I decided I’m going for it what my husband wanted from long?

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Basically I asked question yesterday about having sex with strangers because my husband wants to watch me and after I received all opinions and some inbox message which was really helpful and boost up my confidence level I decided that I am going to go for it and enjoy our marriage life and my self because he wants to spice up things in marriage and I spoke to him last night about everything and also decided boundaries. But I’m still nervous how i will perform and he suggested we start with friends and I think I want to go for totally strangers? I will be more nervous if I have sex with conman friend but then also thinking it will easy on the other side I’m total confuse mind.

The good thing is I said yes to him and we had sex twice back to back last night. Also he wants us to go for lingerie shopping so advice me what should I buy?

Alexandrubaschet08 · Accepted Answer

If you have decided to make this fantasy a reality, you have a choice between giving a very good show or being as safe and protected as possible in this fantasy.
Your husband proposes the option, friends. He wants discretion and not to be discovered, it is also a much better idea to reduce the risk of disease. Indeed, it may not always be a very comfortable idea for partners.
If you choose the foreign version, it is clear that it is a much freer option. The stranger will not have much time to be trained, his sexual past will not be known to you. But this option is much more comfortable for the sex you want to have, I mean positions, words during sex, it is easier to try certain ideas during that fantasy knowing that you will not meet that person too soon.
Regarding shopping, I suggest you go together and let him choose the necessary ones but according to your preferences.
I suggest you buy a pair of lace stockings, a bra, a beautiful pair of shoes + other decorative accessories, such as stocking straps or corset...
A lot of ideas can come up when shopping

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

The fact you are even capable of doing it... with a complete stranger while your husband is right there... is just awful.

I'm sure you two will be divorced in a few years.
You really think this won't end in disaster for your marriage?

"Spicing things up" what a foolish, deceit and lie that is.
This will eventually lead to heart ache for one of you or both of you and I doubt the marriage will last last long term.

A complete stranger? Really? You'll let someone you don't even know touch you everywhere, be inside you... touch and taste him all over?

Really?
What the hell is wrong with people these days.

Kas19 · Accepted Answer

So excited for you! Have fun and be safe. Remember to communicate with your partner and those that you're engaging in these activities with. Don't force yourself to do anything that makes you uncomfortable, even if it's in the middle of the act and you want to stop.

Anyway, enjoy! :)

weysally · Accepted Answer

be absolutely certain that it is what you both want, I'm not trying to put you off, or to encourage you either, it worked for us but it has driven a wedge between others that have tried it before they were ready

Ewgies01 · Answer

I’d say go with a stranger. But if at ANY point this doesn’t feel right to you, stop.

How about starting small like kissing a stranger topless and see how you feel. Work your way up to the sex slowly. It’s more fun that way anyway.

AshleyTaylorDanny · Answer

Definitely DON'T start this with friends... I seen friendships ruined over this. You can always post a couples profile on AFF and meet potential playmates together and make sure you all are comfortable. As far as lingerie is concerned it all depends on your shape as to what would look good on you.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

As others have said try to avoid friends, it usually causes all sorts of problems

when going with a stranger, make sure you both vet him, sexual health clearance is required, it’s important you can trust him sexually and also that he is what you want.

a lot of single guys will want to but have no experience of couples, sometimes going with another couple is a good way of doing it.

also when you eventually pick a guy, take it slow, decide some rules

personally, I would go with another couple, usually safer sexual health, and a girl to talk to who may have more experience,

main thing is be safe sexual health and safe physically

ohshee · Answer

So very hot and sexy

ZackBan · Answer

Well good for you I guess.

I do recommend total strangers maybe mention to him that it would be a weird friendship if a friend was the one to do it. It might lead to awkward gatherings but a stranger who knows why he's there will just do the deed and go. And if he's worried about the person being a creep then tell him there's literally 4 billion willing participants in the world and you can find a nice, clean, respectful one who would understand boundries and all that.

But still it's impressive that such a thing really exists I wish I could meet a couple looking for someone like that

TazWax · Answer

Definitely go with stangers! That's always the rule when you bring a third party in so no one gets in their feelings.

Finchie40 · Answer

Bad idea , and your marriage probably won’t last long after you do it , so be prepared for a divorce , your husband’s fantasy is going to turn into a nightmare and he will resent you

bowenw · Answer

It's your body so you should decide who you have sex with and what you're comfortable doing. In my opinion strangers are best but you should try to ensure they have no STD or COVID. I'm sure any kind of lingerie will work.

Memphis56 · Answer

Question for you. What if he wants to sleep with other women? Would you be comfortable with that?

Andres77 · Answer

When do you plan on doing this? I'm excited for you. I hope it works out. Please let us know how it went.

oncpl · Answer

It certainly adds to sexual pleasure.

joeldalton · Answer

Bad idea.

HelenJacob · Answer

You are in luck. You have a wonderful husband :) You will never regret

Meldrum · Answer

As far as lingerie, I love those open crotch panty's but make sure you're bald down there, especially if you're going to entertain other men or women. Look up "local swingers" and you might find the right "fit".

Henrickel · Answer

I'm against this. You are just a fucking machine for your husband. It's your life, enjoy!

Kelly6 · Answer

This lifestyle is fun but it’s not good for everyone, either it will bond you both more strongly or  it can also break you apart. so be careful and have fun

Valnac · Answer

If you were my girl, I would never want to see another guys cock inside her pussy.

Twenty2 · Answer

Where are you from in India?

Guido · Answer

Your going to have fun. Get yourself a bustier, garter belt and stockings. Can never go wrong with that combination. You will look and and feel sexy. Wish I was the lucky guy joining you.