Guys, the worst experience of my life happened today?

[Anonymous]

So, this is extremely embarrassing, but I have a mole on my booty. It’s kind of like a wart but it’s a mole. My boyfriend and I were making out and he didn’t see it but he felt it. He immediately stopped and asked what it was. The look of fear was on my face. I was humiliated about it. He was like “what is that? Why is it like a ball?”🤣 I then later told him it was a mole. It was quite traumatic. Was this the biggest turn off in the world? I cannot believe it happed

[ChrisMaster69]

That seriously is a really minor thing in the scheme of things.

he should be accepting of it and you really need to accept it as a part of who you are.

Everyone something that we are a bit eek with, learn to live with it, dated girls before with various issues, I have a number of embarrassing scars.

an ex had scaring over her boob and stomach from hot water scalding as a child, we still went on a nudist holiday.

[DJB72]

It sounds like you're more bothered about it than he was. I have a few moles all over the place. A few years ago my doctor insisted on removing a couple of them. It was no big deal to do, just numb round and slice off. If it worries you that much maybe you should consider it.

If your boyfriend was turned off by a mole on your butt then you've got way bigger issues anyway.

[Anonymous]

Loool I find this funny cause I feel like some of us girls can relate in some way. But nah, I think us women tend to overthink things waaaay too much.


I think he just asked cause he was curious. You probably would have done the same thing if roles were reversed.

[AustinMan]

I'm confident he had no idea it would trigger you. Let it go.

[summiter]

Humans get growths , moles and pimples it is part of life. Do not overthink things. If you don't like it get it removed by a dermatologist. Where is your mole?

[Asker]

On my booty cheek😂

[TonyV]

It suprised him sure but i doubt he really cares about it.
So dont worry about it to much, it's just a mole, lots of people have a mole.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Did you guys go back to making out after that?

[Asker]

Yes we did

[Gwenhwyfar]

Then you’re fine 😊. He doesn’t care about your mole.

[Ewgies01]

Yay! Funny story.

[Mac-One]

It was appropriate for him to ask for assurance that it was not anything dangerous.

[bowenw]

Don't feel embarrassed over something like a mole, aftercall you are giving him sex. A good guy won't care. If it really bothers you ask your doctor if it can be laser removed.

[chriscdi]

😂😂😂

[Makeushiver]

Well you didn't say where on your body so its hard to say but most people have shit like that and if something that insignificant bothers him, fuck him.

[RHK36]

Sounds like a funny story and no he didn't care.

[Meldrum]

We all have either physical or mental anomalies. My suggestion is to have the mole removed through laser surgery, which can be done in any practitioner's office if they are so equipped, or in day surgery at a hospital if this bothers you.

[Valnac]

Go to a dermatologist and have it removed.

[Waldoe]

seems pretty immature of him, nobody is perfect

[msc545]

You should probably see a doctor about that mole.

[EaterPeter]

Hopefully not. Discuss it out of the bedroom. You've already told him that you. have mole. What bothers me most about sharing such intimate detail is how my SO would use it. I've found women to be very inconsiderate of my feelings. If I ever say. I don't like this. They would do it over and over again. What the f***. I love you I trusted you I exposed my self I am vulnerable now this is my weak spot. Please dontuse this to manipulate and make me feel horrible.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks Asker for like!

[jimmy2]

Oh my is inexperienced

[bclbn77006]

why everyone so concern of that sexual part.
he loved your personality not your vagina.
so why you be embarrassed about your body.
everyone has some cons so deal with it.
Your mole is God gift so be happy with it.