Does anyone love how this triggers people?

[JessieBellll]

For some reason, some people think men above 25 are old, creepy grandpas that no young girl or boy will want or desires.

In truth, some men get better looking as they age, and there are tons of hot men in 30s and 40s. Even 50s and a good share of teenage girls and boys like them despite some being repulsed and finding them creepy.

I find it entertaining some people, especially men get so triggered when I tell them I was into "old" men as a teenager and so were other girls. They try to put me down because they find it disgusting, when they are into older women themselves. No I have daddy's issues.

Truth hurts doesn't it guys? Simmer down.

[Citizenkirk]

🤔There are social conventions that keep us safe, like 🙄"don't screw around with your cousins, or you'll have🤰flipper hand kids!" Then there are stupid taboo's that serve no purpose except giving morons something too complain about, like 😮"don't spend time with that 🐍 creepy old man, because he's old, and that makes him creepy!"🤦
I've never been accused of being old or creepy, but if some ignorant little slut (yes, I know that's vulgar, but vulgar little mind's only respond too vulgarity) did make me aware of my inability too over estimate the stupidity factor of her reasoning ability, and by association, her educators and legal guardianship, I would be compelled too remind her-"IT'S NOT THE YEAR THAT MATTERS, SWEETHEART, IT'S THE MODEL!"

[SlightlyEccentric]

Older men have something that younger men usually don't: money. Women love a financially stable man. Whether that means she is only after that or not is undetermined, yet many guys get uppity about seeing a young woman dating an older (which is what OP should be using instead of old) man because they are quick to assume she is only after his money and have no reason to believe its him she actually likes and has been proven true on many occasions. You do you, but know we are very skeptical about your motives.

[JessieBellll]

In my experience its because they think its creepy and disgusting for a 16 year old girl for example to like a 35 year old

[SlightlyEccentric]

I don't care about the age gap as long as it is two consenting adults, like I said I am much more skeptical of the motives than the actual age difference. And honestly I can see why they would think that but it goes both ways when talking about age gap. Imagine the reaction if a young male went dating with an older woman and I don't mean like 5 years older I mean like old enough to be your mother. It is kinda creepy tbh, but again, you do you.

[JessieBellll]

Whats really surprising is the same men who call a older man creepy and get mad when young girls say they like them, are turned on by older women and support a young guy with an older woman. I don't know it seems like some kind of complex

[TayTay21]

People get jealous over everything now. I've always been attracted to older guys, and I've heard this same crap from people about guys I date. When I was 17, I started seeing this guy who was 31 and just dead sexy. He was a grown man, about 6'2" and just all muscle and testosterone. He was wayyy hotter than any guy in my hs, but I still had people talking shit about me being with a "creepy old guy." He wasn't old and he sure wasn't creepy. He was strong and more vigorous than most of the soft, weak as kittens boys in my school. And he didn't have any of their weirdness, probably because he'd actually been with a girl before lol.

[JessieBellll]

Omg how did handle it? It's jealousy and prejudice

[JessieBellll]

@normalice @ThisDudeHere

[normalice]

No, it wasn't me.

[JessieBellll]

@normalice it couldn't be you. I mean you are the jealous one

[normalice]

Oh. What are you thinking I'm jealous of?

[JessieBellll]

@normalice that she had an older man when she was a teen. I know you hate it (:

[normalice]

Not really, but if it somehow makes you feel better you can imagine whatever you'd like, I suppose 🤔

[JessieBellll]

@normalice you have a split personality. I wonder if you are the same in real life.

[JessieBellll]

@DannyDan

[JessieBellll]

@normalice I thought you said girls get taken advantage of.

[normalice]

It is likely but it is also the case that the "advantage" can be mutual.

[JessieBellll]

@normalice it can never be mutual, but at 17 people know what they are doing and don't get as easily taken advantage as if they are 14. Yes, this applies to boys too.

