I have been super lonely and have been masturbating 5 to 10 times a day is this bad and how do I stop?

- Do you think you need to stop, or are you just wanting a companion, and then not needing/wanting that, because you aren't lonely anymore?
If it isn't hurting, your, uh, down there, and it helps you, why do you think you need to stop? Obviously, short-term, during these strange times!
Until you can find a companion, maybe go online, and chat more, here, or other sites, and make some friends, so you don't feel so alone?
You might even find some friends, girlfriends, feeling just the same, and be able to "talk" with them, about how they deal with it!0|00|0Is this still revelant?@Asker It is a REALLY strange time, and a lot of people are feeling a lot of stress, being cut off, and isolated.
All I can say, really, is try to find some friends, online, in chat groups, or some hobby sites, or places where people share things that you like to do! I know your guy is out there, looking for you too!! It's just a matter of finding him, on whatever site, now!
Have faith, and BELIEVE, OK? Things are totally different, and it isn't like you have a neighbor, with a cute guy that likes you, and you like him! Maybe, now, he is just on some site, and sharing his ideas about something you both like, and suddenly, you just CONNECT!! :) :)
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- Well first of all I can say welcome to my world I know what you mean such a beautiful intense feeling that you get and you need to feel it each and every day you need to fill it 2 seconds after you had the best orgasm ever it has to be in the air LOL well I don't really want to control minor stop it right now I want to feel it that's because I've gone from masturbation to phone sex and phone sex is the hottest most intense thing you've ever felt I wish I can tell you how to stop I'm in the same position that you're in and I love that feeling but I haven't gone to the I want to stop party at what I want is I want to take it even higher to the highest peak but I need a friends with benefit or a friends with benefit online are a phone sex person online whatever but I don't think until I reach that Peak is I don't want to stop until I get there but if you do find out how to send me a message please I would love to hear from you because I'm going to need to know sooner or later0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- Not doing 5 to 10 times a day but definitely more than I did before the quarantine4|60|0Is this still revelant?
- Try and find a hobby, preferably one with less... friction.1|10|0Is this still revelant?
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437- Nothing bad about masturbating a lot. It is normal to have the desires at your age. You can continue doing that, you can be willing to give up being a virgin and finding a guy to have sex with, You can try sexting with a willing guy you trust.
If you remain a virgin, then having a guy actually giving your the physical pleasure is dangerous because it can easily go farther than you want. So either masturbating by yourself, or finding a sexting partner are your opetions.0|00|0 - I am going through a breakup and I have been masturbating a lot too. There is nothing wrong with it. Think about it. You are keeping yourself company without any fear of STDs or hurt feelings or broken relationships. It is just you reducing cancer by orgasming.0|00|0
- Find something else to do.
Things that will keep your mind busy. Do you work out? Any hobbies? Play an instrument?
Also, get out and get involved in things that interest you... church, bowling, Martial Arts (my fav), hiking clubs, etc. Lots to do.1|00|0 - Just stop it please. As you stop for longer and longer you will be more encouraged to approach a guy or gal who ever you prefer. That had happened with me. I made bolder moves with opposite sex when I was single and not masturbared and sexually frustrated.0|00|0
- I understand this. I’ve been down this road before. Honestly as long as you aren’t hurting yourself by how much you’re masturbating, don’t worry too much. As for the loneliness. There’s no easy fix, maybe try talking to people online, just normal conversations, I find that I focus less on sexuality when I’m enjoying talking to other people.0|10|0
- Its fine, the loneliness and being a virgin is something which increase your sexual drive so have to chill. Focus on something else like hobbies or find some boys to chill you know.0|00|0
- Well, I certainly have known what it's like to be lonely. But wow masturbating up to ten times per day. You're going to rub yourself raw. I admit i've been masturbating more during this pandemic as I live alone in my own house and i've even been working from home. If it helped to just have someone to chat with, feel free to message me.0|00|1
- If you’re not experiencing any soreness and you are not impacting your normal life activities then it’s not bad you’re normal just like the 3 billion other women in the world. As for stopping I heard that eating chocolate can help curb sex cravings, but don’t quote me on that. Also get out meet people, get a hobby like hiking or bicycle trail riding.1|00|0
- do you enjoy it when you do it? if so then carry on. there is nothing wrong with being a chronic masturbater if thats what you like doing.0|00|0
- i do the same but i am also 41 and not desired by women think my adhd has a lot to do with it but i dont think its an issue i masturbate a lot the most for me was 16 times and i could not feel anything after the 10th time0|00|0
- Enjoy. I sure as hell am not going to judge you. Knock yourself out. You'll stop when you have somebody to do that for you.0|00|0
- Are you depressed? And find a friend with benefit if your not dating anyone and go crazy!0|00|0
- It’s fine
Girls can have multiple orgasms so that’s not unheard of1|30|0 - Damn hornyness took over 😔 quarantine has ruined us a bit Ahum. I’d just say focus on smth during the day or only do it once before u sleep.0|30|0
- It's not bad per se. When you get other things occupying your time, chances are you'll do it less1|00|0
- Over lockdown that’s about par for the course.
I would add variation rather than stopping1|00|0 - Why not save it up all day and wait till you get home?0|00|0
- been there before... it can be hard to stop sometimes if you don't get that drained feeling. Are you edging or just going for orgasms each time?0|00|0
- Anonymous10 dWhoa! That is excessive. That seems like sexual addcition. You should consider joining the no fap ranks. I know some girls that get in that discipline and it's very beneficial to them. Almost as good as for men.0|10|0
- Opinion Owner10 d
You should reduce the times you do it as a way to release. For example once a week when you are really horny. Because doing it too much takes away time that you could use to do something more productive. If you aren't concern about keeping your virginity than you can get a boyfriend to have sex. Why stay lonely if you don't like it. You can change that.
- I wish I could masturbate up to 5 to 10 times a day that is hormones for you
but never feel a shame that happens with the best of us1|00|0 - Why stop? It's not you're going to run out of cum. When your situation improves you'll slow down.0|00|0
- No I gotchu best by a lot but trust me it’s better to have never loved at all that old saying is bullsht0|00|0
- Hey dude, do yourself a favour and stop pretending you're a girl0|00|0
- It's good. Masturbation is healthy and you are learning a lot about your own body0|00|0
- DM in instagram.. I will talk to you and both will mastrubate.
ID: monalohanso0|00|0 - it's a great form of stress relief, but don't let it interfere with doing other things0|00|0
- Find other activities to do to keep your mind occupied from the thoughts that make you get to that point.1|00|0
- Either continue to enjoy your body or find yourself a hobby to occupy your time and take your mind off of masturbating.1|00|0
- Why would you ever want to stop.
If it feels good, keep doing it.1|00|0 - It’s not bad. Why does it bother you?0|00|0
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- That's so bad
You need to find someone0|00|0 - Normal, do you have someone to talk with0|00|0
- Anonymous9 dStop pretending your a girl dude.0|00|0
- Get some company..0|00|0
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