How long does an average session of sex last for you guys?

What's the time while including foreplay? And are you satisfied with how long it lasts? What's your ideal duration of a session?
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Update: the reason for asking the question is, I've just discovered that the global average for how long a guy lasts in penetration is 4 mins. I felt it was very less. What do you think?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I never have put any kind of time frame on sex. Me personally I enjoy eating the girl till she has to stop me or she'd have more orgasms than she could handle than with the sex I normally stay hard after cumming and can maintain for 3 or 4 nuts and then we could take a break before starting ag.

    • 3-4 nuts at your age?

    • Yes I still have the stamina might not be as big as most especially all those who claim to be 7 or 7.5 send me some pictures and then I might believe.

    • I can see if you're only talking about penetration I was talking about the whole thing.

  • Usually ~30 mins total I'd say is the average.

    Sometimes can be longer like 1 hour or a shorter 15 min quicky.

    • Per your update, 4 mins is low for me but averages work that way. And I'm sure there's a wide range of normal. Depending how much foreplay is involved I can usually go 10-15 mins or so based on position. It could be shorter if a lot of oral involved beforehand, or even longer depending on position and what else we are doing. Then basic order from longest to shortest probably (since we don't run a timer lol): Cowgirl, missionary piv, missionary anal, doggy. With wife on top I can actually go just about nonstop. It's really hard for me to finish in that position for some reason - sensation is great but just doesn't want to go... it will but can take a long time.

    • Yeah works somewhat the same for me

Most Helpful Girl

  • 30 min including foreplay, it’s perfect

    • Sweet. How long does the actual sex last though?

    • 5-10 min

    • Sounds about right

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  • Never really timed it but probably a half hour in total. I'd say 5-6 minutes of penetration and 25ish minutes of foreplay. Despite what people might say, studies say that most penetrative sex only lasts around 5 minutes, and guys who last more than 20 minutes are extremely rare.

    • 20 min is too long. I start to get sore. 5-10 is perfect.

  • It varies depending on how much time we have and sometimes for me how long it has been since we last had sex (or since jerked off). I do like just getting naked with a girl and exploring for a long time before sex however.

  • Usually if we include foreplay for both myself and my girlfriend it is between 20 to 40 minutes.

  • Including foreplay, probably half an hour to forty minutes on average. Just penetration is anywhere from 3-10 minutes depending on how long it takes to get my partner to come.

  • 10 minutes to 7 hours but I'd say average is 45 mins.

  • 3 hours

  • I always make sure my wife orgasms first, then she takes care of me. So all together, probably an hour. And it’s brilliant.

  • around 30-45 min seems about average for me including foreplay

  • It varies. If I really miss her it's usually fast. Like 1 minute each. After that it's usually about 5 minutes each. I can make it go longer if I want.

  • 10-30 minutes, we’re both satisfied

  • Me hardly 5 minutes.

    • No foreplay. Not satisfied.

    • I believe it's correct. Mind it it's an average.

    • It is very less but most likely true

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  • Ion kno really I usually touch , kiss and lick on her (parts) until I get really super hard put it in start slow and pound her silly till I fill her up

  • 20 minutes excluded foreplay

  • if you count foreplay it will be infinite.
    but in penetrative sex it last 2/3 mins max.

  • 30 minutes. Because my partner takes time to slow-fire burn.
    If she's in a hurry, then I can cum in under seven minutes.
    But I prefer that she climaxes too.

  • 30-45 with foreplay

  • Never had sex before but when I talk about it with my friends they all say between 5 to 10 min BUT they mostly say they can go for another round after 10 min of foreplay

  • An hour

    • An hour of penetration? Or does that include foreplay