[normalice]

If people "know what they are doing" then it is mutual. Whatever their reasons for going through with is what they get out of it.

[JessieBellll]

@normalice yeah, why do you assume teenage girls don't know what they are doing?

[normalice]

That doesn't make any sense.

[JessieBellll]

@normalice clarify?

[normalice]

Your question doesn't make any sense in the context of the conversation I'm getting bored of having... again...

[JessieBellll]

@normalice because you are triggered?

[normalice]

Are we even having the same conversation?

[JessieBellll]

@normalice sure, I just don't believe girls get taken advantage of as often as people believe

[JessieBellll]

@Danny_dan92 this is for you

[JessieBellll]

@normalice I applaud your tolerance, most Democrats would have already blocked me for my views.

[normalice]

I'd be willing to bet most people (Ds or Rs) block you for your spam. You tend to say the same thing over and over, pretty much ignoring responses. That gets cumbersome after a while. Now, if you're trying to get me to block you for some weird sense of accomplishment (or so that you just dont have to deal with someone pointing out you could be wrong) you need only send me repeated direct messages even after I get tired of repeating the response. That is the definition of spam and if you're wanting attention or validation that's not how to get it.

[JessieBellll]

@normalice Literally everything you said applies to you. You always ignore everything I say, and repeat your views and everything you say when you disagree That's pretty hypocritical.

[JessieBellll]

Your and some people's logic here : Whatever I say is a fact and you can't disagree or you are wrong. Take into account people's prejudices, and there you have it. They block. Its a very dictating mindset. I also said SOME. Notice that @normalice

[normalice]

I only repeat my views when you ask for the same ones over and over. Anyone who spends ten seconds browsing through your question history can easily see you ask the same question over and over. Not sure who you think you're fooling..

[JessieBellll]

@normalice not the same question, but topic. There is a difference between asking the same question, and asking in the same topic.

[JessieBellll]

@Boodica

[jennifer_bloom]

There was an early 20s who told me the early 20s to late 30s Chinese woman I posted were all ugly and disgusting grandmas even though the youngest was only 1-4 years older than himself but I think he hates Chinese people cause he thinks we are all rich.

[Frank_Woods]

I see no problem with this. Relationships between two consenting adults is fine no matter the age gap.

[JessieBellll]

I never mentioned relationship or having sex.

[JessieBellll]

Just desire

[Frank_Woods]

Yeah that's fine.

[Petra150]

Your so right. As you know my hubby is much older than me, and it definitely level out my presumed bigger attractiveness other think. Him being 14 years older , were even more outspoken when I were 31 and he were 45 , now it's not a thing we really notice

[OlderAndWiser]

As @jamie05rhs observed previously, I am dating a younger woman. I am 66 and she is 57! So, I can't say anything about younger women and older men. 😄😄😄

[TonyV]

It's annoying cause it forced me to go ignored, unappreciated and unloved for over 10 years, but whatever like you said it's the truth, just like it's the truth that the same women who coasted by on there looks refusing to give good a chance or taking anything seriously will find them in a worse position when they hit 35 and guys stop caring about them cause their looks have faded away.
So enjoy treating guys like shit or just expendable options while it lasts, cause it won't be long before you're ignored for the new wave of girls in their 20s.

[AzzaBlue]

Your comment reminded me of a couple of articles that was written by that feminist pig Jessica Valenti. In one article she was demonizing men for cat-calling. Then a few years later she published another article basically shaming men for not cat-calling her and she then blamed The Patriarchy for missing the attention. It just goes to show you that looks can inly take you so far, especially if you are a vindictive c@nt.

[TonyV]

So tired of the shallow, mixed signal woman. How about women who want to be chased? They want you to ask several times and not take no for an answer, but they dont realize those days are dead and gone cause of this "me too" shit. They get mad if you walk away after a single "no", well no shit I'm giving up, I'm not getting accused of rape. They are driving themselfs into seclusion with their own stupid games, I dont have time for the girls that want to send mixed signals. I'm glad i found a good down too earth girl so i can be done with all the bullshit games.

