My hookup talks about other girls and tries to get me to sleep with his friends?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I met this kinda cute guy on tinder. I am pretty close to the beauty standard. I don't know just to paint a picture. I’m a tattoo artist & he’s in college so opposite lives. We’ve hung out 3 times. The 1st time we fcked & we didn't really hit it off at that time because I was sobering up from a party earlier.

The 2nd time it was my period, so he invited me over just to make out & we had spicy make out sesh and I gave him head. After he started talking nonstop about how only one girl has ever made him bust from head &made his toes curl. Then I told him he gave me hickies &he said “oh those are nothing” &then showed me other girls hickies he gave them. mine were worse. then he started talking about all these rounds he went with females before.

I was casual about it. I talked to him like I was happy for him bc it was only our 2nd hang out & didn’t wanna show any attachment. He randomly said he’s only dated 1girl before & he would be in a relationship now but his girl would have to be okay with him having female friends.

I’ve had guys try &make me jealous before but never anything to this EXTREME. he tries to outdo everything I say and always talks about hot sex he’s had with other girls.

We just fcked again tonite in the back seat of his car &it was intense and he laid down the back seat &made it kind of cozy. I didn’t ask him to eat me out but he randomly said he doesn’t eat girls out & I was like whatev. He said she would have to be someone special.

Then again. After we did stuff he started talking about how his dick game is always good and shit. And then asked me if I thought it was. And then he talked about hot sex he had with other girls again. And then he tried hooking me up with his friend and asked if I would fck his friend for him. I declined. And he said when he’s gone this weekend maybe I can fuck his friend & how his friend fcks girls really good because he always hears him fcking girls through the walls I guess.

Idfk. Most confusing guy. Explain?

[Jahizamy]

What is there to explain?

I'm confused by your question. Are you wondering why he keeps talking about other girls when he's with you?

If that is your question, it's very simple. It's obvious to him that him talking about other girls won't hurt you or make you jealous because you're just a hookup that is expendable.

I mean why should he care how you feel about him talking about other girls? You're just a hookup and to him, that's all you'll ever be.

If you want this guy to like you romantically and not mention other girls around you, you have to be worth it. Hooking up with him on the first date isn't showing him you're worth it.

Long story short, don't be a hookup. Make the guy work for it and show he's commited to you, and trust me you won't hear him talking about other girls around you.

[MrCommodore]

Unless you are happy with this routine continuing, I would suggest you dump his ass.

There are lots of decent guys our there who you will have a spark with and who will actually want to date you and have a exclusive relationship with you.

That guy seems more into himself, bragging about himself and trying to getting free sex etc for his buddies (pimp behaviour). No guy who genuinely likes any girl would want any other male fooling around with her, we are territorial over the things we care about.

I think he doesn't care about you at all and is unlikely to in future, consider moving on.

[Anonymous]

Literally got no words other than is this really what people do? Sorry but thank God I’m a virgin who is waiting for a man who will love me and who I will love. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
If I were you I’d drop this guy like a hot potato.

[zeekitten26]

Walk away from that disaster! He is a insecure little boy. Im all for enjoying sex and do it with who ever you want (seriously no judgment here) BUT this guy sounds like a asshole and you deserve better. I fully believe there should be some form of mutual respect if you have a friend with benefits. Walk away babe! The sex really can’t be that good.

[Drooogie4]

It seems like he's making a point to not give you the impression that this is anything but hooking up to him

[Birdlegs]

You’re just a fuck buddy for him but i don’t think there’s a problem with it

[JPrez]

I think I can help. In my opinion, he views you only as a f**k buddy or friends with benefits or you could throw out more derogatory terms if you'd like. He thinks its cool that he now has this sex doll that has no feelings for him and doesn't care to and only wants sex. This is his perspective now. Since he views you that way, he now thinks it would be awesome if his new sex doll could help his friends out and have sex with them too. I know it sounds terrible and I hated typing it but that's my honest opinion.

[Ripper_E]

You're just a hookup. His friends are more important to him than you, and because you're just a hookup, he wants to hook his friends up with you too.

What is confusing? If you don't want to be treated like a hookup, then stop doing it.

[Andres77]

You're just a fucktoy to him.
You gave him head and the next time, while you're bouncing on his dick in a car he says "I don't eat pussy unless she's special..."?
Maybe if you were close to cumming, fine, get some. But what a fucking asshole!
Get the hell away from him.
He's in college and you know someone else is paying for it while you're working for a living, you're already an accomplished artist. he's getting attention from you but you're not "special enough" for him to even consider your pleasure.
You're way out of his league. C'mon, love yourself a little more than to let a worthless fuck use you and insult you. He hasn't earned you.
Please leave this guy. What an asshole.

[Iron_Man]

This is a disaster this whole thing and you’re being used from head to toe and now wants you to be apart of his disgusting weird fetish he will probably have you videotaped you don’t know if you’d even find yourself on a porno site Once you both move on from each other. This guy has probably been with tons of hoes. You better get yourself tested

[Wise4myage]

He probably wants to hook up with other girls.

[yazerr]

He doesn't want you for a serious relationship.
He just wants you to be his sex toy for a while,
and I think in the future he will ask you for more weird things.

[Anonymous]

that's disgusting

[Anonymous]

He wants to fuck other girls and he wants you to fuck other guys. I don't get what the problem is.

[Anonymous]

To be honest, I don’t believe him lol. The ones who scream about having loooots of sex, usually had up to 5 sex partners. It’s either that, or he is sex addict, or he genuinely doesn’t give fuck about you as a person.