
- Hi.. Kas.. I am from India.. Living and seeing this issue daily..
And I think I can explain it to you In few points.
1) We never had that great sex revolution like America, where sex was started to be viewed as sport and done for pleasure.. If you are pursuing sex or Masturbating for sexual pleasure.. It is seen as bad thing and you are shunned for doing it.. Sex here is only for making babies and that is why we have such huge population, and when babies are born.. People say "It's a gift from god."
2) according to parents Genitals are only for peeing.. They don't have any reproductive functions.. That's how parents here behave..
3) Sex cannot be discussed openly, and with cheap internet, people here find escape in virtual world for discussing Sex..
There are many such reasons that totally sum up to Indian people discussing and letting their sexual urges out on the internet.
Now among all these people most people find satisfaction in Porns...
But some people want a personal connection because it helps they cum..
So they resort to sexting and nudes..
And since you already know men are visual..
So men will ask for NUDES.
Just because white girls sunbath and wear clothes that show skin..
Stupid people here think.. White girls don't have any standards..
Now these stupid people belong to state level education system mostly..
Education system here is divided into 3
ISCE, CBSE, State board (different of every state)
The key to recognize such stupid people is
" They struggle with speaking English."
Yes even proper English speaking men will ask for nude but not instantly on first meet.
And men like me will never ask for nudes..
Porn and erotica Works for me very well.. And I don't need those..
If you need to ask anything more regarding this subject or INDIA.
You are most welcomed to ask..
And
NEWS : Uttar Pradesh (A state of India) just introduced a law that if your search porn on any browser.. Cops will send you a message and your ISP a message to take action and back away..
And porn sites are now banned in India..
And if you are feeling generous and pity full for people here.. Next time they ask for nudes send them nudes of female porn stars from internet.
Don't share your own nudes..
And if you want to have fun than shoot 20-25 dick pics that your received at the Indian men asking for nudes..
Don't worry about how he will feel.. Every Indian men has be tortured to the edge of not finding sexually pleasure and are sexually frustrated..
I am safe because. I use TOR +PROXY +VPN to access all the porn I need..2|20|0Is this still revelant?www.news18.com/.../...rt-porn-viewers-3430520.html
Now thanks to America, Hollywood and western influence.. Our generation is very open minded and will discuss sex with their kids..
And this problem will resolved with time..Wow. Thank you for explaining that. I appreciate you taking the time to explain it for me. I would hate to live there :/ But I'm so glad things are getting better. Everyone deserves to have sexual freedom.
Don't thank me..
It is I who should be thankful to you Americans..
Your influence and culture made me realize..
"that I deserve sexual freedom"..
Otherwise I would have gone through with arranged marriage lived my whole life blindly like a drone..
You know this is the sole reason why so many Indians have left India and settled in other parts of world..
Go anywhere and any nation in world you will find Indians and Chinese and Korean people..
Same problem is everywhere..
That's not the case with Americans or Europeans.. You guys are happy at your place.. You guys don't settle in India or China or Korea..- Show All Show Less
This is a really interesting in-depth answer, it's really fascinating to hear why these men are so prevalent.
@KimmyKimchi it will keep happening!..
Because the class of Indians who do not embrace western culture or respect it.. Will behave like this..
I like Hollywood movies and pop music..
I have embraced the culture and I know how to talk and behave with girls..
And I follow that rule even on the internet..@KimmyKimchi
Yeah!.. If I approach 10 Girls!. 5 of them think I am there for nudes.. So they don't even respond!.
But being a man in India, we deal with so many problem and different kind of insult that looks like a very minor problem to us..
- If you've been on the Internet for more than a week, you'll probably have figured out a few things:
- Men in general are horny, and a lot of them are sexually frustrated.
- A SMALL but very LOUD and BOLD group of guys use the anonymity of the Internet to be complete selfish jerks, because they don't care about anything but getting their way. They don't represent the vast majority of men, but even if it's only 2% or so of all men, when you have a large pool of participants, 2% of the males can still be a big number.
- India is a country with 600,000,000 males in a pretty repressive culture, which means the percentage of selfish, entitled men is probably closer to 10%, especially dealing with western women.
- Indian men see western (and especially American) girls being much more sexually open, and a sizable percentage of them view American women as sluts who are only good for sex, and they figure they might as well get some sex (or, as close to that as they can get online, such as nudes) while the getting is good. And they feel entitled to get it quickly and on-demand, so they can go from seemingly sweet to complete assholes in 5 seconds. They aren't looking for a relationship of any kind, just nudes, so they don't care if they're jerks - whatever it takes to convince you, manipulate you, or bully you is fine if it gets then nudes.
