My boyfriend wants to watch me with another woman?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend says he wants to watch me have sex with another woman. I am up for the idea of him watching and even jumping in to be physical with me, but I wouldn't want him to touch her. I do not want to see him have sex with anyone but me. Is this a reasonable requirement if I agree to do it? Any advice or suggestions?

[SHREYASH007]

what you say is a bit difficult like how can you stop a guy from touching the other girl, this is surely gonna happen in fact it may be possible that full fledged sex is sure between them.
Only one option is there, you need to find a complete lesbian girl not a bi for this stuff.
So that he is clear that girl will not let him even touch her, better if he can just watch and not be nude infront of you both.

[NathanDavis]

yes, this is entirely reasonable, and a common agreement for those who engage in this kind of fun.
make sure your rules and desires are well known in advance.
it will keep all of you safer, and fulfilled by the experience
he might not like the idea at first but he does have to show commitment.

[Asker]

Some people say it's wrong for me to ask that of him

[NathanDavis]

The way you explained it, says your boyfriend wants to watch only... and you are into the idea of him watching so to that point is all well you even could be up for him joining you and focus on you, not the companion. and then, it is his choice if he wants to do that too if he does not want to because maybe he just wants to watch and experience that first, then it's all well too and the third person has to be on board with what you two want. so...

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Honestly I find it disgusting.
But you do you.

[Avicenna]

That’s for you and him to decide and agree on. I would think it would be hard for him to completely avoid touching her.

[Asker]

That's what I'm worried about... I think if he were to engage with her it could ruin my trust for him and our relationship

[Avicenna]

Then say no altogether to avoid this

[Horny-ashell]

Yes if you're doing this for him and you just want him to sit back and enjoy the show then have her watch the 2 of you since you want to have sex with him afterwards.

[Horny-ashell]

If you would like to turn this around you could always tell him that you would like him to watch you with say me I wouldn't have a problem with that. 😉😉

[AmeerX]

I think you should learn to be accepting of other girls. He loves you so you should trust him

[Wise4myage]

Your in control here, so he has to agree to do whatever you say. If he can't agree, then just refuse.

[Gedaria]

Sounds sexy but. You might have him play with the other girl.

[Asker]

But that's what i dont want.. he can watch and play with me but that's it. Those are my terms

[Gedaria]

Sadly he can do that to you now.. He wants you have sex with a woman?

[Asker]

Yes. He said he wants to watch me and another woman

[Gedaria]

Are you up for that, I watched my wife , playing with a girl friend , it was so sexy..

[Meldrum]

Your boyfriend is into that kinky stuff. Apparently one woman isn't enough.

[mr2inches]

Very cool

[Valnac]

What would you do if he did?

[Asker]

I don't know. I'd feel betrayed that he couldn't honor my wishes especially since this would all be for his pleasure. It would probably cause trust issues and make me feel insecure with myself and my relationship. On the other hand I think that if it did go my way it could actually make our relationship stronger

[Valnac]

I agree with trust issues.

[abc--123]

Sound shot but I'd want to play with the other girl too. Maybe not have full sex but suck her tits, licl her pussy that kinda stuff

[gangs_and_guns]

Are u bi?

[Asker]

No I'm not

[gangs_and_guns]

So why does he want to see u on a girl?

[Asker]

It's just a fantasy of his. We have a very active sex life and are pretty kinky. I enjoy bringing his fantasies to life and experiencing new things together. But I'm a little nervous about this. I've had a threesome before but I was single at the time. I'm a pretty territorial girlfriend though.

[gangs_and_guns]

But how can u have sex with a woman if u aren't bi?

[Asker]

I dont think I need to be labeled as bi to want to experiment sexually. I've been intimate with a woman before but like I said I was single and it was basically just a fun night amongst friends. I'm not down with watching my partner being sexually pleased by anybody but me. That's MY job 😁

[SpaceGalaxy]

Tell him OK as long as you get to be fucked by him and another man afterwards

[harry7825]

What's your age and why he wants you to fuck with another girl