www.news18.com/.../...rt-porn-viewers-3430520.htmlNow thanks to America, Hollywood and western influence.. Our generation is very open minded and will discuss sex with their kids..And this problem will resolved with time..
Wow. Thank you for explaining that. I appreciate you taking the time to explain it for me. I would hate to live there :/ But I'm so glad things are getting better. Everyone deserves to have sexual freedom.
Don't thank me.. It is I who should be thankful to you Americans.. Your influence and culture made me realize.. "that I deserve sexual freedom".. Otherwise I would have gone through with arranged marriage lived my whole life blindly like a drone.. You know this is the sole reason why so many Indians have left India and settled in other parts of world.. Go anywhere and any nation in world you will find Indians and Chinese and Korean people.. Same problem is everywhere.. That's not the case with Americans or Europeans.. You guys are happy at your place.. You guys don't settle in India or China or Korea..
Thanks you for the MHO..
This is a really interesting in-depth answer, it's really fascinating to hear why these men are so prevalent.
@KimmyKimchi it will keep happening!..Because the class of Indians who do not embrace western culture or respect it.. Will behave like this.. I like Hollywood movies and pop music.. I have embraced the culture and I know how to talk and behave with girls.. And I follow that rule even on the internet..
It sucks that it has given all Indian guys a bad name tho :/
@KimmyKimchi Yeah!.. If I approach 10 Girls!. 5 of them think I am there for nudes.. So they don't even respond!.But being a man in India, we deal with so many problem and different kind of insult that looks like a very minor problem to us..
So are women more likely to be raped in India? How does that work?
Well I don't know where India stands in the rape statistics but yes if not rape, they will be subjected to immense catcalling and probably groping if they live in a rural area. Most rapes in rural areas are minor rapes where the girl is always blamed. Also spme pervs turn rape into murder and they don't even get harshly punished here.
That's awful. I'm sorry you live in a place like that :/ I hope you're doing okay.
Oh i am alright. I never had to experience such guys luckily. All that can be done is ignore them and mind your own business
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Nobody believes India's reported rape rate.
@0112358 I do. If you're arguing that not all Indian women are reporting rape then that's the same case with America. Not all American women report rape, not all Canadian women report rape, or any other country for that matter. Still the number of reported rape cases in America is 27.3(per 100k), that too after a lot of women don't report being raped.
@Twenty2 If not all American women report rate, but still 27.3 do out of 100k, then it's safe to assume that there are even less reported cases of women being raped in India. Meaning the number of women being raped in India, are actually higher than what you are led to believe.
@Kas19 I know that. The number is higher than the actual number because a lot of crimes are not reported but the argument I am making is that India isn't the only country with unreported crimes. If India has a higher real number with unreported crimes then USA will have even higher real number with unreported crimes.
Of course the us has unreported. Everywhere does. But assuming that the ratio of reported to unreported is the same everywhere is a terrible assumption when societal reactions and police response differ widely. Sweden has a reported rate double the US yet almost certainly is safer.
@0112358 I don't assume anything that's why I didn't talk about the unreported cases. Assuming anything is terrible if you think about it. If we are basing decisions on assumptions rather than facts than you can as well say that unicorns are real. Fuck facts!
You can cross reference data between surveys of victimization and surveys of potential perpetrators. Surprisingly, when you ask men in surveys if they've had sex without consent, those who have appear to be pretty honest about it.
@0112358 and what will that lead to? Will it change the facts? I think it'll only waste my time.
@Twenty2 Facts change when there isn't enough data to begin with. That's why new data is vital in research.If men were able to be comfortable enough to tell people they were forced into sex without consent, it would change the way we view about women being the only victims of sexual abuse, which isn't true.
There is a big "if" in your comment and when that "if" will come to light then we'll discuss the new stats. On a personal note, I don't think anyone thinks that "women are the only victims of sexual abuse" unless they are 3rd wave feminits/woke people. Everyone I know agrees to the fact that world is big and possibility is endless so there might be a fraction of men who are sexual abused too. And there are some cases like that too so that assumption is backed by facts.
@Twenty2 There is no "might" when questioning the fraction of men who are abused. There IS a fraction of men that are, and it will only get worse if the stereotypes towards how men experience abuse continue. Yes, you're correct. But in reference to what @0112358 said, you can cross reference data to come to a conclusion. The conclusion can't obviously be statistically accurate though. You can't assume everything without getting the actual numbers. Which is hard when you probably have many unreported cases of abuse.
Who's saying that numbers are accurate? No one. I am only saying that numbers are inaccurate everywhere. Tho @0112358 on the other hand forgot to mention that US numbers are inaccurate too. He believes the US's reported number which I feel is dumb because that isn't the case. If you read his comment, he literally only mentioned India's reported rate being inaccurate while being silent about USA. I hate this dumbness. If he was saying that numbers are not accurate then I would have sided with him but that wasn't his intention. His intention was to say that India's reported rape rate is not correct whereas USA's reported rape rate is.
@Twenty2 I believe certain people reported it, but many don't. Most don't, actually. We know we have a certain amount of unreported cases here, and we know we have a certain amount of unreported cases.
You are making no sense in the last comment.
@Twenty2 And I don't think he was saying only India has many cases of unreported rapes. But it's safe to assume there is a lot of it. Same with the US.
