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Should I be having sex with more women?

I’m a 23 year old male, I’ve always known that I’m not the best looking, and I’ve learned to accept and to live with it.
I have only slept with 10 woman ever since I lost my virginity 5 years ago.

I feel as though that is an incredibly low number, given times we’re in, where casual sex is extremely easy to access for some people, yet I struggle to get a woman to look at me twice.

I was wondering if you people thought ten people was an acceptable number or should I be having sex with more women, and if that’s the case, do you have any tips on how I can make myself more appealing?
10 is a fine number
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You gotta be sleeping with more people
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  • To me 10 is a lot, your fine... in fact your higher than the vast majority of people I know. Most can count their partners on one hand.

    Something to consider though, is how many is frowned on by women. The more you have, the more they'll think she is your next conquest.

    The also consider that many people of both genders would never consider a lifetime relationship with you, if you have too many partners. The more you have the lower your pool of potential marriage partners become. Studies have been done on this, basically how it translates is lets say, 5 is okay number, well anyone who thinks that is fine your still a potential for. Yet if your at 6 then they won't consider you. Other people with 6 will. Now change that number to a 100... your going to have a very tiny pool of potentials.

    What are your long term goals? Right now you have already limited yourself to either someone who has had at least 10 partners OR someone that doesn't care... granted those that don't care.

    I say best bet is to find one and just do it a million times with her, just saying.

Most Helpful Guy

  • No dude, 10 is plenty of experience. Most importantly, it isn't a race!

    What exactly do you want now? Do you still want to sleep with different women, or do you want to settle down? Whatever you do, don't make it a numbers game. Really, most people don't care.. If anything too many different partners could work against you.

    Oh and Practice safe sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Whatt u want to have sex with more women. I don't know like I never had sex before ofc but I mean 10 is enough like I’d rather have a guy who likes serious relationships yk but it’s not attractive lol

  • Ten women? Without emotional association? It sounds like you've dissociated meaning from sex, a disappointing thought. I'm sorry

    • You don’t need an emotional connection to people to have sex with them, besides with a few Of them it was an emotional thing yeah cause she was girlfriend

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You are fine dude. It is not the quantity but the quality of sex and orgasms you have had with each one.

  • I only had sex with two men and wish it was one. I don't think I can help you with your "problem".

    • Why even waste your time commenting 😂

    • I'm literally wasting time here. Why not on your question? 🤷‍♀️

    • Right

  • no God says first you do marriage* nd then settle down

  • ONLY 10?
    You gotta be joking...
    It's not th enumber but the quality of sex and the relationship that matters really.

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