Girls, how would you react if your boyfriend told you that he have been thinking about men?

So girls, how would you react if your boyfriend with whom you are together for 2 years told you that he have been thinking about men and he feels attracted to them in a sexual way. That he also tried on your panties, and as a teen also was wearing his sister's panties.. And he actually did one blowjob to a guy, before he met you.. all that being said, he still loves you and don't want to lose you.. I am asking this, because I am in situation like that and I will talk to my girlfriend really soon..
I will leave him
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I will stay with him and try to help him
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  • Thanks for inviting me to share my opinion. :)

    First, as someone who already knows of your predicament, I recommend not telling your girlfriend about wearing her or your sister's panties. Just say that you enjoy wearing women's underwear, she doesn't need to know too much of the details behind that. And don't give her the details on that one specific blowjob... instead, say that you've had a sexual experience with a man before. And if she asks more questions about it, give her the details then.
    Second, if my boyfriend were to tell me that he was attracted to guys but was still attracted to me and still wanted to continue our relationship, I would stay with him and help him in any possible way. I wouldn't like the idea of my long-term committed boyfriend either cheating on me or experimenting with others outside of our relationship. I would feel uncomfortable knowing he was out somewhere experimenting with his sexuality since we're in that committed relationship. But I'd rather know what he was feeling and understand better rather than not know and be kept in the dark for the entirety of our relationship.

    • As always you speak with so much wisdom! Thank you for your opinion... I will follow your advice then. And lets hope for the best. I dont want to lose her, I imagine my future with her, but yeah, I am not that attracted to her anymore and that could be a problem... But we will see soon... Thank you once again! :)

  • I'm very open sexually. I'd see it as an opportunity to get kinkier.

    I'd take him shopping for some slutty girly clothes. Pink, short skirt, thongs, high heels, a cute collar etc. And I'd help him find a guy to be a sissy for while I watch. If he'd rather I didn't watch, that's also fine

    • Oh maan... I want to marry you... All of this is like a dream for me... I really want to do this... I wish I could see you... or a woman like you, because all of this will make me so, so happy... <3

    • I think you'll find someone if you're honest about it. I'd love to have a guy like you though

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  • While id try respevt his honesty, id leave him. Id actually feel cheated honestly, as things like that are leading into a lifestyle M i couldnt and wouldn't want my partner to desire, and shouldve been a mindset he'd already known about prior to being with me. And something he shouldve told me in the beginning of our relationship so i could find someone else and not waste our time.

  • That sort of stuff doesn't bother me. If he wants me I'd stay otherwise he's free to explore w. e he needs to.

  • I would leave him immediately.

  • I think we would need to have a long talk to make sure we are on the same page from now on. But this wouldn't be a deal breaker for me as long as he was still attracted to me and committed to our relationship. I am something of an anomaly in comparison to many women, but I also wouldn't have a problem with him exploring his attraction to men as long as we agreed on certain guidelines to ensure that our relationship remained the 1st priority over other dates or rendezvous.

    • That's amazing. So there is a hope for me after all...

  • I would stay if he was still attracted to me. Most men still stay with a female if they are attracted to other women, so what’s the issue? But of course if he wanted manXman intercourse, then that’s cheating because your having sex with someone other than your girlfriend. I don’t think she would have a problem with you being attracted to men. However having the desire while still being in the relationship to have sex with men would not make her feel comfortable.

  • I would probably break up with him if he had a panty/cross dressing fetish. Good for you, but I didn't sign up for that.

    But being attracted to men is okay. I would ask if he was bisexual and go from there.

  • I don't date men (actually already pretty gay myself) so I wouldn't really know how to react. I suppose if it were a friend who had a girlfriend I'd try to comfort him.

  • It happened to me before and it broke my heart. That’s all I can say.

    • I am so sorry for your, sweetie.. :(

  • Obviously leave him, wish him luck in finding a good boyfriend and tell him to accept he is gay. Make it clear that Obviously he lost me.

  • If he lied about this from the beginning I'd break up with him.

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