Once you take all this into account, you realize that you need to treat them the same way you'd treat a telemarketer - ignore them completely until they get bored and go away. DO NOT ENGAGE with them.1|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- Anonymous9 dAs an Indian girl, i will tell you this. Porn is not banned here. I watch it often. Sex before marrriage happens very very often. Others just do not get to know about it because sex is a taboo here. Ik girls who have gangbangs. Even if i talk to Indian guys on this therapy site i use to help people, they will try to turn it sexual. But i make it crystal clear before the convo that i do not sext nor do i take sexual problems which have resulted in me getting blocked by many such guys. But yes i have also been asked to send nudes by non Indian guys too.
I assure you it's not every Indian guys. My school friends (guys i have been really close to) are really decent guys who have never acted filthy.
The main reason why Western women experience this is because white girls are what they saw in porn growing up. Their brains are taught to think that they're easy and horny girls who will give them what they want. Again these are uneducated classless pervs who think "Sex happens only after marriage here". And also compared to Western girls, Indian women will always come as a 2nd choice to such guys educated or uneducated. I mean i saw an Indian guy here (who seemed decent) describe what he likes in girls and all his turn ons had western beauty standards as in blue eyes blonde hair.
If you think experiencing this is bad, then you should meet my mom who have always pulled my top down because the outline of my butt cheeks was visible. It's way way worse for girls in rural areas.
Anyway to me it doesn't matter what a person's nationality is, if he/she asks something sexual, i will block him/her.1|00|0Is this still revelant?So are women more likely to be raped in India? How does that work?
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Well I don't know where India stands in the rape statistics but yes if not rape, they will be subjected to immense catcalling and probably groping if they live in a rural area. Most rapes in rural areas are minor rapes where the girl is always blamed. Also spme pervs turn rape into murder and they don't even get harshly punished here.
That's awful. I'm sorry you live in a place like that :/ I hope you're doing okay.
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Oh i am alright. I never had to experience such guys luckily. All that can be done is ignore them and mind your own business
- Omg this got me cracking up🤣🤣🤣🤣
This man is having a conversation all by himself. Gosh
But to answer your question I suppose it's because we are less likely to have a conversation about sex or sexual anything. Many or much of what we learn is from internet. Which also means that many people don't have the etiquette.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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930- That's kinda funny with all that spelling mistakes feels more like troll post or meme there were some jokes likes bob and vagine 😂😂.
I would like to ask you a few questions, answer it honestly this is in order to understand things.
1. How many of Guys, i mean guys in general would send you DMs? Be it guys from any ethnicity?
2. how many guys would send unsolicited D picks? Be it of any ethnicity.
3. Can you check in your DMs and see like on an average ratio how many men sent you DMs that are sexually explicit.
No matter how good there at English.
4. And also answer me this how would you feel if the same questions were asked by your Ethnic group like say for your self how likely and differently would you have reacted to it?
5. If an Handsome hunk asked for the same things and if you were around 20 to 26 how would you respond to it like you like the guy.
{still stranger though, and also from any ethnicity, and if asked with proper conviction}.
6. to tell you its mostly it's a common thing that men do being varied of there ethnicity but the level of tolerance showed by different groups vary.
7. In general any man whose thirsty would do it where one assumes that kind of behaviour would be acceptable as in form of sexual freedom.
8. Its just that done are more persistent than others I know it sucks but it's the truth, it's all about the chance and probability taken in general way.
9. It's not about disrespect or viewing as objects, but just a general view what the people get to see on telivision people believe it's true and wanna try there luck.
Ps. i have asked the questions based on curiosity and not to debate but discuss0|00|0 - Because Indian dudes are more in number. US population is 331 million whereas Indian population is 1.38 billion. That 0.38 means 380 million. Even a tiny fraction of Indians is just too much. But on the other hand, USA has a rape rate of 27.3(per 100k) whereas India only has 1.8(per 100k). I think you should be more concerned about that.1|00|1
@0112358 I do. If you're arguing that not all Indian women are reporting rape then that's the same case with America. Not all American women report rape, not all Canadian women report rape, or any other country for that matter. Still the number of reported rape cases in America is 27.3(per 100k), that too after a lot of women don't report being raped.
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@Kas19 I know that. The number is higher than the actual number because a lot of crimes are not reported but the argument I am making is that India isn't the only country with unreported crimes. If India has a higher real number with unreported crimes then USA will have even higher real number with unreported crimes.
Of course the us has unreported. Everywhere does. But assuming that the ratio of reported to unreported is the same everywhere is a terrible assumption when societal reactions and police response differ widely. Sweden has a reported rate double the US yet almost certainly is safer.
