On a scale of 10, guys, do you appreciate if a girl initiates chats, conversations and sex with you?

Question

10 being extremely appreciated. ;)

My bro just said he doesn't like girls "wearing him down" and I started questioning myself lol.

Guys who personally have talked to me, do you think I come off as aggressive?

Updates:

13 d

So it's just my brother!

11 d

Off topic : like my new profile makeover?

Answer 1

fnfnfnfn | 894 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

When I look back, every woman who "got" me, did a lot of initiating herself. I happen to be shy, didn't have a sister, and am terrified by rejection.
YET, at the same time, the girl should not be too FORWARD, or seem to do a lot of active chasing. She should give subtle hints, take the decision herself, but make me feel that I'm doing all the deciding!
Hope I'm clear in what I'm saying...

fnfnfnfn

11 d
I feel very safe when a girl sends me all the signals that she's interested, but doesn't do any active chasing or pressuring. Nothing more pleasurable than a woman who says, "I'm open", but then will leave "you" to decide. Of course, one knows who's actually deciding here, though the guy gets the feeling he is!
fnfnfnfn

11 d
When it comes to sex, the girl could, at the most, drop broad hints. Not initiate. That would go against the nature of conventionally-received male-female equations. Once a woman indicated she wanted to have an affair with me; I ran. Even though she was very attractive, and I really admired her attitude to life. I guess males are insecure about being "chased". Girls, do it subtly please!

Answer 2

fnfnfnfn

I feel very safe when a girl sends me all the signals that she's interested, but doesn't do any active chasing or pressuring. Nothing more pleasurable than a woman who says, "I'm open", but then will leave "you" to decide. Of course, one knows who's actually deciding here, though the guy gets the feeling he is!

Answer 3

fnfnfnfn

When it comes to sex, the girl could, at the most, drop broad hints. Not initiate. That would go against the nature of conventionally-received male-female equations. Once a woman indicated she wanted to have an affair with me; I ran. Even though she was very attractive, and I really admired her attitude to life. I guess males are insecure about being "chased". Girls, do it subtly please!

Answer 4

NathanDavis | 104 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

I appreciate initiative very much.

NathanDavis

13 d
and about the other question, we have not met yet... so I am not sure what you mean by aggressiveness.
anon1903

13 d
I'm a domme.
NathanDavis

13 d
I see, well... if you look for submissive or more agreeable men, I am quite sure they do not mind it one bit, don't worry about it.
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anon1903

13 d
Thanks, Nathan.
NathanDavis

11 d
And that's a nice new profile, not too aggressive at all... lol
anon1903

11 d
Ahahaha... Funny xD
NathanDavis

11 d
but in the pic, maybe she forgot about locking the door to the dungeon...

Answer 5

NathanDavis

and about the other question, we have not met yet... so I am not sure what you mean by aggressiveness.

Answer 6

anon1903

I'm a domme.

Answer 7

NathanDavis

I see, well... if you look for submissive or more agreeable men, I am quite sure they do not mind it one bit, don't worry about it.

Answer 8

anon1903

Thanks, Nathan.

Answer 9

NathanDavis

And that's a nice new profile, not too aggressive at all... lol

Answer 10

anon1903

Ahahaha... Funny xD

Answer 11

NathanDavis

but in the pic, maybe she forgot about locking the door to the dungeon...

Answer 12

Novacane | 72 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

I would rate that as a 10, nothing better than a girl knowing what they want. Don’t get me wrong I like chasing but i rather chase someone who I know is interested also. Personally I prefer it to be 50/50 when it comes to initiating, it can get tired some of you are always the one initiating, makes me question their motive.

Answer 13

ohshee | 3.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

For me i love it if you start it i will take it anyplace you you want it to go in detail weather in real life or role play i want to make it about the girl i want her to feel it deep and always remember it so yes if she or a girk want to start it i will take it there with her

Answer 14

Jusin | 189 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

10 for sure, if a girl starts chatting and flirting with me that is really surprising and fun. I've had only my first ex start ti initiate sexual things with me and it was the hottest thing I've ever seen. I think women need to get more comfortable taking initiative and making the moves.

Answer 15

TheUniqueOne96 | 1.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Never happened, but yeah, I think I'd appreciate it.

I'm a virgin and consider myself to be sexually submissive, so yeah, especially if she's willing to teach me and have the patience to put up with my lack of experience.

If someone's into me like that, I think I'd find it flattering, especially if she's hot.

Answer 16

ShadezMcgee | 543 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I enjoy it. Shows her interest in you as an individual, so I would say 8 to 9. All women that have been interested in me have initiated conversations on text most of the time, with me doing it now and then to reciprocate and set up dates.

Answer 17

JackSmy | 2.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Depends on whether she wants to be treated as an EQUAL! I ADORE women, that assume that they are my EQUALS, and ask me out!! Why not?

Answer 18

Pickle22475

Xper 1

Any effort into a conversation where the goal is dating effort ideally comes from both sides and neither is too pushy at the start. Work on finding a balance if you think you are aggressive. Just go back over your message before pressing send and try to read it from the other person's perspective.

Answer 19

kellytheman | 562 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

10 for sure. I like when a girl initiates conversations and sex because I feel like I do it more and it something diffrent when a girl is on hunt for a guy other than the guy is always hunting for a girl. by the way I would mind if we talked.

Answer 20

moviedude714 | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I would be on cloud 9 if a girl made the first move or asked me out first, was the initiator in starting the relationship, that is, if I was already attracted to her

Answer 21

Tstrbrainer | 2.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Yeah, it's a 9-10 for me.
It's better when a woman initiates for guys who can't pick up signs.

And I won't exactly say that you are aggressive, but you give that domme vibes.

