Girls, Do you think that a guy being a virgin at 26 strange because you would think that he already had some experience?

Was talking to someone new and she said I'm weird for being a virgin my age? I'm uhh okay 😳 so I'm guessing being a virgin at 26 is not really common 🤔. She figured it out because of the way I was talking to her or something like that? Don't feel bad about it just wondering?
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  • Personally to me is not weird at all. Having sex is a choice. You shouldn't get intimidated by a culture that having a sex is now on tip of your finger with a swipe right on a mobile app!
    No judgment on people who what to do tinder hook up and no judgment for a person who choose to not have sex until they actually what it.

    • Well, I am not choosing to be a virgin just that no one has ever liked me before. I have tried tinder and other dating apps. But nothing ever comes from it, I always get ghosted, bots only like me, or people who match with you but never respond. I do want to have a sex life and know what its like to with someone else.

    • I know how you are feeling. For someone people being the first person and take your virginity feels like a big responsibility. Maybe your looking at the wrong direction. If you met a nice person and have a connection and then be intemate would be lovely. You don't have to mention that you are virgin at first. Just like I don't ask how many people my date has slept with when I met them. It's a personal thing

    • @niki777 yeah you're right. Why is taking someone virginity a big deal? I won't tell them I'm a virgin unless she figures out the truth or once we're on the bed about to have sex. Also, is it true that it gets harder dating the longer you're a virgin?

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  • Well at this time or with this generation that we live upon, most of the girls would think that guys at your age would be have more experience since they think that guys do those things even in their teens. Also they think that guys are super horny since most guys have porn magazine in their rooms. Buuuut they don't know that they are still guys who are still virgin at your age or even in their 30s. For me, it doesn't seem strange just because you are virgin at the age of 26. Don't worry, for sure there are still some guys who are like you and even if their age is 30ish. Don't feel pressured and just take your pace. 😊

    • Oh well I am super horny xD, I tried dating in my teens but always got shot down. It just feels weird being through all college and not dating anyone or having a sex life? I'm not pressured just feel lonely sometimes and doubt my looks and body. Mostly because why hasn't anyone been attracted to me? I do want to have sex and date jst hat not really given the chance by anyone. @elliefayre

    • Ohhh well some guys do that thing "hook up" or "friends with benefits". There are also some guys who are into "one night stand". Well, you just got to get more confidence in yourself. I know for sure that you are good natured and good looking. If you are doubting to your looks then improve it or just improve your self-esteem. Also, try to talk with girls and befriend them.

    • @elliefayre OK, I think most of my problems come from internally. But yeah, I will talk to more girls and be friends with more of them. Also, I do want to experience and friends with benefits or hookup.

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  • I don’t think it’s weird. She sounds judgy.

    • @ewgies01 Yeah, maybe you're right