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How high is too high?
- Not really. I don't care, to an extent. As long as it's not the whole town and the next one over.
The unofficial rule for a lady's body count is that it should never be more than her current age. A 20 year old who has slept with 21+ men better be either a prostitute or a porn star, and if she "isn't," she still basically is. Most men don't want an unfaithful, unclean woman. So I'd agree that the number of bodies should not be close or exceeding her age.
For people who like to complain that it's unfair that the standards don't apply to both genders; no, it's not unfair. A man has like a 1 in 15,000 chance (my own, made-up numbers) of getting laid, at any given time. A woman, has like a 1 in 2 chance of it. A woman has to be a 1/10 (basically a man/transwoman) before she'll get rejected out for sex. A man has to be at least an 8 out of 10 just to stand a chance, most of the time. That, or be brimming with confidence out the ass; which less than 1% of men have, especially in an ever-increasingly negative, berating society that makes us men feel like sh*t (and many non-liberal women, as well).0|00|0Is this still revelant? - As long as she is clean I dont really care. However, I would say in my experience women with a very high body count of 20 or more have a history of promiscuity of cheating. And I would also say that with a woman you multiply by 3 because when you ask for their body count they pause... they have to think.. then they only tell you their relationship number... no no... they think their one night stands and their party fucks dont count.
So for me... no body count is too high. But anything higher than just 1 will turn off guys because guys are visual more than emotional. A woman hears a guy's body count and she get jealous thinking introspectively about whether she is pretty enough or good enough. A guy hears a body count and as picturing another man cumming deep inside this girl or plowing her from behind. It invokes intense jealousy. The worst is dating a woman who wants to only wear a condom but admits that with past boyfriends she was on the pill and let the guy cum deep inside her without a condom. That hurts a lot.1|00|0Is this still revelant?I’ve had the same thing happen to me with a guy that you’re saying happens from girls. I always visualise it and get jealous, and he didn’t go raw with me but risked it with other girls.
@darknaturalism420 i didn't know girls had those feelings too. Yeah. Its a jealousy that is humiliating. I've cum deep inside a woman raw. I know its tge most pleasurable experience in life. Its the most intimate thing. To not share the same experience with your love is painful.
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- Only if she has a higher score than me. But I do enjoy a good competition.0|10|0Is this still revelant?
- Nope, I don’t give even the slightest shit.2|10|2Is this still revelant?
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152- My wife had a very low count. I wouldn't have married a woman who had slept around, had one night stands and casual sex or done any sex acts that go against my code (ever been a sex worker/stripper/cam model or ever done threesomes or cheated).
When dating... if any of these turned out to be in their past I would have ended things. I never would have respected her or looked at her the same or have wanted to be with her.1|10|0 - Really depends on what weapon and how much panache she put in to each one,
long range, difficult shot, low sun, pretty good.
poison in the wine decanter, electrocution in bath,
it really depends on how she gets that body count not so much the numbers.
The thing with body counts, any one can have a high one but lie about it.
just claim the good shots.
or exaggerate1|00|0 - It doesn't matter as long as I'm the last one.
As long as she's no longer continuing in risky and dangerous behavior then it doesn't matter what she's done.
It was always something that piqued my curiosity with a girl. I'd usually ask her when I was giving her oral and she was close to cumming... and when I didn't stop as she continued to tell me more details she'd give me more raunchy details...
I was weird and risky myself. But I put that guy away when I married my gorgeous partner.1|00|1 
Anonymous9 da lot of the beta Simps will say they don't care as I see in the comments. Even though statistically a woman with a higher notch count is more likely to not last in relationship. This is why men's statistically get screwed over and divorce, because these guys make a bad investment right from the start. The body count is huge. And the reverse is too, I've fucked over 100 women and I'm not gonna play games, I know I'm a bad investment, because I prioritize sex over love, as does a woman w a high count.0|01|1- To a point. I don't know how high is too high, but I also know there is more to a woman than how many people she has had sex with.
I do view it as a red flag if it's high, but that wouldn't be an immediate deal breaker. Unless she says a number like a 1,000 or something or every man in town. I wouldn't be able to go outside without seeing a man that has been inside her and I'd feel like 1001.1|00|0 - Yes. Its super important. Men who marry sluts are the biggest losers of everyone. Because everyone else can fuck the slut for free! They had to buy it. So shameful.
