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To those in a relationship and masturbate, what do you think about or fantasize about?

What do you watch/think about when you're flickin the bean or jerkin the shlong.

Weird question, ik. Don't be creepy. Just curious.
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  • It about the same as being single, I'll watch just about any kind of porn, it be quicker to say what I dont watch lol. Which would be like foot stuff, balloon stuff and ball busting. I watch just about every other kink, fetish or genre.
    Of course now I do fantasies about my girlfriend a little bit, she's a bit bigger of a girl (I know, I'm not slim either) so now to try and get an idea of what I've got to look forward too I'm watching more bbw porn.

    Pleasantly suprised that a plus sized girl also looks sexy nude lol

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  • To be honest , you shouldn’t really be masturbating when you are in a relationship, your partner should be the one fulfilling your needs , but if it comes down to having to masturbate in a relationship then something is missing out of your relationship and you aren’t being fulfilled is the way I look at it , Why lack of sex in a relationship is bad and pushes people to cheat or end the relationship. So if I am in a relationship and I am not being fulfilled by her , I will more than likely masturbate to another girl that is fulfilling my sexual desires in my head but if I am being fulfilled in my relationship and I have to masturbate just to let it out , I am more than likely thinking of her , so it depends on how the relationship is going. So if you are in a relationship with someone that you constantly have to masturbate then you’re probably better off ending that relationship and finding someone to fulfill your desire

Most Helpful Girl

  • Previous sexual experiences mostly. Sometimes erotica. Wbu?

    • Mainly erotic literature. Sometimes porn, but it's hard to find good porn. Sometimes just my thoughts.

    • Totally agree. I just usually prefer my own thoughts.

    • @kas19 @gwenhwyfar have u not tried porn for women?

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  • Depends on the mood. A lot of times I will do it to the story ideas I'm writing about for my short stories.

  • This is a tough one. I just got out of a relationship because of sex. I felt she was stoking the fire enough for me. She wasn't very confident or adventurous so it didn't work out for us. So I had to masturbate to other things.

  • Throughout my life it was basically anything that turns me on that isn't available in my relationship, like a threesome with her and her best friend for instance.

  • In a relationship or dating i jerk off to my girl. I even imagine our past sex. Her orgasm face. Her moans. Etc.

  • No idea.. I am single..
    Never been in a relationship.

  • Wife and I have a pretty good sex life. She's a nurse and sometimes our schedules don't support fun time so... sometimes she'll call me from the hospital when things are slow and she'll make up some wild stories for me or she'll tell me about her wild past.

    If we can't talk I'll pick a story from her past or sometimes I'll think about other exgf's and review the memory or make up something new.

  • I have a nigh infinite number of fantasies. In fact I even a created a spreadsheet that generates more for me. I do imagine many of them with my wife however. She has given me some lovely suggestions.

  • Typically use all kinds of erotica sometimes combined with audio: cock worship, cuckquean, dirty talk, first time, various cum play and squirting, virgin, DDLG, etc. Some of which gives me inspiration for when I play with my partner later on.

  • I have, on occasion, had someone walk in on me. Wife, daughters. Don't make a big deal out of it. It's natural and, for the youngun's they simply need to know to knock.

  • Wondering how i can produce so much precum.

  • It's either masturbating to porn or nudes of my girlfriend

  • When I'm in a relationship I dont masturbate
    Nowadays Im single and pornos

  • When I’m in a relationship, she gets all of my sexual attention.

    • So you don't masturbate?

    • Only when I’m single

    • @Valnac Interesting. Does she?

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  • You first lol

  • During my last relationship I rarely masturbated. When I did , I thought of my girlfriend or watched porn.

  • Why for people in a relationship only?

  • I do masturbate but she doesn't care about it she knows it's normal

    • Well duh, I hope everyone does. Masturbating is healthy. I was just asking what do you think about or watch.

    • But that's little private I can't tell it public sorry

    • Are you ashamed of it? Or what's wrong with it?

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  • Same stuff I would think about single. I don't know any one who stopped masterbating just because they had a boyfriend/girlfriend

  • Yes, I believe it is something natural

  • Most often, I fantasize about threesomes with her friends. 🙈

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