How do I get over pre cum?

I'm a virgin, but I have done sexual stuff with some people. But the first time and only time I sucked dick was when I was a freshman. The guy was my boyfriend, and he didn't pre cum, and he didn't nut in my mouth either. It was on my stomach. But now I'm a senior and I'm 18, I reconnected with this guy and we started talking. I really like him, and I went to go see him yesterday. We did some sexual things, and I did put his dick in my mouth but before the pre cum. I'm usually open minded but its just new to me I guess, I want to be less weird about it but how do I do that?
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  • Is this a taste issue or a textural one? If the former, I'm told that changes in diet can change the flavor of semen, but that might not feasible in your case (and I kind of doubt it's an exact science, anyway); might there be some sort of lotion or flavored lube you could use? I think most of them are more geared towards smelling good than tasting good, but let's be realistic here; good taste is something you NEED in a sexual product.

    I'd like to apologize for that previous sentence, and rephrase it to "tasting good is something you NEED in a sexual product"; I realize that tastelessness is often an important part of the process.

    Anyway, if it's a textural thing, there's always the old mantra of "practice, practice, practice". Sex isn't something one person does to another, but that two people do together; he'll probably understand if you have some reservations at first. Talk to the guy. If you need to take it slow at first, he'll understand if he's worth dating. Despite the words "blowjob" and "handjob", you can change it up as you see fit; there's no Sexual Standards Authority out there you're going to get in trouble with.

    And if at some point you decide to acclimate yourself through repeated exposure, most guys won't exactly recoil in horror from hearing "I need to keep giving you blowjobs until I'm used to it".

  • I guess its either somthing u like or you don't I'm not sure what to tell u lol that can help

    • Well , I haven't even tried to let a dude nut in my mouth. I'm just stuck on how to get over it, cause its really just something I'm not use to.

    • @asker i dont blame ya lol maybe try having him cum on ur stomach or somethign and u can taste some of his cum to get used to it. does he eat healthy?

    • He doesn't usually eat much tbh, he mostly eats at night but not a lot and drinks a lot of water

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  • Wow, someone who sucks dick and then complains about it. What do you expect? Like you expect it to be like sucking on a candy cane? Tell him to wear a condom and then you don' have to worry about it.

    • I didn't complain about it you imbecile, im just looking for ways to get over the whole pre cum thing since i don't usually suck dick. This is the first time I've gotten REALLY sexual with anyone since my freshman year and im not really experienced. Im asking this so i can be with him sexually without any problems. Far from complaining

    • And I gave you a bona fide solution.

    • Yes, but you acted as if im just being whiny and complaining when im not. Your comment came of insensitive and if you don't see that then I don't know what to tell you

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  • Don’t do something that makes you uncomfortable. Just take it as far as what feels right. If he cums and you don’t like the taste, do other things with him next time.

    • Thank you so much❤

    • Of course. ❤️

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  • Are you 18 years old?

    • Yes I am

    • You are a bit squeamish about having his cum in your mouth and tasting it?

    • Yes, I don't know how to get over it

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  • Just tell him that you don't like the taste so you may wipe it off him or spit it out. He will understand.

  • Well if you want to suck his dick you’re just going to have to get used to it. You’ll be fine.

  • Think of the precum as an appetizer.

  • If you are sucking on the dick you are more than likely tasting and consuming precum.

  • wanna dm? i can give ya some tips and stuff

    • You really want to talk to a guy about it? That's what half these anon pinks are.

    • @Daniela1982 honestly, i was hoping for more women responses.

    • If you want that make it for girls only. Except half the female responses that you will get will probably be guys.

  • Just close your eyes when it come

  • I don't know what to tell ya. This is fkn weird

    • Well how is it weird?

    • Like I said initially I don't even know what to tell ya.

  • Just relax and have fun and try not to overthink what his cock is doing.
    Concentrate on getting your pleasure.

  • Just drink it good for you

    • How so?🤣

    • Open your mouth and suck it fully

    • If you want lesson come to my house I will teach you

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  • just keep sucking it good and fast