[AndyOh]

As an older guy, I am grateful... not creepy either.
Thanks.

[RJJ33666]

What you are saying is completely true. One of my friends dad is 31 years old and when I saw his childhood photo I couldn't believe it. He turned from a 14 year old nerd looking guy to a hot as 31 year old. I don't know why this triggers people I think this is great thing.

[JessieBellll]

I don't know they don't like to see young girls with much older men, like a 16 year old with a 37 year old. It's either their experience or just their prejudice

[RJJ33666]

Well, maybe it's just their Orthodox thoughts coming in between or just jealousy

[Hanoi_Jane00]

Henry Cavill is hot.

[JessieBellll]

He is good

[NathanDavis]

I feel old, since I was 22... paying bills. lol.

[NathanDavis]

and that's my concept of old

[Jjpayne]

Well it sure makes me feel better to hear you say that because so many people I'm their 20s and even 30s call past 35 or 40 old... It's funny I don't even feel my age 😅

[JPrez]

Jump on in, the water's fine. This is an interesting topic.

[JPrez]

I could share stories about this but it would take up too much space.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I don't seem to have even hit my peak yet lol. There's truth in the original question though, after 40 especially, I had the experience to truly please women not just sexually, but mentally too. A lot of foreplay is not physical and it takes a bit of experience to learn the nuances (and great teachers).

[Avicenna]

Someone is always triggered about something nowadays

[DJB72]

The only thing that "triggers" me is being described as "old" at 48.

I'm not old dammit!

🤣🤣😉

[Neko911]

I'm weird. I seem 2 tend 2 fall for guys like a year or 2 younger than me lol

[JessieBellll]

Why is that?

[Neko911]

Lol I don't know. But most guys I've liked have just been younger. My boyfriend is basically 2 and a half year younger than me. And the boy I dated b4 him was a year younger than me

[JessieBellll]

Okay

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think a girl should like who she does without being judged
If a girl is 20 and likes guys who are 40-45 that is her business
I just ask some girl out who is age 24 and she has one child
but we are long distance and not too close yet but we may
someday should she relocate to where I live we talk over email

[JessieBellll]

Yeah same with teen girls

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@jessiebellll Yes I agree

[andreasderjuengere]

The key word in your question text seems to be ''entertaining'' to me.
About triggering people:
I think, a trigger is only useful when the 'gun' is loaded; and then there still could be no target; so the shot was perhaps wasted.

[JessieBellll]

Hahahaha Typical response: avoiding the actual question because you have no answer. No offence meant, but it sure is entertaining.

[andreasderjuengere]

If that's your personal pleasure... I see no reason to take it away from you :)

[JessieBellll]

Uhhh yeah, but I want actual answers on my questions, if you want to troll, then don't answer my questions

[andreasderjuengere]

I did not mean to troll you. To translate my initial post for you: I find the attempt to trigger (or provoke) others pointless. So: I do not love or enjoy it myself. I do not see your question related to the specific reasons WHY someone gets heated up.

[JessieBellll]

But I don't want to trigger people, they get triggered because of their own prejudice

[andreasderjuengere]

ok... but still then: I see no reason (for myself) to have any 'feeling' about it. I shrug one or two shoulders and move on.

[boombastik]

Well when I was 21 I was dating a 43yr old milf. I fucked her friend who was hot be af too along with a 45yr old. I've never cared for dating young immature women so I don't see why there would be anything wrong with me banging a hot young sexy babe if she's of age of course.

[exitseven]

One of my daughter's friends had a thing for me. It stroked my ego but I would never act on anything like that.

[Ripper_E]

I'm almost 30. I'm not a creepy grandpa.

[Phoenix98]

Well 27 soooo.

Most people mistake me for someone's dad for some reason though /= not a creepy grandpa the latter would be weird.