The older I get the more I worry about still being a virgin? What should I do when I’m craving special intimacy but have to wait?

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It didn't happen when i was younger because most of the guys were jerks and i wasn't ready either. And im feeling even worse because my ex boyfriend and me were gonna have sex but he blindsided me and cheated on me. It was a waste of my time and im so sick of guys wasting my time. I want my virginity to be worth it with someone who genuinely cares.
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  • First you're not that old for a virgin, I saw people in 30 still being a virgin
    Second if your virginity is really important to you the only way for getting rid of the horniness is masturbating whether it's with your hand or with a vibrator
    The only thing I'm sure about is now is not a good time to go out and search for the right person, it's better to find someone online with dating apps although those could be some lazy ass people looking for nudes but it's better than risking your life
    Bottom line if you really want to keep your virginity, masturbate. If you want to find the right person you can go out and search for it but be careful a LOT or just use dating apps

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well I understand that u need a D but u are just 22 and still young.. there are a lot of people around those ages and still virgin. I got a friend who's same as me, he jerks off all day every day and feels very weak/insecure cause he didn't even have a girlfriend in his life, he doesn't know what does it mean to hold a girl's hand but indeed in close future ( If corona pandemy officially ends :D ) he will find woman.

    • Thanks for eig, lemme fix little grammar mistake "my friend is same as me as age" I mean he is 23 years old, we are not same as behaviour lol.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Virginity is a weird over-rated concept that people pour their attitudes and erroneous ideas into. It's kinda silly when you think about it, and all a matter of perspective i think. Don't know what the big deal is about being a virgin is really -- it like an idealistic and unattainable virtue imposed on people by others.

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  • Why do you have to wait?

  • Wait for the right guy at the right time.

  • Why wait? 🤔🤔

    • Can’t find a guy. I was gonna do it with my ex but we broke up and covid it’s hard to meet people so I’m stuck using dating apps till I get a vaccine and find a job which who knows when

    • Virginity is something very special for us you should give to someone special don’t give it just like that to random guy and you waited so long so little more

  • Masturbate or let the guy play with you

    • Update: good. Don’t rush.

    • as a virgin myself she shouldn't rush it :)

    • @poneglyphs exactly

  • Call me, we'll figure something out

  • Find yourself a good man and get married

  • Yeah I can understand. Isn't it funny how so many people across the world crave intimacy and love yet they all fund it so hard to find each other?

    But apart from that I think wasting an entire year of our lives at home during lockdown probably increased our anxiety regarding loosing our youth quickly

  • You're only 22, honey.

  • A suggestion? Don't worry about your virginity. It's a piece of vaginal flesh. If you're concerned you won't get dicked? Go to a local gloryhole. There's more dicks there than you can possibly handle

  • I gave my virginity up at 23 to a 36 yr old woman. I wouldn't worry too much about and try to live your life. You will find someone who may want to help you explore your sexuality. 😎

  • Masturbate hang in there you'll find some one soon

  • Have to wait for what?

  • stop waiting... most virgins are not (they say that they are) and most guys don't care or believe them.. so if your doing it to impress anyone, it won't.

  • You don't have to wait.

  • You’ll feel ready when you meet the right person

  • Well i don't think virginity is related to age

  • Be glad that as a woman you don't have to take any action or make the first move

  • Masturbation is the old fashioned way to handle it. But other than that dating apps or a friend with benefits are the main options.

    • Especially with COVID-19 going on

    • Yeah the options aren't great. A mix of masturbation and online or long distance relationships help fill the emotional aspects as well. I've had a few different online only partners before when I am single and it makes a big difference