Why some people think sex is bad?

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TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

'Mature' society is rooted in repressing animal motivations and,
MOST folks fear the vulnerability that comes with absence of self-restraint
and what they might discover about themselves and others... when they get their 'freak' on.

The modern Japanese internet fetish of public transit 'Chikan' and 'Chijo'
where, by crowded long transit commuting is exploited to target a winsome traveler
and through concerted invasive aggressive tactile foreplay,
his/ her sense of social propriety is overwhelmed by their OWN repressed Libidinal desire
and eventually they involuntarily become aroused and eventually ACTIVELY complicitly respond ~

Figuring if I'm to BE 'victimized' while adjacent fellow commuters ignore my insidious predation,
I am powerless to stop it so, ... I WILL make sure I assure
I RECEIVE the MAXIMUM (unsolicited) physical satisfaction... for this social outrage~
REVERSING the 'victimized' mindset.

dragoblack · Accepted Answer

Lack of communication, erectile dysfunction, can't last long in bed, one & done, 2 pump chump, one-sided pleasure, lack of getting an orgasm (usually on female side), lack of intimacy, dead fish, bad kisser, tiny penis and not knowing how to use it, too big and no preperation or understanding of depth, no foreplay, bad at foreplay, too forceful, not forceful enough.. etc.
there's many things that can make sex bad, but the mosy important is to have is communication and foreplay before and during sex.

Mia-Wallace · Accepted Answer

Sex is one of, if not the most pleasurable, exciting and bonding activities we can have, and I don't think many people would disagree with that.

But you can easily ruin it if you put your penis in anything you find, or let about anything enter your holes.

It's not as simple as a good vs bad argument. It's about mental and physical health. About enjoying it without dying before you turn 30.

RP_Blackburn · Accepted Answer

I don't know. I personally haven't met anybody who thinks sex is bad; I've only met people who disagree with me on how sex should be practiced. Nobody I've met has ever advocated (unironically) that sex as a whole ought to be abstained from (ie that it's a bad activity). Is this belief being propogated by some new movement that I haven't heard about?

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Possibly not getting right partner,

possibly because they think sex is fit penis in to vagina and cum.

they have not realised the pleasure in flirting, teasing and foreplay and after play.

they skip starters, the soup dish, the fish dish, ( jump in here Main Course), Salad, Coffee, dessert

they just jump straight in to the main course and then wonder what all the fuss was and feel something is missing,

MCheetah · Answer

Well, speaking just for me personally, I think cheap, loose sex with total strangers is bad, because it cheapens what that connection is supposed to mean between two people (on a social scale, at least).

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Uneducated. Brainwashed religious folks.

ohshee · Answer

I dont know for me its one of the most BEAUTIFUL things in the world and i reall believe it is also was to tske us to a higher level if you really pay attention about 1 min maybe 2 min right before your going cum look in to ur partner s Eyes dont say a world just remember what you were thing at that moment

FunTastyLady · Answer

Not sure maybe due to how they were brought up or maybe because of religious ideologies?

HiveBee · Answer

I know guys are mad cuz they are beta males and are angry that they can't have any woman they want like some guys can.

phorse · Answer

For me it's a lot of effort with few rewards. It's stressful, it takes a lot of energy to please my partner and to pay attention to her needs. I have a low libido and I almost always feel pressured to do it. Yes I might get some pleasure out of it, but it's just not worth it.
I grew to hate it, because I feel like an outcast because of it.

normalice · Answer

It is free pleasure and people who want to control the pleasures of others get mad.  Also resentment for not being able to participate.

NathanDavis · Answer

they could have been indoctrinated into those thoughs since young age or they have had enough bad experiences with it

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

Because it's actually quite disgusting and a conduit for diseases. I do it only to please my fiancée otherwise she cries, but it's an horrible experience each time.

JPrez · Answer

Maybe because they don't enjoy it?

slatyb · Answer

Because they aren't getting any and they are jealous that other people are.

jshm2 · Answer

Because they either can't get enough/any or can't do it right.

Miristheiss · Answer

I doubt hardly anyone thinks sex is bad. If any do the numbers are so small they aren't work mentioning.

Get to the truth... not red hearings.

Looking down on sex usually involves the sexually promiscuous, sleeping around, sex workers, sex outside of loving marriages or monogamous relationships and are more directed at casual sex, sleeping around, sex with strangers and sex workers or selling yourself sexually to strangers for money.

Finchie40 · Answer

It’s only bad when when people cheat or try to make money off of it , but amazing if 2 people love and value each other

Egirl28 · Answer

Shame from religion or upbringing

Agape93 · Answer

They’re prudes

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Bad in what way? If you mean bad as in it's seen as dirty, shameful, harmful, etc, I don't know why some people think that. I guess religion or a sheltered upbringing could contribute to that.
If you mean why do some people not enjoy sex, there could be a lot of reasons for that. Personally I don't really enjoy sex

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Those are people who never had GOOD sex.

sheikalana · Answer

Like who?

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