3 is my max to remotely consider a good girl. Any more than that ill fuck boy that girl. I dont date sluts. Period.0|00|0 - I don't think I would, as a virgin, especially if she's willing to show me the ropes.
As long as she's never cheated in previous relationships or fucked other married people and messed their relationships up, then I don't think I'd mind.1|00|0She'd have to be clean too, I forgot to mention, because sex is probably going to happen at some point.
- Yes , to a certain extent , there is a difference between a slut and someone with morals , a slut is someone that has had sex with multiple
People easily, Someone with morals , is someone that only had sex with a long lasting
Relationship , Notice how I said someone , yes guys can be sluts as well0|10|0 - Absolutely. High body count means she is nothing to me except a sexual object. I could never be serious with a woman who has a high body count.1|50|0
- Yes, of course.
All men do and if a man says he doesn't, then he is full of shit.1|10|0RESPONSE TO UPDATE "How high is too high?"
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This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?
I use a formula for both males and females:
Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
(that is, the "body count")
Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
So:
Age = 15, X = 0.
Age = 16, X = 2.
Age = 17, X = 3.
Age = 18, X = 5.
Age = 19, X = 6.
Age = 20, X = 8.
Age = 21, X = 9.
Age = 22, X = 11.
If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".
Basically, what this is saying is:
1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."
More than 10 guys is really too much.
Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".
Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).
So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.
For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!
Body 1: 21 y 09 m
Body 2: 25 y 11 m
Body 3: 26 y 02 m
Body 4: 32 y 10 m
Body 5: 36 y 10 m
- Anonymous9 dI personally dont care what a woman’s sexual past is.
Dont care one way or the other
if its 1 guy or 50guys.
what she did before me is none of my buissness1|00|1 - No, the more men she has had, the more experienced she is.0|00|0
- Anonymous9 dof course we care... we put a lot of effort, emotion, and money into a relationship so those kind of investments require a little bit of quality in the person we are investing in.
you wouldn’t buy a car if it’s been kicked around and used in abused by everyone in town so why would you do that with a relationship?
The only women who ask this kind of question are the ones that I have a massive pile of dick in their history.0|10|0 - I don't care. Hers is higher than mine but it does not matter. She just had to fuck a lot of frogs to find her prince charming.0|00|0
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Nope just means she is more experienced and knows what to do. bonus points if she has been gangbanged or threesome mfm fmf as she really knows how to rock it down there :D0|00|0 - I think I would because I am a virgin so I would prefer a virgin as well.
I think 50 is a high figure for a girl my age1|10|0 - I don't care about woman with high body count. Means I don't like them for my self.0|00|0
- For me I’d rather be with a girl who’s only been with a handful of men meaning one handful. Than being with a girl who’s had many different guys and who knows1|00|0
- depends on how old she is, but uh yea some what, the reason why is sickness and stuff. Who knows what you might be carrying that you don't even know you have, you could be un affected by it and still pass it on0|10|0
- I think guys shouldn't mind if it's about the same as their own body count. That seems fair to me.1|00|0
- I would NOT ask, and I don't see why she would tell, the Past is called the "PAST" for a reason...1|00|1
- If she has a body count over 10 that would be a turn off for me1|10|0
- Yes big-time if you have more than two or three I’m out0|10|0
- When I start a relationship with a woman, it’s from today forward.
im not concerned with the past, only the future!1|00|0 - She's either a virgin or a slut. There is no middle ground.1|00|0
- Nope because I only can fuck one pussy at a time and if I like her I want to continue with her.0|00|1
- No. Caring about that is just being insecure.0|00|0
- Yes. It has to be zero if she wants to marry me.0|00|0
- No. I value quality over quantity.1|00|0
- is this about the ones buried under the house?0|10|0
- He knows, but he didn't mind. He has more.1|10|1
- No, as long as she's clean then idc.1|00|0
- Anonymous9 dYes. As much as I care about my own.0|00|0
- I really don't care. Why would I?0|00|1
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