Guys, do you naturally assume we're flirting with you when we talk to you?

[ThatsGrossILoveIt]

[Nalix]

Many do. If they are not used to a woman being even a little friendly with them, then regular conversation feels like flirting. Also, if you're attractive, just existing can feel like flirting. Both are cured by getting a guy a platonic girlfriend who is at least moderately attractive. This probably won't happen to guys who have sisters with whom he gets along.

[summiter]

Not at all. I just enjoy a fun and honest conversation. If a girl wants to flirt... all the better but I never assume it.

[Anonymous]

I think the ones that do are just mistaken and it’s never intentional. Maybe they’re not used to a woman being so friendly with them.


Plus if you smile a lot and laugh at his jokes you really can’t blame him for thinking you’re flirting.

[anupamagrawal]

No, I naturally assume that she just love to talk and don't give wings to my otherwise fansies.

[ChrisMaster69]

On line or in real?

online my working assumption is serial killer / axe murderer after next victim.

in real I just flirt, I flirt with neighbours cat when I pass it, I am just a natural tart.

I just assume other people are nice

[JPrez]

No. I've learned to ready body language and eyes in women to know the difference.

[Lynx122]

No most of the time I don't think so but sometimes it's really hard to tell. Girls have liked me in the past and I didn't realize it till way later and I've also thought a girl liked me and it wasn't true. It's pretty hard to know sometimes.

[buddysboy16]

It's sad and I try to remind myself this isn't the case but whenever a girl shows any sort of friendliness to me, I assume she flirting.

[Gwenhwyfar]

A lot of guys do

[Ripper_E]

No. There are subtle hints, sometimes, but I don't assume a woman is talking to me so she must be flirting.

[Makeushiver]

In our fantasies

[AmeerX]

No, girls think this about us

[Marco10]

Depends on the guy. I wouldn’t personally.

[clampfan101]

I never would.

[TheFlak38]

no...

[ThatsGrossILoveIt]

Ok...

[COMMODOREII]

Even if you are not i sure am. 😜

[CuriousMufuxka]

Usually. Oh wait, you meant testing..

[Valnac]

Depends how you are talking to me.

[Waldoe]

we don't assume... WE HOPE...

[ChefPapiChulo]

No. I don’t assume she likes me until we’ve had sex.

[EaterPeter]

Well we are trying to read signals 🙃

[EaterPeter]

Thanks Maria for like!

[grega239]

I assume nothing

[jirwin7979]

not me it would take a very upfront move to tell me a girl is flirting