When I look back, every woman who "got" me, did a lot of initiating herself. I happen to be shy, didn't have a sister, and am terrified by rejection.
YET, at the same time, the girl should not be too FORWARD, or seem to do a lot of active chasing. She should give subtle hints, take the decision herself, but make me feel that I'm doing all the deciding!
Hope I'm clear in what I'm saying...
I feel very safe when a girl sends me all the signals that she's interested, but doesn't do any active chasing or pressuring. Nothing more pleasurable than a woman who says, "I'm open", but then will leave "you" to decide. Of course, one knows who's actually deciding here, though the guy gets the feeling he is!
When it comes to sex, the girl could, at the most, drop broad hints. Not initiate. That would go against the nature of conventionally-received male-female equations. Once a woman indicated she wanted to have an affair with me; I ran. Even though she was very attractive, and I really admired her attitude to life. I guess males are insecure about being "chased". Girls, do it subtly please!
I appreciate initiative very much.
and about the other question, we have not met yet... so I am not sure what you mean by aggressiveness.
I'm a domme.
I see, well... if you look for submissive or more agreeable men, I am quite sure they do not mind it one bit, don't worry about it.
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10 for sure, if a girl starts chatting and flirting with me that is really surprising and fun. I've had only my first ex start ti initiate sexual things with me and it was the hottest thing I've ever seen. I think women need to get more comfortable taking initiative and making the moves.
I would rate that as a 10, nothing better than a girl knowing what they want. Don’t get me wrong I like chasing but i rather chase someone who I know is interested also. Personally I prefer it to be 50/50 when it comes to initiating, it can get tired some of you are always the one initiating, makes me question their motive.
For me i love it if you start it i will take it anyplace you you want it to go in detail weather in real life or role play i want to make it about the girl i want her to feel it deep and always remember it so yes if she or a girk want to start it i will take it there with her
Depends on whether she wants to be treated as an EQUAL! I ADORE women, that assume that they are my EQUALS, and ask me out!! Why not?
Never happened, but yeah, I think I'd appreciate it.
I'm a virgin and consider myself to be sexually submissive, so yeah, especially if she's willing to teach me and have the patience to put up with my lack of experience.
If someone's into me like that, I think I'd find it flattering, especially if she's hot.
I enjoy it. Shows her interest in you as an individual, so I would say 8 to 9. All women that have been interested in me have initiated conversations on text most of the time, with me doing it now and then to reciprocate and set up dates.
10, i mean who don't appreciate is one weird guy.
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10. It’s fun if she also initiates.
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Scale of one to ten I'd say on a 20 I appreciate it!
A solid 11
Probably a 9 or 10 out of 10
I like those girls
10. Aaaabsooolutely.
10
And no, I don't think you're aggressive at all.
10
Love it.
For me its a 10
Sure, it rarely happens so its a nice surprise when it does.
10 for sure. I like when a girl initiates conversations and sex because I feel like I do it more and it something diffrent when a girl is on hunt for a guy other than the guy is always hunting for a girl. by the way I would mind if we talked.
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