You can cross reference data between surveys of victimization and surveys of potential perpetrators. Surprisingly, when you ask men in surveys if they've had sex without consent, those who have appear to be pretty honest about it.
@Twenty2 Facts change when there isn't enough data to begin with. That's why new data is vital in research.
If men were able to be comfortable enough to tell people they were forced into sex without consent, it would change the way we view about women being the only victims of sexual abuse, which isn't true.There is a big "if" in your comment and when that "if" will come to light then we'll discuss the new stats.
On a personal note, I don't think anyone thinks that "women are the only victims of sexual abuse" unless they are 3rd wave feminits/woke people. Everyone I know agrees to the fact that world is big and possibility is endless so there might be a fraction of men who are sexual abused too. And there are some cases like that too so that assumption is backed by facts.@Twenty2
There is no "might" when questioning the fraction of men who are abused. There IS a fraction of men that are, and it will only get worse if the stereotypes towards how men experience abuse continue. Yes, you're correct.
But in reference to what @0112358 said, you can cross reference data to come to a conclusion. The conclusion can't obviously be statistically accurate though. You can't assume everything without getting the actual numbers. Which is hard when you probably have many unreported cases of abuse.Who's saying that numbers are accurate? No one. I am only saying that numbers are inaccurate everywhere. Tho @0112358 on the other hand forgot to mention that US numbers are inaccurate too. He believes the US's reported number which I feel is dumb because that isn't the case. If you read his comment, he literally only mentioned India's reported rate being inaccurate while being silent about USA. I hate this dumbness. If he was saying that numbers are not accurate then I would have sided with him but that wasn't his intention. His intention was to say that India's reported rape rate is not correct whereas USA's reported rape rate is.
"Nobody believes India's reported rape rate. " This is his actual comment and I don't see USA anywhere in that. He was targeting India and that's what I find absurd. If he was saying that the stats are wrong overall then I would have agreed with him.
@Twenty2 Sorry, I'm 🍃.
Only 230 out of every 1,000 sexual assaults are reported to police. That means about 3 out of 4 go unreported.
www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-systemI think he's saying no one believes it because there are more people being raped than what's usually reported.
That's a lot. And if that's true then it sucks even more. And I agree with you. I think stats aren't right but that's all we got. I only disagree with the guy who was attacking India while staying silent on USA.
If he would have said that "stats aren't right" I would have supported it. But he pointed out Indian stats and said that no one believes them. That is wrong. No one believes any stats.
I didn't really get that vibe from him so I don't know. But in general, no one believes India's reported rape cases.
The USA numbers are way off, but beyond that, there's reason to think that everyone is not off by the same amount. THere can be an inverse ratio where the more effectively rape is prosecuted, the more women report and the higher the reported conviction rate for rape. That's why sweden is double the U. S. while being a safer country.
Obviously the media focuses on what's sensational, which is why in the US they are constantly talking about rape on campus, yet victimization data shows college students are quite a bit safer then non-students in the same age range.
- Uh... Because if they messaged men for nudes they wouldn't like any pictures they got back?1|10|0
As I understand it it’s a cultural misunderstanding. They see sex in our tv shows and movies and interpret them to mean that women here are just freely available sex objects.
I see. I never understood why they felt that way, but that makes sense. I imagine living in a bubble echo chamber will do that to ya.
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See if you really want to understand that.. You will need to live here to understand it
" Uh... Because if they messaged men for nudes they wouldn't like any pictures they got back?"
@Ms_Vanderquack 😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂
This was epic.. You just made my day..It's awful for me..
- my parents never had the bird and the Bees talk with me and I am 24 now..
- I never had a girlfriend and if I has pursued or got involved with any girl instead of my education My parents would have kicked me out of the house.. (so yeah still a virgin)
- I never had chance for puppy love.
- spent all the time from age 15 till today.. Sex for me is my phone, porn and a washroom.. My parents didn't even a lot me a room so that I never have a chance to sneak a girl in and out of my house..
You should be great full that you were born in America where you get to celebrate sex with someone else.. Before marriage..
These is so much pain and sore spots for me.. But I won't discuss them.. I have learned to be single..
And I will make my parents pay the price for not letting me get involved in relationship until now by doing few things..
- I will never marry and they will never have grandkids..
- and if i ever marry and get settled it will be in America or any western nation so my kids don't have to suffer this.. And with a western girl and my parents will never get to see my kids..@Nik1hil Dude you're still so young. You have so much time to find someone. :) Nothing needs to be "accomplished" at a certain age, and you don't have to find a relationship/lose you virginity at a certain age either. Just whenever you're ready and find the right person.
