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My SO has emotional issues with blowjobs?

paullingren
This is a question for the ladies.

My SO has massive emotional/psychological issues with giving blowjobs. She hasn't said much with regard to the physical sensation, but on multiple occasions she mentioned feeling ashamed, low, or dirty (not in a good way) from doing them. So naturally I stopped asking and haven't for a loooong time.

She grew up in a household where sexuality was heavily repressed and shamed. No locks on doors, no boyfriends, no sexuality of any kind. Even though she was curious from a young age.

Ladies, how can I help her through these traumas so she can express her true self sexually? What thoughts help you feel comfortable with yourself in that way? What turns you on about pleasing a man? How can I make a space for her where we can get her limiting beliefs out in the open and get past them? I want her to be happy.
My SO has emotional issues with blowjobs?
My SO has emotional issues with blowjobs?
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