Guys, Ok guys, honest opinions please. Are A-cup breasts a disappointment?

- I've had at least 3 girlfriends with A-cups, and I'm a "breast man." It never bothered me any.
There's a small percentage of guys who will ONLY date girls with big boobs - big boobs are their thing - so, yeah, there's some guys who won't be interested in you, much like some girls won't consider a guy who isn't at least 6'2" tall. But the vast majority don't really care about boob size specifically - we look at the whole package. Maybe her boobs are small, but she's got a cute face, or a fantastic smile, or a slim waist, or a nice ass, or whatever.
If we find the whole package attractive, then we're not going to worry much about the individual parts. And of course, if this is a potential relationship, and not just casual sex, then her personality, attitude, and values are part of the package as well. We want a package that we find attractive, sure, but for the vast majority of men, we're not expecting to have 20 out of 20 attributes to match our preferences. If you have 8 out of 20, most guys will say "good enough for me!" and will be good to go. It's more likely to be women (not all, certainly, but a lot of women) who expect to get 20 out of 20 attributes, or even 50 out of 50, and then can't figure out why they can't get a guy.
If you're having trouble getting a guy, I *promise* you it isn't because of the size of your boobs. How many millions of guys would date Keira Knightly or Kate Hudson or Mila Kunis or Natalie Portman or any number of other A-cup girls? If boob-size was a deal-breaker, how did they always have boyfriends (and many husbands)?
It's FAR more likely that guys would avoid you because of your INSECURITIES rather than the size of your boobs.2|40|1Is this still revelant?
Very well stated. The worst enemy small-boobed girls have is themselves. They should realize that most guys do not want girls with udders but girls with a cheery smile, flashing happy eyes, an outgoing personality, and after that everything is a bonus.@TOTEMPLASTER "girls with a cheery smile, flashing happy eyes, an outgoing personality, and after that everything is a bonus."
Exactly right. I see body parts that match my preferences as a bonus, not a requirement. The other things you listed are the requirements: the smile, the attitude, the morals and values. That's the foundation - the cake and the frosting. Big boobs or a nice ass or whatever - that's just sprinkles on top, and we can live without sprinkles just fine.I completely agree that it's the whole package. The women I've had relationships with have varied significantly in physical features - height, shape, hair color, eye color, breast size, labia length and other things. One was basically flat-chested. That's not my preference, but it didn't matter because the whole package was good. I still found her sexually appealing even though her chest was as flat as mine.
If a woman is nice, fun to be with, and I feel a spark then no physical feature is going to be a deal breaker.
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- If she has a frame that shows them to some effect, all is good.
I prefer small breasts as I've found that their sensitivity is inversely related to their size.
My small girlfriends when wild when I vacuumed their boobs and flicked their nipples whereas the big balloons asked what I was doing.0|00|0Is this still revelant?Yup. Mine are crazy sensitive. Too bad I feel too self conscious to fully enjoy it.
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- Absolutely no disappointment at all.
If a girl is nice/sweet, has a face a guy finds attractive, is fit or somewhat fit a ton of guys do NOT find smaller chest sizes as unattractive.
Small chested women are gorgeous and the size of her breasts do not make her breasts unattractive. Some guys may have a preference for bigger but plenty do not care.
Many larger breast sizes can be saggy like deflated balloons while smaller chests are always perky and round.
This is a myth. Small breasts do not equate with unattractive or as being less.
Women are too hard on themselves. This is false.0|10|0 - If she is fun, engaging, cool to be with... I would not care about her boob size.
I dated a gal for a while who was an AA cup. She wore pads in her bra to give her a figure. She was fun, had a nice body otherwise, and we got along well. Problem was she was a 9 hour drive away.
So no not a disappointment; Kind of shallow of any man who says it is.0|00|0 - No not really. If they're attracted to a woman I loved it wouldn't matter. If she was happy with her body and her breasts that would make it even better as that would be sexy to me. I've only dated two girls and they only had B cups but I thought they were perfect size for their body types and loved em. Women of any shape and size can be attractive if she's confident about herself.0|00|0
- Anonymous6 dat this point i really wouldn't care. it gets to the point where you start to think that she'll never talk to you like a real person or make you feel appreciated and only think you're not good enough. when she won't call or text or write or email or dm or anything. like i'm not even a real person. and you sit there sometimes wishing you could just end your own life and sometimes you sit there thinking maybe it's better to be alone then be hurt by anyone. the catch 22 damned if you do damned if you don't situation.0|00|0
- I'll be totally raw with you. There's a lot more important things to a woman than the size of her breasts, or her ass, or what her pussy looks like. You can augment your breasts, and you can even surgically change the appearance of your pussy if you don't like it, and your ass too.
