on the receiving end makes me uncomfortable

  • I prefer give give give... and then she's too tired to resist after cumming so much and I can do what I want.

  • I like to give pleasure during sex and be dominant over her, it also comes with a responsability to get her off as she trusts you to make her feel great again.

  • the girls who said receive are hot!

  • It changes based on who I’m with, I’m usually a little bossy but I can be submissive now and again.

  • Where's the option for BOTH? First I want to give, then give some more, and then I want to receive.

  • I’m a very submissive girl when it comes to get fucked

  • Both are just fine with me!

  • I love to give and receive, and it should always be equal.

  • Well I like to be the one in the lead, but in doing so, we're both enjoying it, so I'm not sure if that should be considered receiving or giving, but if I had to choose I'd say receiving. But when it comes to oral, I definitely prefer to receive (though occasionally I'm actively in the mood to give).

  • I love to make a girl cum!

  • I’m confused, I can understand the question if you’re talking oral. But regular sex? Giver as in initiates first?

  • I like doing bother and take our turns.

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