Is it "gay" for a straight guy to enjoy anal stimulation?

[Anonymous]

Not at all! Well at least not by anyone with half a brain and a basic understanding of what sexual preferences are.
If you enjoy something with a partner of the opposite sex only, then you're heterosexual
If you enjoy something with a partner of the same sex only, then you're homosexual
If you enjoy something with a partner of the either sex, then you're bisexual

It doesn't matter what the sexual activity is, as long as all parties are fully consenting obviously, as long as it's fun and safe there's no issue. The only thing that would possibly be concerning is if you wanted to dress/pretend to be a girl, or wanted you're female partner to dress/act like a man and treat you as such... While roleplaying doesn't usually reflect what people would like to be/do, fantasies do often reflect some level of true desire (whether the person is even fully aware of it being a real desire or is in denial about it)

[Anonymous]

No - only if it's with another man involved.

I've had a few guys who like a finger in the bum while they're on top of me but I personally don't really like doing it to them. It's normal so don't worry about it.

[Anonymous]

I enjoy fingering with a BJ or HJ and even on its own. A suitably narrow insertible is also good as it can be manipulated to stimulate the prostate. One day, I'll have the courage to buy and try this.
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[frostwalrus]

Depends on what you fantasize about. If it's purely the physical pleasure you enjoy then no. If there is a psychological pleasure in being dominated, it could potentially be a sign of homosexuality (or bisexuality) since that's what BDSM often leads to - OR you could just be into being dominated by girls and nothing more. Ultimately, only you can answer this question.

[KeiaYamada]

It's not gay at all. Only think a guy can do to be gay is being turned on by guys or having sex with a guy. A guy enjoying something being in his ass is not gay at all.

[ChrisMaster69]

To be using the word gay in this context, means you or anyone saying it is gay, not to actually understand what being gay is.

also, nothing wrong with it.

[matchrestore]

There's nothing gay (or straight) about finding pleasure in anal stimulation. If it feels good, do it, if not don't.

[someginger]

No your gay if your attracted to other men, so liturally nothing you do will make you gay

[123lucy]

That's not a man being attracted to men so no it isn't

[Meldrum]

Not gay. You've got a prostate and either by using a tool, as I do, or your own fingers or hers, it enhances the experience.

[MountAverage]

Homosexuality is sexual attraction towards your own gender. What body parts on yourself you enjoy being stimulated, has nothing to do with that.

[Twalli]

It stimulates the prostate which is the make equivalent of the g spot

[Ericthebarberic]

I dont think a man is gay unless he is attracted only to men.. anal play is hot

[blackbull9]

hell nah

getting a girl to massage my prostate is one of the best feelings ever man

[slatyb]

Only if he enjoys receiving it from another man.

[abc--123]

It's only gay if done with another man

[jasco]

If its with a woman that i don't see how its gay

[joeldalton]

It's gay if you want a man doing the stimulating

[CubaPirate]

Not necessarily unless another guy is involved

[meep990]

Only if he exclusively enjoyed it with other men