If you have a lot of other things that I want, look for, and love about you, I don't give a damn if you have an A cup. I also would NOT stick with a girl simply because I liked her tits, or her ass!! It's so, so many other things that's more important to this guy!!0|10|0 - Yeah absolutely! I liked a girl in high school who had a cup breasts. We didn’t last obviously and the first girl I actually dated was in collage and she had D cup breasts. But none the less I did very much love the girl in high school and her little A cups.1|00|0
- Does vanilla icecream suck? Ok it's not cookies and cream but it's still ice cream it's still yummy. Get the analogy? Stop tripping about it and love what you got. After a while they're just boobs to a guy.1|00|0
- For some guys, no. For me, A-cups are pretty disappointing, yeah. They're like the female equivalent of a 4-inch penis (5.5" being B's, 7" being C's). No, I wouldn't turn down a girl or dump her just because her breasts were small/non-existent. But I wouldn't prefer a flat chest on a girl. It's a masculine trait.1|00|0
- You could be as flat as Kansas and I would love you and your breasts just the same. I love that smooth, open expanse.1|20|0
- Absolutely not! Some guys are pure boob guys though and “have” to have big boobs which is like a girl being a size queen. I’m sure your boobs are nice, they won’t be saggy and deflated like worn-out boxing speed bags on your chest1|10|0
My wife had a cups and she got the surgery even though I didn’t want her to and she wanted to be portionate with her bubble but, so she’s happy, and yeah she’s got c cups now but I have to stare at huge scars under each boob and it was a waste of $6k in my eyes, but she’s happy
- Not at all, the disappointment would be her low self-esteem.
If she has it and I can tell in advance, I'll never approach her
While getting to know her, if I discover this, I'll drop pursuit.
I like confident women.1|10|0 - All breasts are unique and beautiful. A good guy that is into you won't care about their size. What's more important is what you do with them and your personality.0|00|0
- What is sad and ridiculous all at the same time, is that you've convinced yourself that your value is somehow tied to your tits.1|00|0
Consider just not doing that. Guys like tits - I get that. But your value as a woman, a lover, a partner, does not center around the size of your tits. Just pick a guy that likes YOU just the way YOU are.
You're not changing them anyway, so get over it. Unless you get bolt-ons, which some guys like, but most just think they're vein. Fake one are hard, they're worse that small naturals. Trust me on this.
Try to develop your value as a whole person, one that has depth of character, creativity, high value. Learn what it takes to keep a man. This will WAY MORE than compensate for small tits.
- Yeah I could breast ain't one of my reasons to break up with a girl. Has long they are loyal and trusting me that great. Besides you might have tiny breast but you might have a great butt and pussy.0|00|0
- Absolutely and undoubtedly, definitive... not at all dissapointing.
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Absolutely and undoubtedly, definitively... yes I have stuck around.0|00|0 - I would. If I reject her, its because we don't connect. Her A size boobs have no influencing factor. I'm more interested in the owner of those boobs as a person.0|00|0
- I had a girlfriend cup A, but she whas very kinky and good in bed si she made me didn't even realizate.
I finde out that she is A afther some days when she ask me what do i think about her breasts.0|00|0 - Hell yeah... I like smaller ones, but I'm not a breast guy either, I am a pussy guy. Might get a better answer from a breast guy though.0|00|0
- Yes I would
However as a guy I have to ask would you stick with a guy who is maybe shorter than you or smaller than average?1|00|0Smaller than me? Maybe not. Smaller than average- I've liked guys who where smaller than average so it's possible. I had a major crush on Anthony Kiedis when I was in college. He's 5"7" I believe.
- I've always looked at eyes first.
Big or small as long as she's OK with smothering me with them how big her boobs are isn't important.1|10|0 - only if she's padded and pushed like crazy, giving me false expectations. otherwise, it's fine.1|00|0
Lol I don't dare wear heavily padded bras for that reason. I don't want to make my promises my body can't keep.
- not at all with the exception of if she finds her own bust size dissappointing, but tgen thats not really me having any issue with her size. its me having an issue with her and her selfworth/selfimage.1|00|0
- I can assure you that breast size alone doesn't make or break a woman...0|00|0
- No they are not a disappointment. Yes, I would stick with a girl with tiny breasts. I like small and perkys...0|00|0
- What we are all built in gods sick joke. Honestly if god is perfect why did he make Human's so fucked up? Sure A cup what's the problem? Want like tripple D's?0|00|0
- Absolutely! Small boobers mean super sensitive nipples! I can nearly bring a gal to orgasm just by my suckling (hands free).1|00|0
It's true it doesn't take much with tiny tits. I bet a lot of men would be surprised by that fact.
- They’re not a disappointment at all. I love big boobs but I also like natural boobs even if they’re A cups. I would never break up with someone for having small boobs. I dated two girls with A cup and one with AA cup breasts and they both dumped me 😂 so I speak from experience.0|10|0
- Yes I like small breast for one. Plus it has more to do with who she is than her breast size. I have always felt more than a handful is a waste. Plus you are more sensitive there.1|00|0
- Anonymous7 dI love petite women and they look wonderful with 32A to 34B boobs. I dislike huge boobs and would not date a girl who was larger than 36D. There are ANY guys who either prefer smaller boobs or do not care.1|00|0
- depends on the girl
i like tiny tits if the girl herself is petite
but if a girl is a bit curvier then i prefer bigger tits0|00|0 - Show more from Guys (67)
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