Tstrbrainer

11 d
Yeah it's cute
anon1903

11 d
Thankchu
Tstrbrainer

11 d
Did you create it?

Answer 22

Tstrbrainer

Yeah it's cute

Answer 23

anon1903

Thankchu

Answer 24

Tstrbrainer

Did you create it?

Answer 25

Twenty2 | 866 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I love it. It feels kinda weird but I love it. Your bro is a kid, right?

anon1903

12 d
He's fourteen
Twenty2

12 d
He'll grow up.
Twenty2

11 d
Don't care

Answer 26

anon1903

He's fourteen

Answer 27

Twenty2

He'll grow up.

Answer 28

Twenty2

Don't care

Answer 29

krin_m | 1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I think it is very sexy when a girl initiates chats, conversations and chats. If I'm interested, I normally do not wait for her to initiate, but at times when it happens, it is quite sexy!

Answer 30

MikeTheBartender | 855 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Scale of one to ten I'd say on a 20 I appreciate it!

Answer 31

Jamie05rhs | 3.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

10

And no, I don't think you're aggressive at all.

Answer 32

SHREYASH007 | 410 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

I have seen not so beautiful or average girls generally initiates such chats. well it is not compulsory, to me I think I prefer shy girls and I will head everything.

SHREYASH007

11 d
since you are in India I think better to get reviews of what Indian guys think if you are looking for partner options in India , so better to watch other surveys.

Answer 33

SHREYASH007

since you are in India I think better to get reviews of what Indian guys think if you are looking for partner options in India , so better to watch other surveys.

Answer 34

Valnac | 12.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

It’s been my experience that when I initiate, the sex is so, so.
when she initiates, it doesn’t get any better than that.
I prefer a woman on top for a while too.

Answer 35

Juxtapose | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

10.

I cannot stress how much I appreciate it! I loooove sexually aggressive women & women who don't just SIT THERE passively & wait for me to initiate conversation or anything.

Answer 36

jirwin7979 | 2.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

i am a shy guy but yes i like a girl that will make the first move

Answer 37

Z1pTD | 69 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

10 because people need to be open and honest about that kind of thing

Z1pTD

11 d
Yes new update on your profile is good :)

Answer 38

Z1pTD

Yes new update on your profile is good :)

Answer 39

bananathunder | 3.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

10 of course... doesn't happen enough for me personally

Answer 40

DaMack999 | 502 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Extremely appreciated. As men we love chatter box females. But we hate drama queens.

Answer 41

Shihab-91

Xper 6

If i don't know her and she want to talk about sex... No and i assume it's a guy trying to troll

Answer 42

IndyZee | 166 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

I would say 10, that I like it... but that doesn't mean all the time.

Answer 43

andy530 | 4.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I’m all for a girl who knows what she wants amd goes after it

andy530

13 d
Sounds like it to me

Answer 44

andy530

Sounds like it to me

Answer 45

H8INCHES | 561 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

10 I love when a girl initiates. These days, there is too much uncertainty about what a girl wants. And I find it very sexy too.

H8INCHES

11 d
The profile pic is nice. Very pretty face, and the hat and dress a very cool.

Answer 46

H8INCHES

The profile pic is nice. Very pretty face, and the hat and dress a very cool.

Answer 47

Wise4myage | 5.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Sure, it rarely happens so its a nice surprise when it does.

Answer 48

rebeliouse | 276 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

10 of course

but alas girls too lazy so never happens

Answer 49

Kaneki05 | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

10, i mean who don't appreciate is one weird guy.

Kaneki05

11 d
profile makeover? it's for sure you, which is a complement of course.

Answer 50

Kaneki05

profile makeover? it's for sure you, which is a complement of course.

Answer 51

Avicenna | 6.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

10. It’s fun if she also initiates.

Answer 52

call_me_scar | 229 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Probably a 9 or 10 out of 10

Answer 53

jasco | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

7 i don't mind if she does it tho so yea

Answer 54

bklynbadboy1 | 4.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

That would be a 10 for me

Answer 55

iFarted | 2.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

10 much mich appreciated

Answer 56

harvest | 353 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

10! 11 maybe ;)

Answer 57

Gwenhwyfar | 2.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Most guys love this

Answer 58

Guardian45 | 3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Extremely appreciated.

Answer 59

Jerre | 7.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

A 10. Doesn’t bother me one bit!

Answer 60

tripptt9 | 547 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

10 ... I suck at making the first move

Answer 61

bend-u-ovr | 92 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

20 appreciate it an turned on by it

Answer 62

okeydoke | 1.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

10
Love it.

Answer 63

Gedaria | 9.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

,,10,,..

Answer 64

AmeerX | 2.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I like those girls

Answer 65

Meldrum | 882 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

10 is a good number

Answer 66

Twalli | 13K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Easy 10

Answer 67

1amcurious | 622 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

For me its a 10

Answer 68

EaterPeter | 655 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

10/10

Answer 69

Curiousnesshmmm | 368 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

10 ding ding ding

Answer 70

Clarke498 | 1.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

10 would be low 😉

Answer 71

Seppel | 939 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Yes I like that

Answer 72

Dinosaursandanime65 | 95 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I give it a.. 9-10.

Answer 73

DragonXR | 84 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

10 !

Answer 74

Angelo75 | 511 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

A solid 11

Answer 75

s2firestar | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

10. Aaaabsooolutely.

Answer 76

dragoblack | 549 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I woould say 8-10.

Answer 77

msc545 | 3.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

a 10 here.

Answer 78

Jmmmfi4 | 3.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I'd say a 10

Answer 79

billluc69 | 5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

about 10.9

Answer 80

tghbvcfrtfg

Xper 3

i so appreciated 10

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