Guys, Ok guys, honest opinions please. Are A-cup breasts a disappointment?

[Blahblah2211]

Be raw with me. Would you ever stick with a girl with such tiny breasts?

[MrOracle]

I've had at least 3 girlfriends with A-cups, and I'm a "breast man." It never bothered me any.

There's a small percentage of guys who will ONLY date girls with big boobs - big boobs are their thing - so, yeah, there's some guys who won't be interested in you, much like some girls won't consider a guy who isn't at least 6'2" tall. But the vast majority don't really care about boob size specifically - we look at the whole package. Maybe her boobs are small, but she's got a cute face, or a fantastic smile, or a slim waist, or a nice ass, or whatever.

If we find the whole package attractive, then we're not going to worry much about the individual parts. And of course, if this is a potential relationship, and not just casual sex, then her personality, attitude, and values are part of the package as well. We want a package that we find attractive, sure, but for the vast majority of men, we're not expecting to have 20 out of 20 attributes to match our preferences. If you have 8 out of 20, most guys will say "good enough for me!" and will be good to go. It's more likely to be women (not all, certainly, but a lot of women) who expect to get 20 out of 20 attributes, or even 50 out of 50, and then can't figure out why they can't get a guy.

If you're having trouble getting a guy, I *promise* you it isn't because of the size of your boobs. How many millions of guys would date Keira Knightly or Kate Hudson or Mila Kunis or Natalie Portman or any number of other A-cup girls? If boob-size was a deal-breaker, how did they always have boyfriends (and many husbands)?

It's FAR more likely that guys would avoid you because of your INSECURITIES rather than the size of your boobs.

[TOTEMPLASTER]

Very well stated. The worst enemy small-boobed girls have is themselves. They should realize that most guys do not want girls with udders but girls with a cheery smile, flashing happy eyes, an outgoing personality, and after that everything is a bonus.

[MrOracle]

@TOTEMPLASTER "girls with a cheery smile, flashing happy eyes, an outgoing personality, and after that everything is a bonus." Exactly right. I see body parts that match my preferences as a bonus, not a requirement. The other things you listed are the requirements: the smile, the attitude, the morals and values. That's the foundation - the cake and the frosting. Big boobs or a nice ass or whatever - that's just sprinkles on top, and we can live without sprinkles just fine.

[CallMeDave]

I completely agree that it's the whole package. The women I've had relationships with have varied significantly in physical features - height, shape, hair color, eye color, breast size, labia length and other things. One was basically flat-chested. That's not my preference, but it didn't matter because the whole package was good. I still found her sexually appealing even though her chest was as flat as mine. If a woman is nice, fun to be with, and I feel a spark then no physical feature is going to be a deal breaker.

[TOTEMPLASTER]

If she has a frame that shows them to some effect, all is good.
I prefer small breasts as I've found that their sensitivity is inversely related to their size.
My small girlfriends when wild when I vacuumed their boobs and flicked their nipples whereas the big balloons asked what I was doing.

[Blahblah2211]

Yup. Mine are crazy sensitive. Too bad I feel too self conscious to fully enjoy it.

[Nawlins34]

Not at all, the disappointment would be her low self-esteem.

If she has it and I can tell in advance, I'll never approach her

While getting to know her, if I discover this, I'll drop pursuit.

I like confident women.

[Jusin]

No not really. If they're attracted to a woman I loved it wouldn't matter. If she was happy with her body and her breasts that would make it even better as that would be sexy to me. I've only dated two girls and they only had B cups but I thought they were perfect size for their body types and loved em. Women of any shape and size can be attractive if she's confident about herself.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes and have done like them

[MCheetah]

For some guys, no. For me, A-cups are pretty disappointing, yeah. They're like the female equivalent of a 4-inch penis (5.5" being B's, 7" being C's). No, I wouldn't turn down a girl or dump her just because her breasts were small/non-existent. But I wouldn't prefer a flat chest on a girl. It's a masculine trait.

[Red_Arrow]

Not a disappointment at all! I find A-cups to be extremely sexy! Always have!

[HeyMikeyLikesIt]

Absolutely not! Some guys are pure boob guys though and “have” to have big boobs which is like a girl being a size queen. I’m sure your boobs are nice, they won’t be saggy and deflated like worn-out boxing speed bags on your chest

[HeyMikeyLikesIt]

My wife had a cups and she got the surgery even though I didn’t want her to and she wanted to be portionate with her bubble but, so she’s happy, and yeah she’s got c cups now but I have to stare at huge scars under each boob and it was a waste of $6k in my eyes, but she’s happy

[BCA6010]

I can assure you that breast size alone doesn't make or break a woman...

[AndyOh]

If she is fun, engaging, cool to be with... I would not care about her boob size.
I dated a gal for a while who was an AA cup. She wore pads in her bra to give her a figure. She was fun, had a nice body otherwise, and we got along well. Problem was she was a 9 hour drive away.
So no not a disappointment; Kind of shallow of any man who says it is.

[NathanDavis]

Absolutely and undoubtedly, definitive... not at all dissapointing.
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Absolutely and undoubtedly, definitively... yes I have stuck around.

[JPrez]

I'm a fan of smaller ones so it wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Not all guys go for the big jugs.