I’m nervous to see my boyfriend’s penis. what do I do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for a little while. So most of our sexual interactions are through photos. We’re both fairly inexperienced and have been keeping it to just suggestive photos. But there’s only so much he can do without showing his dick. But for some reason it makes me nervous to fully see it, I really don’t know why. He knows this and it’s completely up to me for when I see it.

I want to see it, but I’m inexperienced and have never seen a dick in person or through like a dick pic. I don’t know why it makes me nervous but it does. Any ideas as to what I should do to kind of get over this fear and nervousness? Thank you I’m advanced and sorry for the overly personal question aha

[TonyV]

Well you should wait till your ready, there's no need to rush it.

Why do you think you're nervous?
What do you know about his penis? Has he described it at all?
Are you worried about size? Like if it's too big or too small you'll be disapointed or worried it will hurt?

Try and help me understand what about it makes you nervous.

Things we know.
- It will either be cercumsized or uncercumsized.
- It may or may not have visable veins
- He may or may not have shaved down there.

Are you worried you won't know how to respond to it?

[Red_Arrow]

You have the whole internet to see many pictures of dicks. Take some time and actually look on the internet at penises, both simple art or medical pictures, to porn pictures. That way there is no pressure and no expectations from the one showing you. Then you can advance to seeing his.
You do not mention you sending pictures of yourself to him. Is that something you are doing?

[Asker]

I’m familiar with dicks in general just have never seen one of someone who I actually know which is he nerve racking part I think. But thank you I’ll try and explore some more. Yes I do send him photos fairly often

[Red_Arrow]

Some gals will actually ask a guy friend for some things that others find weird, but a lot of the guys come through. If you have a close guy friend you can ask to see, maybe go with that. And it would help you to see (irl) different ones. The tell your guy you are ready to see his. It is good that you are sending him pictures, but because you are already sending him pictures I am surprised that you have not yet asked to see his.

[Asker]

I sadly do not have a close enough guy friend to do that aha, but thank you. I would like to see his it’s just sort of nerve racking to actually pull the trigger with it I guess

[Red_Arrow]

You might actually have a guy friend or two like that, but just don't know they are willing. And not knowing that, you really can't do anything about it.

[Asker]

Aha possibly but I’d feel weird about asking and even for these purposes I don't know how much my boyfriend would enjoy me asking to see another dudes dick lol. But yeah hopefully I can just gain the courage aha

[Red_Arrow]

Then best of luck to you.

[Asker]

Thank you :)

[Lexi_Lous]

I would go watch porn just to look at dicks, maybe with that you get used to seeing it, your boyfriend's should look like those, maybe a size difference but that's all

[JPrez]

Buy a carrot or cucumber at the grocery store, average size, and stare at it and maybe even practice certain things with it. You'll soon lose your fear.

[Titanic1912]

My girlfriend and I were very nervous to see each other naked together. She was nervous about seeing my penis and I was nervous about seeing her boobs and vagina. I was worried about seeing her boobs and getting a huge erection. I did but she liked seeing my penis hard. And she liked it when I complimented her boobs and her butt. Maybe you could show him your boobs or your vagina. Tell him that he can trust you not to share his penis with your friends.

[Nalix]

It sounds like you're not nervous to see a penis for the first time, but nervous that will be an intimate moment between the two of you and you're not sure how that intimate exposure will feel. Just give each other a hug while you relax. Start with that. That will help you get into the moment. Maybe let him explore your body first.

[OutdoorsForLife]

Would it help to see a dick pic?

[Asker]

I wouldn’t say so, no

[OutdoorsForLife]

Have him send a print, his dick under boxers so you see the outline

[Asker]

He has before, a good few times which definitely eased the nerves a bit

[OutdoorsForLife]

Next step is he sends one just showing the head exposed

[Asker]

Alright, thank you I’ll suggest that to him as a next step

[OutdoorsForLife]

No worries

[Feelicks]

I don't know, read the wikipedia article about dicks?

Didn't you take biology or sex ed, or shower/change co ed? How can you be so sheltered?

[Asker]

I’m not completely oblivious to dicks, I’ve seen them before in porn and sex ed/medical photos (never had a co ed shower or anything though) I’ve just never seen one of someone I’ve actually known and been with

[Meldrum]

Pornhub. com By the time you've seen a couple of videos you'll be a pro.

[COMMODOREII]

When he pulls it out just scream and run away. See what happens. 😂

[Whtevernever]

You could be patient and wait or, just google some dicks, look at a few and you'll get down to the level of unimpressed most penises deserve.

[Valnac]

Have him lay down and get on top of him and just rub your pussy dry humping.

[EaterPeter]

Check wiki page or some scientific website with pictures. Which shows different shape size and color penises. Cut uncut and different erection levels. Or just see his coz haven't seen any. It's still online.

[EaterPeter]

You haven't*

[Seppel]

I don't know. I was never nervous to see someone naked

[billluc69]

turn out the lights

[Zach1457]

Have you never watched some sorta porn content before?

[Anonymous]

Ask for a dick pic.