I scissored my best friend and now wondering if I’m bisexual?

[Anonymous]

We’ve only ever hooked up twice. This time it was different. She told me earlier that night she was attracted to me. I’m not sure if that only means in a sexual sense but to give context, we were talking about the threesome we were going to have later that night with her boyfriend. She was explaining how he was excited and how she thinks he picks up her energy towards me. That’s when she made the comment she was attracted to me. We later had the threesome as planned. But the next day when he was at work we hung out as usual. I took a bath then came into the bedroom and sat on the bed and put lotion on. We’re really tight so this kind of stuff is not unusual. Then she touched it and made a comment about how smooth it was and that she liked the fresh shaved feeling. We talked about getting waxed. Then she grazed my clit a couple times. I twitched a little and she asked if it tickled. I said no it felt good. Then then started rubbing me. Took her shorts off and I rubbed her for a few minutes until we ended up scissoring. We came. It was hot af. Neither one of us have hooked up with other girls or even wanted to. So I’m not sure if it’s just we’re so close and comfortable with each other or what. Thoughts?

[Andres77]

It's just sex.
You're already friends.
Just enjoy it and continue on with your life.
If she has an agenda just prepare yourself for that in case she springs it on you. Do what you want, just make sure it's what YOU want. Don't get pressured into anything.
And if nothing else you've got a hot fun story and memory.
And did you do the threesome or not?

[Asker]

Yeah we had the threesome. I was kinda bored with it though. Group sex doesn’t really do anything for me. It feels all very fake... like a porno.

[Andres77]

All depends on the chemistry. You can't fake it.

[Asker]

I mean the chemistry is there. It has been there for awhile. I’m not sure if it’s just a sexual thing or what. But she’s definitely been like that with me before and wanting to have threesomes. Then again, she’s had threesomes with another few friends just didn’t hook up with them one on one. I definitively liked it and wanted to do it though.

[Andres77]

I was referring to the chemistry of the threesome but in the end it's a type of relationship with her that you're navigating now. You could be friends with benefits or just a fun memory. I wish you well.

[Andres77]

And I kept missing something. Having fun with her, are you suddenly attracted to every girl you see now? A circumstance doesn't "make you something". You choose to be who you are. You choose.

[DaMack999]

If it makes you feel good. Who care what anyone says you guys like each other satisfied sexually. Enjoy yourself be safe. But know titles are just titles doesn't make you any different human then you were before. Am proud of you. Wonderful job you took a chance and experience something different. Life is about experiences. Stop by shy. You wanna have friends with benefits with your best friend why not. Even share boyfriend try it. You guys might become polymorus relationship. No surprise a lot of couples do that nowadays.

[Kas19]

Welcome to the population of most women discovering they're bisexual. Yes, you are. Enjoy it.

[minuteman12]

Are you as well?

[Kas19]

@minuteman12 Yes.

[minuteman12]

So you’d love a FMF threesome? @kas19

[Kas19]

Possibly. I'm in a committed relationship with a man rn, but it's something we talk about. Might try at least once in the future.

[minuteman12]

Would you prefer MFF over MFM?

[Kas19]

MFM.

[minuteman12]

Why is that?

[Kas19]

I prefer men. Some bisexuals prefer men or women. I prefer men for relationships, though I dislike most of them. And since I'm in a relationship with a man that I love, I feel some type of way about other women being around my boyfriend.

[minuteman12]

That makes sense in a way. Have you ever had a MFM threesome before?

[Kas19]

Nope!

[DaMack999]

Kas try 3 some with 2 guys. You won't regret it. It's polymorus relationship both will love you equal. They just want make you happy.

[KrakenAttackin]

@minuteman12 All women are bisexual.

[Kas19]

@KarakenAttackin Wouldn't that be lovely.

[Anonymous]

I am sure a few guys began masturbating after reading that haha

[Asker]

lol when I was writing it it crossed my mind that it reads like erotic fiction

[The_Sal]

I'm curious do you ladies just literally rub your your lips together and achieve orgasm through that alone or do you angle and align them to where both your clits are touching? or just rub away aggressively the entire vag? 🧐🤔

[Asker]

@The_Sal Position it to where the clits rub against each other.

