Most guys dont know how to love some one they were never tought, or they never seen it growning up modt people only know what they experience so with saying thst modt men dont know how to show it but they do know thst since its call nalung love they think thst is the way you telll some one you love them ,, lol so for some guys thats the only way they know to say i love you,, so girls when your in bed with your guy and he wants to fuck. And you say no,, and he gets pissed off thats the reason why well kinda first he wants to get off and thats the way he says i love you ,, some guys are a litter deeper they will really try to make it all about you to say they love you and then you still have the wam bam thank you mam get off and say i love you as they are head ot the door but yes there are the guys who want to feel and want you to feel jn that bond connection that is there way and some times tbe only way they know how to tell you they love you or show there love,, so next time dude is getting all lovie dovie and wants to have sex and you say no eneough times wel in his head he says fuck this i need to go find some 1 i can love and yes your right and when that is happing you see the tear its because he is now starting to under stand that word and what it means a little more
1 0 0 0Yes. But it’s weird that girls seem to not relate to that and never believe that it’s how things are.
So if these types of questions need to be asked, are we to conclude that women don’t connect sexually like that? So is sex just naturally a more physical thing for women and connection comes only from outside of it? That would be rather disappointing tbh.1 0 0 0No it connects us too
But I notice that he gets super super happy
I notice that he gets more teary and happier in a more emotional way I meant and for me I feel butterflies in my stomach when we have sex and he’s the only person that I’ve ever had this connection with but I feel most emotional and happy when we’re simply cuddling and his arms are around me
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1 14It's not a general rule but yeah it can happen.
Depends on the perosn and their mental state I suppose1 0 0 0I totally agree with that! It is a bonding experience for both!
2 0 0 0Very true
1 1 0 0Yes, he appreciates you and loves you dearly sounds like a good sign and he is connecting to you when you two are intimate, it shows in his eyes, face, etc.
1 0 0 0Depends on exactly what you mean. They may feel closer to you after being intimate, but that's not the only way men and women connect.
1 0 0 0Men need sex to feel loved. Women need to feel loved to want sex.
(OK that's a simplification, coz girls can be just as sexually unhinged and promiscuous as can guys, but broadly speaking men feel love through the conduit of sex)2 0 0 0Men are humans too
1 0 0 0100% we are emotional people... some men show it and some men don't. For relationship purposes I rather connect emotionally than any other way
2 0 0 0It happens yep.
1 0 0 0True. They connect more through intimacy
1 0 0 0Yes some of us do
2 0 0 0I can’t speak for all guys but that is definitely true of me
1 0 0 0Sure it does, I feel like that too.
1 0 0 0Yeah especially around someone he loves
1 0 0 0It can go either way. Even a fuckboy can catch feelings out of nowhere.
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