Has someone ever broken up with you for a dumb reason? please share?

[Finchie40]

My daughter’s Boyfriend dumped her because he heard me yelling at my son for being disrespectful, My daughter was upset with me because of me yelling while her boyfriend was over my home , I told her that is the dumbest reason for someone to end a relationship over , I said what is he 5 years old? I said good, you don’t need to be with a wimp. On top of that a friend of mine is getting a divorce from his wife because apparently they been arguing a lot. I noticed this past year divorce rates and break ups are climbing like crazy and they say it’s due to this pandemic, which I can see why , this world is going to hell in a hand basket , every girl I showed interest in wants me to pay to join their only fans or premiums , like prostitution is ok all of a sudden , whatever happened to just getting to know someone and make a connection? is their anyone out their that hasn’t lost their fucking minds? I am starting to lose my mind cuz I am horny as shit, but I don’t want to pay for a fucking prostitute. So since relationships are falling apart has anyone broken up with you recently over a dumb ass excuse?

[FictionalCharacter]

Guys usually just flake out on me and never give me a reason. The only comment that has stuck with me, was in high school when a guy told me: “you’re too unique for me.” ...🤨? The fuck does that mean?

But back to your story.

I honestly think it’s these young kids and what they’re getting influenced on, by YouTube and Tik tok. Where people are discussing their emotional and mental problems, that people should just accept these behavior. Which is really not good, only easy way to back out in certain situations.

Now I know no family is perfect. Each family is dysfunctional in their own way. I mean my parents argue and yell to the extreme. To the point where my dad threw all my mom clothes out in the middle of the street in the middle of the night Causing a scene. I swear, no matter where my parents move to, the whole neighborhood knows about their problems. But hey, my mom is still with him saying she loves him and another day she hates him. And they’re only with each other, cause of their marriage vows “for better and for worse.” That yeah, my sisters boyfriends have witnessed my parents craziness. But did they break up? No. Their boyfriends just said “come stay at my place.” Then they got married and had kids and got their own place to live.

[FictionalCharacter]

I should also clarify, this dynamic fights my sisters boyfriends have witnessed, was us living in the ghetto area. So, we also had friends in middle/high school that had problems like ours. That sometimes we each took turns of sleeping in a different friend house. Or a friend wanting to come to stay at our place for a night. “Hey, my parents are fighting. Is it alright if I crash at your place for the night?” “Yeah sure, come on over.”

[Finchie40]

LMAO your parents sound like my ex and I , it was a love hate love relationship , she was more the angry no filter aggressive one and she would start most of the fights , let alone she suffered bi polar depression and being with a girl like that was very hard to understand considering she loved me 1 minute then completely hated me the next , but I tolerated it for a long time mainly for my kids , but when her and I first started dating I watched her argue with her Mom and push her Mom hard , making her Mom fall , but she was verbally abusive towards and I still married her , that should of been my answer not to lol So when she would have an episode , all hell would break loose and I just learned to let it go into one ear out the other and walk away , she would usually come chasing me back once she snapped back to normal mode , I tolerated it for years cuz when she wasn’t having an episode she was loving towards me , then that all changed when she cheated on me and then that was my final straw to end it. I as well grew up with with parents that fought a lot , well mainly my Dad was the abusive one cuz he was an alcoholic , so growing up in that type of household was just normal to me , but after all those years I tolerated with that nonsense I am finally at a point where I just want to meet a sweet innocent girl with no more aggressive drama lol I am still searching lol

[DizzyDesii]

Lol you prob scared the boy off. Parents eyes glow red when theyre mad 🤣 but yea i had an ex tell me he feared i wouldn't be independent enough BUUUUT i was the one with the stable job and income. I was the one saving for our rent and ready to buy his car. He was the one fired from 3 jobs in one year, spending his car savings on cruises and our rent money on videogames. I shouldve gathered his ass together right then and there 🤣 I tried to fight for us because i had a fear of starting over but boy when i truly escaped that toxicity, it was the best thing ever

[Finchie40]

Don’t feel bad , I think most of us encounter relationships that we shouldn’t of been in that we hold onto for whatever reason , I just look at it as a learning experience of something I will never get myself into again lol

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend broke up whit me afthe a relationship of 4/6 month because in the last time we argue to much about non sens subject and we don't spend the same time like in the summer.
It whas in the Univerity time and in the summer whas holiday and nothing important to do, but when the University start (we whas at the same university) we couldn't date at the same level like in the summer and i whas very stresed to learn, to work, olso i whas living in the other part of the city and she change her minde when university start about living togeder in my place.
Later ask me why i don't come to see her like in the summer, why i don't talk whit her at the phone the same like in the summer.
I had univerity
I had to study
I had work
I had to travel long distance from my place to her and university (she live very close to university)
I need to call and comunicate whit my boss from the work at the phone
And didn't have a moment to rest
In the summer we whas at the sea and beatch 5 times togeders, the sea is very far from our city like 300km
We whas all the time in the city and have all the time in the world to come to her place and stay togeder.
I ask her to whit for the whinter holiday but the chet on me.

[Juxtapose]

"every girl I showed interest in wants me to pay to join their only fans or premiums , like prostitution is ok all of a sudden , whatever happened to just getting to know someone and make a connection? is their anyone out their that hasn’t lost their fucking minds?"

*THIS* is why I am glad to be bi

Men don't try to charge me.

[Finchie40]

LOL well then I am fucked because I only like girls

[Juxtapose]

[Finchie40]

LMAO , my kind of girl

[boggboss]

No because I wouldn't get with a partner thats a idiot although to be fair I dont think your daughters ex is that much off a wimp he most likely just decided that your family dynamic is a bit to crazy for him which is fair enough

[Finchie40]

It’s still a dumb reason to end a relationship with someone , like his family never argued or yelled, I can see if I was throwing tables and beating the shot out of my son but just yelling at him for being disrespectful is a lame excuse , but I am glad that relationship is over , I don’t want my daughter being with a wimp

[boggboss]

But most people don't do it whilst guests are over no again if u think that makes him a wimp fair enough but I guess its the same way he probably sees u as crazy but yes break ups tend to happen more frequently these days due to people rushing into things

[douride2]

One guy broke up with me because as he said I wouldn't put out.

[Finchie40]

How long were you with him for and what was your reasons for not putting out? Usually lack of sex in a relationship is what kills a lot of relationships for guys and girls , not saying you need to have sex everyday but if it’s very seldom usually the partner that isn’t being fulfilled will think the other doesn’t Really value them , that kind of thing happens a lot , why their is so many affairs and people cheating on each other

[douride2]

We had only just started dating. I barely knew him.

[Finchie40]

Then good thing you didn’t sleep with him , that just shows he was just after 1 thing with you