[The_Sal]

do you like pull the skin back where it's fully exposed and sensitive or just go at it?

[Asker]

@The_Sal It works either way.

[The_Sal]

nice

[JPrez]

Sounds like you were bi-curious and you satisfied your curiosity with the encounter. The only way to know if you're bi-sexual or a lesbian is how you feel about the opposite gender and your gender going forward.

[Asker]

I don’t have romantic feelings or desires toward her... I don’t think? I don't know it’s not something I entirely thought through. We just did it. It throws me off that she says she attracted to me... not sure what she meant by it.

[JPrez]

For you I’m guessing it was sex and nothing more. I’ve read a lot on this and a lot of women experiment and do this and remain heterosexual and don’t read too much into it. From her perspective she is definitely bi-sexual so she is attracted to you and she may have some feelings and want to pursue you and doing it more. I would definitely make your feelings known that this was just a one off thing and you don’t want anything more than friendship. You’ll have to be careful when you explain it otherwise she will get upset and this could damage your friendship.

[Asker]

Well I kind of asked her about it trying to get a feel for what she thinks of it. She said it was something that “just happened”. So makes me wonder if she said that because she wants me to think she’s not interested or she’s truly not interested. She told me she was attracted to me when we were drunk.

[JPrez]

Good point. Maybe she senses your position on things so she worded it that way.

[JPrez]

So I’m guessing this is gonna damage your friendship?

[JPrez]

Follow me?

[slatyb]

Who cares? You can stop wondering. There's no point where you have to decide to be straight or bi or gay. You've had some experiences with women. You've has some experiences with men. Do what you want with whoever you find attractive and enjoy it.

[bowenw]

If you want to do it again and still have sex with guys, you're bi. Nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

Yeah I want it again alright.

[bowenw]

Is her boyfriend okay with the two of you having a connection without him participating?

[Asker]

They have an open relationship but I know she doesn’t tell him all the details of the stuff she does so I’m not sure. I don’t think he cares though.

[bowenw]

It sounds like a good situation. Have fun!

[bowenw]

I hope it all works out for you. 🤗

[Asker]

Thanks 🥰🤗

[chriscdi]

if you enjoyed it the yea

[BobbyC65]

Straight people have been known to experiment with the same gender and enjoyed it. 💞 I've been with another male. We gave each-other head with kissing. 💞

[Horny-ashell]

It's perfectly alright if it were 2 guys then people would talk.

[Iron_Man]

Worst mistake of your life you’re officially a bisexual lesbian now

[Iron_Man]

Pent your sins and ask for forgiveness and don’t ever do it again

[Pink6o6]

You're bi, enjoy it.

[Wise4myage]

Id say your bi sexual and your story was hot.

[Wise4myage]

I think she’s in denial.

[kellytheman]

Maybe but I think your just exploring and experimenting your sexuality and if she is a close friend and comfortable with each other I think it's okay. Your only no sexual if you have sex with more girls but as of right now you were just experimenting.

[Stevefiveo]

Yes, you are bi.

[Gedaria]

Does it matter. You two are very close you enjoy each others sex,.
It may be different if you have a threesome with another girl or you go close to another girl.
If it makes you happy which it seemingly does.
Just enjoy it for what it is.

[COMMODOREII]

Me reading your story.

[Asker]

This made me laugh lol

[COMMODOREII]

Lol 😋😘

[Twalli]

I don't think doing it once can tell you. If you continue to do it, quite possibly.

[KrakenAttackin]

All women are bi-sexual.

[YHL6965]

By definition, I think you are bisexual if you are ready to do such things with a girl.

[GearsofHalo117]

Yes
you like girls
and YEs
its okayyyy

[Valnac]

I wish I was there to see that.

[najekim]

If you are bi, no big deal.

[Waldoe]

sounds like a great experience, don't over analyze it, just relax and enjoy...

[Waldoe]

mmmm sounds like you overanalyzed and ruined it