Schools buddies trying to be flirty in sexual way?

Question

Basically I have few male friends from school time and we all are married and never talked about sex like not very openly and it was always just advice way but one friend trying to be sexually flirty in privet messages and I just stop replying to him. Shall I just go for it and enjoy my self or he will tell everyone and others will see me as slut?

Answer 1

Anonymous

well first no one gonna call you a slut just because you had sex with just one person in your whole year, you need to at least sleep 5 times a month with random people to be a slut
but that's not important. if you feel alone and he's single too, why would you reject him?
but if he's married don't go deeper than this, block him for a week or two then unblock him and continue your friendship, if he's cheating on his wife right now you know he's gonna do that to you later

Answer 2

ItsTheNephilim | 3.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Only he knows whether he'll end up telling others or not. If it's an open marriage between you and your husband, I think it's fine to flirt with him. If not, what if the flirting escalates to something else? Besides, what is the point of flirting?

Answer 3

nayans | 155 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Better avoid than regret as you aren't sure of his intentions.

Anjali100

5 d
I think you right I should avoid and not think much about it.

Answer 4

Anjali100

I think you right I should avoid and not think much about it.

Answer 5

bowenw | 2.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

If you like the friend, I suggest getting to know him very well and dating before having sex. If you are married, I suggest that you do not cheat on your husband.

Answer 6

Tstrbrainer | 2.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Is he married?
I read your other question and I think you can do it if he's trustworthy, but if he's also in a relationship, better avoid it as you might be hurting another woman

Answer 7

nudeNhorny | 10.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

You can reply to him, but you have to make it clear to him that's its just fun flirting for you, it's not going anywhere.

Anjali100

5 d
But what if things goes emotionally from him?
nudeNhorny

5 d
That's why you have to make boundaries from the beginning, make it clear in a very subtle way, you are only looking for flirting and having fun, nothing gonna ever happen between you, if he is okay with it, then you can exchange messages.
Anjali100

5 d
You sound good too
Show All Show Less
nudeNhorny

5 d
Thanks, I'm happy to help

Answer 8

Anjali100

But what if things goes emotionally from him?

Answer 9

nudeNhorny

That's why you have to make boundaries from the beginning, make it clear in a very subtle way, you are only looking for flirting and having fun, nothing gonna ever happen between you, if he is okay with it, then you can exchange messages.

Answer 10

Anjali100

You sound good too

Answer 11

nudeNhorny

Thanks, I'm happy to help

Answer 12

Twenty2 | 843 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Do you wanna fuck him? That's the main question. If yes then go fuck him. Explore your life.

Twenty2

3 d
If you are not attracted to him but just want some fun then why not be on Tinder?

Answer 13

Twenty2

If you are not attracted to him but just want some fun then why not be on Tinder?

Answer 14

Valnac | 12.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Just live your life and forget those people and move forward.

Answer 15

krin_m | 977 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

If you have an open marriage and you are up for it, go for it!

Answer 16

harvest | 298 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

One question - are you married?

Answer 17

LiamSawyer | 3.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Just how well do you know him?

LiamSawyer

5 d
If you're married do you really want to cheat on your partner or do you have an open marrige?
Anjali100

5 d
Not open marriage and I know him from school time.
LiamSawyer

5 d
Do you really want to have sex with him if he keeps it private between the two of yoi?
Show All Show Less
LiamSawyer

5 d
I can see why he'd want to have sex with you, i'm just not sure why you want to have sex with him. Does your husband not satisfy you sexually?