I am grateful I have been born in America. I do want to move to a better place but I'm still fortunate to be here. Here in the south a lot of us shame sex before marriage etc. Due to religious reasons, but most of us end up doing it before marriage anyway.
I hope you find a country where you can feel at peace.I know there is no certain age to love virginity..
My point is I want to get married and settle by 30 and have kids..
I had time from age 15 to 30 to enjoy sexual pleasure with partners and now because of my parents and their control..
I have only 6 years instead of 15 years to experience it..
It's like you are paying for the whole movie... But you Only get to watch it from interval.. And you can only watch that movie once in your life..
I mean that opportunity is gone from my whole Life..@Nik1hil feel free to have this conversation elsewhere so I don't keep getting notifications about whatever the fuck y'all are talking about now.
- It’s a developing country. They completely understand things like personal freedom yet. They even have arranged marriages still. Now some parts of India are more developed, so it’s not every Indian doing these things. Just the very uneducated.1|00|1
There are certain ways going about asking for nudes. 1. She has to be flirty and be comfortable with you in a sexual way. Or 2. She a thot and offers you them without you even asking.
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Lol of all the BS people have given as reasons Chef is right and reasonable in my opinion
@Aakash_Hangargi A few people have given some good explanations I think. But yeah, he explained it very well.
- Look at the population of India and then you'll see there are quite a lot of them on here and they typically weren't taught some proper morals.0|00|0
- Maybe they think the direct approach is better.
I like to chat a bit before I ask for pics of the "bobs and vegene"0|00|0 - Basically the eastern cultures aren't open to sex as the west so they think its ok to ask this from a western women ( as western women more open minded when it's come to sex).
- ignorance.1|00|0 - Those are some weird ones... Not every Indian are like that 😂1|10|0
- Anonymous10 dI am taking a guess here. As far as I am concerned females are seen less valuable compared to males in India. As a result a lot of females are getting aborted. That leed to having a lot more males than females inside the country. The last time I looked it up there where around 60 million more males in India.
That is a problem since guys have problems finding a partner.0|10|0 - Because they don’t like American women and they just shit on them but leave their own kind alone2|00|1
Because they want your nude pics. I’m talking about they don’t like you as far as respect goes All American woman
Gotcha gotcha. I do remember seeing a bunch of them talking shit about American women being slutty etc. This is all making much more sense to me. Thanks for the insight.
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- Lol I like at the end he makes comment to show you contacted him in the first place, all I can say is he was born at a very young age and came outsideways and can smell noises0|00|0
- Who are Bob and Vagene? Is Vagene an Italian name? And why does this Indian guy want him?
The mystery grows deeper...0|00|0 - Send bobs and vagannahttps://www.youtube.com/embed/YM2NQgIG-QM0|00|0
- The UN needs to do something about this lol i wonder ic they are from India or pakistan. Because if it was pakistan it would make a lot of sense if they were from there lol1|00|0
- It's mostly because non-Indians know how to spell.
One other reason: From regions where there are monkey gods, and where dead grandmothers are said to return as cows you can't expect much civilized attitude.0|00|2 - Anonymous10 dYes. Also more likely to send pictures of a 3-4inch erect penis🤏0|00|0
I literally thought it said you were under 18 and I was like WHO IS SENDING YOU THOSE PICTURES IM GONNA BEAT THEIR ASS 🥺
- Small dicks make them desperate and go off a script. They can’t be creative in dirty talk. No bde1|00|0
- Anonymous8 dProbably because they are so repressed in their culture that they need some sort of outlet to release frustration and horniness so want some type of visual stimuli1|00|0
- Because they don't know how to speak English well but they're persistent on asking0|00|0
- Damn!
I have been going about this all wrong!!!
-starts taking notes-1|00|0 - they just know the real way to seduce a lady1|20|0
Yeah, lol at least there intentions are clear 😂😂.
You can expect what they are aiming for there are lot of people who con on the internet
- Anonymous10 dThey banned porn in their country and they also have to wait till marriage to have sex.1|00|0
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- Has to do with their society of a cast system.0|00|0
- LOL they must be lonely and horny desperates0|00|0
- Cause in India women are not valued in India0|00|0
- feel like this is more of a rhetorical question0|00|0
- Damn Indian men! They are so fucking smooth!1|00|0
- First and foremost because of sheer numbers.1|00|1
- Anonymous8 dCoca Cola should teach them to be less indian0|00|0
- Anonymous8 dThey're nuts.0|00|0
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