"Nobody believes India's reported rape rate. " This is his actual comment and I don't see USA anywhere in that. He was targeting India and that's what I find absurd. If he was saying that the stats are wrong overall then I would have agreed with him.
@Twenty2 Sorry, I'm 🍃. Only 230 out of every 1,000 sexual assaults are reported to police. That means about 3 out of 4 go unreported.www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system
I think he's saying no one believes it because there are more people being raped than what's usually reported.
That's a lot. And if that's true then it sucks even more. And I agree with you. I think stats aren't right but that's all we got. I only disagree with the guy who was attacking India while staying silent on USA.
If he would have said that "stats aren't right" I would have supported it. But he pointed out Indian stats and said that no one believes them. That is wrong. No one believes any stats.
I didn't really get that vibe from him so I don't know. But in general, no one believes India's reported rape cases.
Same is the case with USA.
I agree with you!
The USA numbers are way off, but beyond that, there's reason to think that everyone is not off by the same amount. THere can be an inverse ratio where the more effectively rape is prosecuted, the more women report and the higher the reported conviction rate for rape. That's why sweden is double the U. S. while being a safer country. Obviously the media focuses on what's sensational, which is why in the US they are constantly talking about rape on campus, yet victimization data shows college students are quite a bit safer then non-students in the same age range.
@0112358 Perfectly said.
I meant why are they more likely to message women in general. But that's funny.
As I understand it it’s a cultural misunderstanding. They see sex in our tv shows and movies and interpret them to mean that women here are just freely available sex objects.
I see. I never understood why they felt that way, but that makes sense. I imagine living in a bubble echo chamber will do that to ya.
See if you really want to understand that.. You will need to live here to understand it
@Nik1hil It sounds awful there tbh. How is it for you?
" Uh... Because if they messaged men for nudes they wouldn't like any pictures they got back?"@Ms_Vanderquack 😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂This was epic.. You just made my day..
It's awful for me..- my parents never had the bird and the Bees talk with me and I am 24 now..- I never had a girlfriend and if I has pursued or got involved with any girl instead of my education My parents would have kicked me out of the house.. (so yeah still a virgin)- I never had chance for puppy love. - spent all the time from age 15 till today.. Sex for me is my phone, porn and a washroom.. My parents didn't even a lot me a room so that I never have a chance to sneak a girl in and out of my house..You should be great full that you were born in America where you get to celebrate sex with someone else.. Before marriage..These is so much pain and sore spots for me.. But I won't discuss them.. I have learned to be single.. And I will make my parents pay the price for not letting me get involved in relationship until now by doing few things..- I will never marry and they will never have grandkids..- and if i ever marry and get settled it will be in America or any western nation so my kids don't have to suffer this.. And with a western girl and my parents will never get to see my kids..
@Nik1hil Dude you're still so young. You have so much time to find someone. :) Nothing needs to be "accomplished" at a certain age, and you don't have to find a relationship/lose you virginity at a certain age either. Just whenever you're ready and find the right person. I am grateful I have been born in America. I do want to move to a better place but I'm still fortunate to be here. Here in the south a lot of us shame sex before marriage etc. Due to religious reasons, but most of us end up doing it before marriage anyway. I hope you find a country where you can feel at peace.
I know there is no certain age to love virginity..My point is I want to get married and settle by 30 and have kids..I had time from age 15 to 30 to enjoy sexual pleasure with partners and now because of my parents and their control..I have only 6 years instead of 15 years to experience it..It's like you are paying for the whole movie... But you Only get to watch it from interval.. And you can only watch that movie once in your life.. I mean that opportunity is gone from my whole Life..
@Nik1hil feel free to have this conversation elsewhere so I don't keep getting notifications about whatever the fuck y'all are talking about now.
Gotcha gotcha. That's sad to me.
They don’t completely understand things like personal freedom yet*
There are certain ways going about asking for nudes. 1. She has to be flirty and be comfortable with you in a sexual way. Or 2. She a thot and offers you them without you even asking.
@ChefPapiChulo Yes! Consent. So glad to hear you say that.
Lol of all the BS people have given as reasons Chef is right and reasonable in my opinion
@Aakash_Hangargi A few people have given some good explanations I think. But yeah, he explained it very well.
That makes soooo much sense. Thank you for explaining. But yes, it is ignorant.
You are welcome
I didn't say every indian does that.
If they don't like American women then why are they in my dm's trying to hit on me 🥴
Because they want your nude pics. I’m talking about they don’t like you as far as respect goes All American woman
Gotcha gotcha. I do remember seeing a bunch of them talking shit about American women being slutty etc. This is all making much more sense to me. Thanks for the insight.
You are very welcome just block them and report them
Aye Aye cap'n
You are quite welcome mate 🏴☠️
They do? I've never heard of that happening.
First time for everything
I literally thought it said you were under 18 and I was like WHO IS SENDING YOU THOSE PICTURES IM GONNA BEAT THEIR ASS 🥺
Damn you are so hilarious 😂🤣😝✌️👌
Yeah, lol at least there intentions are clear 😂😂.You can expect what they are aiming for there are lot of people who con on the internet
That fucking SUCKS
I actually feel bad now 🥴
Wow same bro
Sounds more like Pakistan not India.
Are you Indian?