His mom caught us having sex. does she hate me now?

I’ve never met his mom before and she just caught us having sex. We both still live with our parents so we just have sex in our cars most of the time. And we usually just park in his driveway to avoid cops. Anyways he was in the passenger seat and I was riding him and then he just told me to stop and pointed to the window. I was too embarrassed to ask but I think his mom saw us. Worst first impression ever!!! I feel like she’s just going to think of me as a slut now and that’s not who I am at all. I’m just really depressed and humiliated. What do you guys think?
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  • I think you are telling a fairy tale. Why do all the pink accounts on here feel that they just have to relate their fucking tales? I've never heard such a bunch of bullshit or stupidity. The only difference in yours and your other tales are it wasn't in your room, but in the driveway, and your mom looked out the window at night (never mind the fact that when you have your lights on inside the house you can't see shit when it's dark outside) instead of your brother/sister/mother/father walking in on you. Come on! If you are going to make up a tall tale make it believable.

    His mom caught us having sex. does she hate me now?
    • What reason do I have to make up a story?

    • And my lights were not on. His mom saw me pull up in the driveway and then she looked out the window again to see if I was still there and she saw what she saw. Please go find another bitch to play w Bc I’m not the one the two or the three 🙄🖕🏽

    • You look out the window at night with the lights on in the house and you can't see anyone out side. They can see you but you can't see outside. That is reversed in the daytime. They can see out but you can't inside unless their drapes were wide open and they were standing there looking out the window. You have no idea what you are talking about because your story is BS.

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  • Don’t think to much about it and don’t need to be depressed because sex happens when both wants it and you can’t blame your self only and if he really loves you I’m sure he will explain to his mom the situation nicely and everything will end good so relax

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  • It happens, been kicked out a few times by a rather upset parent walking in on their darling virgin white daughter getting fucked or giving oral,

    had my mum walk in on me, my sister, the bloody milkman (early morning garden session).

    it’s like going to the toilet, everyone does it,

    hopefully they may allow him to stop over rather than risky shagging places.

  • She was your age at one time too so she probably understands to a point and you are both consenting adults. Don't assume the worst just yet.

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  • Not gonna lie, I’d be pretty against a girl my son bought home if that was my first experience of her. To sit in the driveway of my home without even coming in to say hello? Sure sex between adults is fine but there is a time and place and that wasn’t it

  • Ah, well. These things happen.
    I don't suppose she thinks you're a slut. What I DO suppose is that she wishes she'd never seen that in her driveway.
    Why don't you two save some money and get a fucking hotel room and some privacy. You're too old for this kind of shit. Whether you live at home or NOT.

    • We usually do that but it got expensive real quick!

    • You might've heard this expression: It's the cost of doing business. Be respectful of your elders and GET A ROOM. You're young adults. Act like adults and don't embarrass yourselves or your parents. Get better part time jobs and be creative. Buy a tent and air mattress. Camp in a state park. Get a cabin for a few days in a state park. Private and fun. Use a friend's apartment when they're not there. (Make arrangements). Take a weekend vacation together and avoid being in your familys' houses. Get in your sex time OUTSIDE OF YOUR FAMILY HOME! And not within VIEWING DISTANCE. really. Start saving for your own place. Sounds like it's about that time.

    • Thanks for the suggestions. We’re both still in school but he’s saving to buy a house by the end of the year. I have a very low paying job but it’s the best thing I can get considering I don’t have a degree. I’m saving but I don’t have nearly enough to move out yet

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  • No need to worry. Probably just reminded her when she did the same thing. Its like going through puberty, every mom/dad knows you're masturbating. Like they know you're going to have sex. This culture demonizes sex. Why? Its a perfectly normal act. After all how is a baby made. Sometimes on a couch, in a park, in a car. Parents are no angels. Probably turned her on reminding her of the good old days. Thats simply the truth.

  • Are you sure you are 18 or older as your stories sound like they come from a little kid. Park in his driveway for anyone walking by or the neighbors to see? Yeah, right.

    • I’m 19 and I’m not sure why his neighbors would be walking down his driveway at 10-11pm but ok.

    • I'm 19 too but would not be that dumb to be doing it in your driveway. You may as well do it in the garage. You are really trolling aren't you?

    • Well u look 45. And his garage is open at the back so what difference would it make? No one would be on his property anyways... go have a seat if u aren’t going to offer any useful advice

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  • It’s no big deal at all really. Don’t overthink it. Boyfriends and girlfriends have sex, all parents know that. The good thing is that now it is out in the open so to speak then the two of you can be more comfortable enjoying indoors.

  • Pretend like it never happened.

  • Did she later discussed it your boyfriend? If she is still silent, it means she has accepted it as a reality.

  • You are an adult, he's an adult. She's probably thrilled he's found someone. Normal parents want their adult children to find a partner. My step-daughter has been seeing a nice young man for a couple of years now. Of course they are having sex. Her mother and I are happy for her.

  • That mom is super nosy, i mean what's her business approaching her sons car like that haha. She probably had shopping in her hands wanting him to open the boot 😂

  • Hun, just take in stride, his mom probably did the same thing when she was your age. I can understand how you feel but it's probably not as bad as you think.

  • She will get over it relax

  • Oh yes you are. You chose it, just live it. Start accepting responsibility for yourself, your choices, your decisions. This is on YOU.
    His mom? Just be polite, never bring it up. Likely she won't either.

  • Oh well

  • She’s very upset I would be so mad I would send you out of the house on your own for pulling that stunt

    • We’re both adults and she knows her son is sexual active. She’s fine with it. I’m just mortified bc we haven’t me yet and she caught us!

    • If you were my daughter I would be so livid. Also you have to remember it’s not your house it’s your mothers house and property

    • Why is it such a big deal tho. U don’t have sex? And she got pregnant with my boyfriend at 15 so she really should understand

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  • You don't know how she will react, so don't jump to conclusions, but find a secluded spot to fuck from now on. If your both of age, then the cops likely won't care and just ask you to leave.

  • It happens. Not really a I deal..

  • How old are the two of you? It's not like she never had sex at your age. Why should she hate you for that? I'm sure she had a talk with him about being more careful with the choice of places and be careful that he wears protection.

  • How long have you been dating?

  • Oh dear.

  • She probably hoping he used protection.

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