Why do men like raw sex, does it connect you better to that person?

When reading a lot of men’s post on here, most of them talk about raw sex.
Does it ever connect you better with the person that you’re having sex with? Or does it still not matter and it just feels good?
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Raw sex: means without the condom. Do you guys not think about the consequences?
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  • 1. Yes. It does connect me with that person more. It is the most intimate act you can experience with a woman. The only act more intimate is raw dog and actually being allowed to cum deep inside her.

    2. The reason why raw dog is the most important experience a man can have with someone is because it feels completely different than a condom. Many woman can't tell the difference between sex with or without a condom. But the sensations on a man's penis can definitely tell. A man can feel the tightness of the vagina and the wetness of it and the warmth of it. All of these are the most pleasurable experiences a man can ever experience in a life time. Sometimes I can feel her vagina throbbing or even massaging my penis when I am deep inside a lady.

    3. Raw sex releases body memory. It circuits the brain into remembering feelings of intense pleasure. Every vagina feels different. Every sexual partner feels different. So there are chemicals of bonding released by having sex with someone and especially orgasming. But the bond is intensified when there is no condom.

    4. I can recall breakups with ex girlfriends that I had raw sex with. My body remembered how it felt to be inside them. It remembered a pleasurable experience that was only unique to that girl. I literally went insane with horny hypersexuality. That was how much I missed those partners and being inside them. Its addicting.

    5. Breakups with girls who I have only worn condoms with the whole time are sad. It is sad emotionally. But breakups with a long term partner where you have had unprotected sex for months and it became something normal? It drives you insane. You have a physical NEED to be deep inside them. It feels like home but intensely pleasurable.

  • Raw sex is way better but I would only have raw sex with a girl that I been with for awhile and felt it was leading somewhere and I trusted her , but for some random girl I met at a party or wherever I am wearing a condom , sex is best without a condom but playing it safe is smarter

    • Thanks bro

    • I meant thanks sweetie lol 😂

Most Helpful Girls

  • It just feels good. It has nothing to do with a better interpersonal connection.
    It's just stimulation. Don't be fooled.
    You need the better interpersonal connection long before that "raw" sex.
    NEVER do it with a stranger either. You have no idea who they've had sex with before you.
    Never do it with anyone you haven't been tested with for STDs.
    If you want to avoid pregnancy, learn how to do the mucous test so you know you're not fertile and only have sex during that short window. (it's a few days a month... maybe 10 total before a woman's period, skipping fertile days, then after a woman's period. Takes practice. But once you learn how to check, it's highly accurate. You can add basal body temp to that and you're more than 90% assured to not get pregnant. Nearly as good as condom and spermicide...
    Planned Parenthood Lecturer...

  • No! Just feels better on their dick. (Feels better on your pussy too but not better enough to risk getting pregnant or an STD.)

    • Thanks 😊

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  • They secretly want a kid so they can pay child support for 18 years and are hoping you will give them one. But to throw this back at you @justneedtokno, do you like raw sex? Whatever the reason is that you like it will probably the same reason guys like it.

  • It just feels better.

  • You think I don't consider the consequences? What are the consequences? My girlfriend is 57 and, obviously, post-menopausal. I got tested for STDs after I broke up with my previous partner and I had no diseases. She gets tested every year (over-cautious primary care) and her last sexual relationship ended about two years ago.

    What are the consequences?

    Yes, sex without a condom feels much better and it feels a bit closer emotionally as well as physically.

  • Not sure what you mean by raw sex.

    Either without a condom = Raw

    or

    as in just sex no foreplay or after play

    and no not all do, when you are having unprotected sex, then you will be further in to the relationship and yes it then means deeper commitment.

  • Condoms suck. It's like trying to cook or play the piano wearing winter gloves. You'd be crazy not to wear one in this day and age (I don't believe in the "pull out" method; that's risky AF and kinda stupid), but yeah... Condoms still suck.

  • The guys on here are most definitely saying that they just prefer the feeling. Thats all.

    • It’s the only feeling most guys have. Shallow, heartless, ...

  • It feels better...

  • It feels sooooo much better, but I wouldn’t do that unless I was with the girl or trusted that she was clean, my dick is more important to me than getting laid once lol. That’s like playing Russian roulette with my dick and I’m sorry no girl is worth that risk!

  • It is not about an emotional connection. Raw sex if 100 times better than condom sex. I am gathering you have not experienced sex without a condom if you are asking like this. There may as well be a grocery bag between us if I have to use a condom. This is another reason to only have sex with people you trust and for guys to get a vasectomy.

  • All sex that I have is with a condom. I can connect with the woman in other ways if having sex without a condom connects you better... LOL

  • I do not mind a condom until I know she is on birth control and we have both been tested.

  • It's a question I have also asked myself - I guess sometimes it's just responding to the impulse of the moment - probably the spontaneity of the act that makes it alluring.

  • it feels better and it is more intimate

  • Same reasons girls like it without a condom, it feels better.
    We feel the pussy more and girls get a better dick experience.
    I had a female friend who said she didn't like condoms cause she couldnt feel the head and veins as well, and she liked to feel those.

    • I definitely think about the consequences, I dont want a kid right now so I'm gonna wear one always until I'm ready for a kid. I was just saying I know why they dont want to were it, it feels better, plain and simple.

  • It’s easy to say that when you’re not the one with the uterus.

  • i don't know about connections since i am not into that sort of crap but raw means no holds barred, fuck and cum like you want, it is freedom.

  • Your doing some crazy overthinking lol all its to do with is feeling better

    • Yes why i dont do it if I dont trust the women

    • So there has to be a level of trust

    • For some people not for all

  • I prefer ot Raw. Feels better which makes me cum harder and more often.

  • Several reasons. First, it feels better - for both partners. Second, even if you are prepared and put it out and are ready, putting a condom on can be a disruption to the sex that slows down the mood. Third, they aren’t the sexiest thing in the world.

  • I always assumed it just feels better

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