Being a virgin has absolutely nothing to do with getting aroused, clitoris, or otherwise. Getting aroused is different for different people. Had you stimulated your love juices with masturbation before diving right in with the vibrator? Did you cover your clit with a cloth, like a silk shirt, or go right on it with the full force of the vibrator?
My suggestion is to get your love juices going and finger yourself before using the vibrator, or you could use baby oil to get things started. A dry clit and a mechanical device can be painful. Using a silk shirt will shield the clitoris until you start to really feel like you want to cum, then remove the shirt and move around the clit with the vibrator until you're at the edge and if you get on it with the tool, you'll cum like you've ever cum before.0 0 0 0
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Evidently for women, the sexual response is learned. Do you even know where your clit is? For many, the g-spot stimulation along with clitoral, even anal, sends them over the top.
It may not have enough oomph. Try a rabbit, or a hitachi magic wand.0 0 0 0
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1 16Do you orgasms when you masturbate without the vibe? Try some lube with it, try using your fingers to help and focus on what feels good and do not worry about the orgasm... it will happen if you don't try so hard.
1 0 0 0What did you get?
0 0 0 0Maybe that's not what gets you off. You need to discover what gets you there. It's more than just physical by the way.
1 0 0 0Practice makes perfect.
0 0 0 0You can get aroused by being naughty in your brain. What’s a sexual fantasy of yours?
1 0 0 0Well, you might need to find out what works for you with it.
0 0 0 0I suggest taking it out of the box before you put it in
0 0 0 0You should have gotten one of these. 😎
https://www.amazon.com/LELO-Clitoral-Waterproof-Rechargeable-Stimulator/dp/B075GGQGVK
0 0 0 0You have to be sexually aroused and soaking wet.
0 0 0 0Keep practicing and find out what feels good. It will happen.
1 0 0 0Which vibrator did you buy?
0 0 0 0This your first time with toy. Right?
0 0 0 0Explore more to find the sweet spot i guess and listen to hands free orgasm frequencies on YouTube to get you more in the mood
1 0 0 0Are you using any visuals to get you excited (photo / video) that helps
0 0 0 0Try coconut oil and take your time. Better than any vibrator (too mechanical)!
0 0 0 0Did you naturally lubricate or use lube such as KY? Were you in a place where you weren't worried about being discovered? Did you feel nervous doing it?
0 0 0 0Do you usually cum from clit stimulation? The vibrator is a tool. It's you who have to get yourself aroused and over the edge.
0 2 0 0urmm its my first time so i have yet to cum. How do I get myself arouse?
You can read erotica or watch porn. Do you get horny during the day. Masturbate when you're horny.
Experiment and find out what really turns you on, then you will know. :)
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