Can you tell if a guy had a vasectomy?

My friends with benefits always pulls out before he comes except last time. He was on top and he was really getting into. So he came inside of me. Then after he causally mentions how he had a vasectomy years ago. Why didn’t he mention earlier? Why mention it now? I’m not sure if I should believe him. Is there a scar somewhere or another way to tell?
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No precum
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Doesn’t pull out
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  • vasectomy guy here I'll chime in, I got a vasectomy in 2015, there is a scar, but in the words of my doctor, if a girl can see it or find it, you are a very lucky guy. I think I know where my scar is but I'm honestly not sure.

    You can always ask him for the medical record if you're worried. A lot of vasectomy failures happen because guys rock and roll before verifying their sperm is cut off. You need to go back to the doc after snipping. Ask him about it.

    • My vascetomy was in 2019. My doctor had me take in two semen samples after thr sperm was supposed to be gone. Both showed 0 sperm so it was a success.

    • @Twalli same for me, my our soldiers rest in peace!

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  • While I have not had one there will be a very small scar on the underside of his scrotum. Ask him to show it to you so you can be sure.

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  • You won’t be able to tell. Even just 2 months after my hubs surgery I couldn’t tell.


    What bothers me is it seems you didn’t consent to him cuming inside you. Definitely talk to him about that.

  • If it was years ago it's probably healed up. I mean trying to spot one patch of wrinkly fucked up looking skin there? Like looking for a specific piece of hay in a haystack

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  • The scars are pretty small so you'll have to look closely to find them.

  • Bit odd if has had it for a while but pulls out, now he does not and says he’s had it...

    I would have a serious chat with him, or look at a potential pregnancy test

  • A small scar under his nut sack.
    Still, I would question him if he never said this before.

  • There might be a tiny scar but it would be hard to find near the scrotum and might have faded.

  • No easy way to tell. There are surgery scars.

  • Doesn't impact precum.

    THere might be a scar, might not. I just checked to see if i can find the scar from mine and i think i can sort of see it, but there's no way you'd look at it and say 'ah ha, vasectomy'

  • You should get tested.

  • C is his personal choice, can't tell.
    B is not effected.
    A is the only way- from these three- to even remotely be able to tell.

    Maybe ask?

  • If it was years ago, the scars have probably healed and you wouldn't be able to see them. But, the only way to be 100% certain is to have him do a sperm test at the doctor's office and then have them determine his sperm count.

  • Sounds like your friend is giving you some sort of BS story.

    • thats what I think

  • Only thing you might notice is sperm is reduced. It's minus his swimmers that get a girl pregnant.

    • Sperm is gone with a vascetomy

    • @Twalli you still get a discharge but less white looking. And taste more salty.

    • He cums a lot. There’s so much of it that it keeps oozing out for quite some time. Does that mean he hasn’t really had it done?

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  • There's no scar, you still have pre-cum and the amount and look of the ejaculation is the same. I'm not sure I'd believe him either.

  • There's no way to tell after the fact. Since he pulled out before I have trouble believing he got a vascetomy years earlier. I would never pull out, I got a vascetomy.

  • I have 2 little scars on either side.

  • hard to see the scar, it will be on the outside of both "Ball sacks" and very small

  • No way to tell. There might be a small scar but good luck finding it or seeing it.

  • There is a scar on both testicles and obviously he won’t need to pull out but you can still get an std

    • But his ability to pass HIV is very limited as far as other diseases I don't know

    • @yofuknutz no it’s the same just no sperm