Would you considered these people to be virgins?

A girl who has never had penis-in-vagina intercourse, but her boyfriend has fucked her using a sex toy.

A guy who has never had sex with a person, but has fucked a sex doll.

A girl who has never had sex, but has fucked herself with a dildo while her boyfriend watched and told her exactly what to do.

A guy who has been given a handjob by his girlfriend while she used an electronic arm to do so.

A girl and guy who never had sex, but were both tied to a separate chair naked, and two people lifted the chairs and then shoved them together so that they had involuntary penetrative sex without actively fucking each other.

A guy who has never had consensual sex but raped someone.

A woman who got a tampon stuck in her vagina, and her boyfriend volunteered to fish it out for her, and she had an orgasm while he was doing so.

A man who positioned himself naked right behind his sleeping girlfriend, and then tickled her front with a feather so she would jerk back and accidentally shove him inside her.
Would you considered these people to be virgins?
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  • Damn good questions!

    "A girl who has never had penis-in-vagina intercourse, but her boyfriend has fucked her using a sex toy." That depends. At any point, did his hand ever make direct contact with her vulva?

    "A guy who has never had sex with a person, but has fucked a sex doll." Still a virgin, but a creepy one.

    "A girl who has never had sex, but has fucked herself with a dildo while her boyfriend watched and told her exactly what to do." Still a virgin. Not that I approve of her behavior, though. It was still naughty. (But it can be forgiven, I suppose.)

    "A guy who has been given a handjob by his girlfriend while she used an electronic arm to do so." Not a virgin. (I know this is a double standard, but I judge guys more harshly.)

    "A girl and guy who never had sex, but were both tied to a separate chair naked, and two people lifted the chairs and then shoved them together so that they had involuntary penetrative sex without actively fucking each other." I'm going to rule that one as "not virgins" for both of them. Close call, though.

    "A guy who has never had consensual sex but raped someone." Wow. That's deep. I'm going to say "still a virgin," because he doesn't fucking deserve the honor of non-virgin status. It's like the Olympics where you get your medals stripped if you're caught cheating.

    "A woman who got a tampon stuck in her vagina, and her boyfriend volunteered to fish it out for her, and she had an orgasm while he was doing so." Still a virgin.

    "A man who positioned himself naked right behind his sleeping girlfriend, and then tickled her front with a feather so she would jerk back and accidentally shove him inside her." She's a moral virgin, because she's innocent. He is also a moral virgin, because he's guilty. He's also a rapist, so hopefully he gets his dick chopped off.

    • Thanks for the MHO!

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  • I am gonna be honest. If virginity means purity of the mind and body, over sexual desire and action (consensual); anything sexual you do with another person, with consent, is by default a sexual relationship.

    All the vaginal sex nonsense, is that: nonsense. Sex, is: oral, vaginal and anal, and in these times, it's virtual. Virtual sex is another topic, but I do think you can't fully call someone a virgin, if there was tons of virtual sex involve. Neither, non-virgin. It's in the borderline, I would say.

    Rape can not, and shouldn't be accepted as a way of losing virginity. Rape is a form of violence, and been a victim of violence don't dictate your value, or worth.

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  • loopholes, nah I think virginity is a state of mind, if you masturbated (had sex by yourself sort of) then I guess you’re not a virgin. In those scenarios except for the sex doll ones, those people will lose their virginities quickly after those situations.

    • Losing virginity is having sex with another person. It is impossible to lose your virginity by yourself.

    • @Jamie05rhs Yeah I made a mistake there.

    • @modelUN242 Oh. Lol.

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  • I think the answers depend on how you define "virgin." That is always the real issue with virgin questions.

  • The rapeist, the 2 people in chairs, and sleeping girlfriend couple aren't virgins but everyone else is still a virgin

  • Yes
    Yes
    yes
    yes
    no
    no
    yes
    no

    You can add qualifiers to virginity and that's fine but if no qualifier is given for hetero sex if you've had your (or partners) penis in your (or partners) vagina you're not a virgin. If you haven't, you are.

  • if the penis went into a vagina they both lost their Vcard, it has to be sex tho, even if it was on a chair or raped, the Vcard is gone

  • ignoring the rape factor to all these scenarios really, i would consider each of these partial virgins. morally most (some obvious exceptions) are still virgins but mentally and some physically are not.

    • oh and there is the percetional factor too.

  • Except these two all others are virgins.

    A girl and guy who never had sex, but were both tied to a separate chair naked, and two people lifted the chairs and then shoved them together so that they had involuntary penetrative sex without actively fucking each other.

    A guy who has never had consensual sex but raped someone.

  • Wow that paints a picture.
    It's sex when the dick goes in the pussy.
    Concentual or not they have had sex, so not a virgin. Masturbating and other things with sex toys is not having sex so still a virgin.
    What made u ask this question?

  • All virgins except the rapist

    • ^this

    • Also the 2 people who were pushed together. They were both raped.

    • I count 5 virgins, 4 rape victims and 2 rapists. I would not consider any of these people to have had sex.

  • You have a big imagination

  • some "No's" and some "Yes's"

  • The first 4 and the 7th one are virgins, the rest aren't

  • 1, 2, 3, 4, and 7 are *technically* virgins. However, 1, 3, 4, and 7 aren't *really* virgins because although virginity is traditionally defined as having had PIV intercourse, they each still had some form of sexual intercourse. 2 is the only one that's completely and unquestionably a virgin, and wouldn't be lying at all if he simply said he was a virgin without any further explanation, whereas the rest would be deceptively omitting relevant info if they did the same.