Why didn’t he finish?

Question

we were having sex for a second time. the first time he lasted a few minutes and then the second time was going on for a while.

we did like 4 positions and then in the middle of missionary he kinda just ends it and then lays down and i lay next to him but he didn’t finish

was he just tired or was i bad?

Answer 1

kreesholva

Xper 2

Two in a row with no break isn't so easy as a guy - needs some recharge time. And if he's worried about it or concerned about performance so soon after that anxiety can make it even worse.

I'd be a bite more interested with why he only lasts a "few minutes" the first time. Inexperienced? Just worried about getting himself off and nothing else? Get that first time to last longer or allow you to finish and go for seconds before being spent.

Everybody's different. Find what works for you and him. Maybe he needs a longer recovery or a single one in a day or hours is a limit. If you need multiple orgasms and he doesn't look at toys, oral or other methods to ensure you get what you need.

Talk about it and find what is best for your sexual relationship. Random keyboard junkies like us won't have magic answers, you and your partners need to communicate even if it's just casual... it makes it better for everyone to be satisfied.

Answer 2

ChrisMaster69 | 745 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Sounds like he was either tired or was getting soft, try some after play after the first fuck session, then go in to the next fuck.

I highly doubt it was you.

Did he seem to get soft or was he slowing down?
may be a fitness thing

Answer 3

Janet03

Xper 4

100% its not about you being bad

sometimes a guy doesn't finish for various reasons, either they lost sensitivity from masturbating too much, he's tired, or something else

Answer 4

JuliaStyles | 201 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Probably needed time to recharge fluids. You were bad in thinking a man can have multiple orgasms like a woman can.

Danny_dan92

10 d
Yeah pretty much ☝🏼
magiusX26

10 d
some very very very few of us can though
magiusX26

9 d
last time i checked into it, about 15 years ago. the percentage was so low that its easier to just state it as maybe 1000 men on the planet can do it, and thats at varying degrees. meaning some can do 2 or 3 while some mite make it up to 7 or 8.

Answer 5

Danny_dan92

Yeah pretty much ☝🏼

Answer 6

magiusX26

some very very very few of us can though

Answer 7

magiusX26

last time i checked into it, about 15 years ago. the percentage was so low that its easier to just state it as maybe 1000 men on the planet can do it, and thats at varying degrees. meaning some can do 2 or 3 while some mite make it up to 7 or 8.

Answer 8

Danny_dan92 | 2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

That happens to me sometimes, don’t sweat it.

The best way I can describe that. Is you keep pulling the trigger on a gun that each time nothing happens and your finger gets tired.

So yeah, he got tired

Answer 9

harvest | 328 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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I would sooner suspect that he was either tired or he wasn't near cumming so decided to give up.

Answer 10

LiamSawyer | 3.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

He was probably exhausted and knew he wasn't going to cum again. Had he been drinking any alcohol?

JuliaStyles

10 d
Alcohol is a depressant so makes it hard to orgasm.
LiamSawyer

10 d
@JuliaStyles exactly which is why I asked.
JuliaStyles

10 d
Yes, and also the seminal fluids have to replenish or it would be like having a dry heave.
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LiamSawyer

10 d
The whole situation sounds like he had quite a bit to drink., what do think Julia.

Very interesting name by the way, I always had a crush on Julia Styles
JuliaStyles

9 d
So you got my name. No one else has.
LiamSawyer

9 d
@JuliaStyles Yes I did!

Answer 11

JuliaStyles

Alcohol is a depressant so makes it hard to orgasm.

Answer 12

LiamSawyer

@JuliaStyles exactly which is why I asked.

Answer 13

JuliaStyles

Yes, and also the seminal fluids have to replenish or it would be like having a dry heave.

Answer 14

LiamSawyer

The whole situation sounds like he had quite a bit to drink., what do think Julia.

Very interesting name by the way, I always had a crush on Julia Styles

Answer 15

JuliaStyles

So you got my name. No one else has.

Answer 16

LiamSawyer

@JuliaStyles Yes I did!

Answer 17

Seppel | 911 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

I wouldn't even have Sex a second time. One time a week is enough for me

Answer 18

Anonymous

Do you use both the condom and birth control pill?

Answer 19

Jmmmfi4 | 3.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

don't worry about it

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