How can you tell if he’s turned on?

[Anonymous]

[AmandaYVR]

Girl, no offence but you are a hot mess.
This guy is married. Abort this mission. It doesn't matter how long you've been pining for him, he's not yours for the taking.
He probably mentions his wife because he's trying to be subtle, yet upfront that he is not available.
And you've liked him since being a teenager, so he's way older than you.
And you sound really naive. You're not ready for a relationship with a full-fledged adult. It's obvious when a man is "turned on." Your subsequent replies are really about you finding out whether he likes you, based on general behaviour and body language. It doesn't matter if he's facing you when he talks, or gives more attention to you than others. This is a dead end. Don't be a home wrecker.
Sorry for the bluntness, but sometimes people need to hear it.

[Ewgies01]

It’ll be very obvious.


Are you wanting to know what the signs are that he likes you? I mean if he smiles at you and talks to you that’s a pretty good sign.

[kajad1]

🤣 how do you know :P :D 🤣 ;)

[Ewgies01]

Been with my man for 20 years. It’s pretty obvious.

[kajad1]

do you have any daughter i can marry? i give you 1 camel

[Ewgies01]

Lol. Sorry, sir. Only sons here.

[kajad1]

we need more females why do you have sons have more daughters ok its normal

[Asker]

What about preening and breathing hard like those type of signs?

[Ewgies01]

Not sure about preening, but he’s gonna be hard before he starts breathing hard.

[kajad1]

Breathe hard is for sexy sexy only oke?

[kajad1]

do you know sexy sexy? 🤣

[Asker]

Our eyes are usually all over each other

[Ewgies01]

Sounds like you are into each other.

[Asker]

He has a wife so that’s why I’m so confused I’ve liked him for years now and this year he now started showing signs and I’ve met his wife multiple times a d I’m friends with his niece so I don't know

[kajad1]

How many wife he have. he is king 🤔 good for him :D

[Ewgies01]

Nope. Red flags going up all over the place. Find someone else. He’s not a good guy.

[kajad1]

Why? maybe he want second wife 🤔 @ewgies01 its normal.

[Ewgies01]

If she’s trying to get on My Five Wives, go for it. Otherwise, find someone else.

[kajad1]

i dont mean 5 🤔 :( thats much. only 4

[Asker]

I’ve been in love for him for 4 years now and he’s always know because my friend aka his niece told me that he knows and that he was fine with it then I turned 18 and he’s been much sweeter and different and when he talks about his wife he says it in a way and the kind of details in his story makes it seem like he’s trying to make me jealous

[kajad1]

Its normal

[Ewgies01]

He’s grooming you. Run. away. I’m serious. @kajad1 I don’t need your comment on this. start a new thread if you must.

[Asker]

I don’t like the whole multiple wives thing it would be awkward

[kajad1]

Its normal he alpha male. so he must own 4 wives, this is true nature biology belive me if he treat you good no worry :)

[Asker]

Other people he’s around he tries to keep his distance but with me it feels like he’s always in my personal space which I really like

[Asker]

His feet no matter where he is always point towards me

[kajad1]

nice :D

[kajad1]

Do you wnana marry him also

[kajad1]

please no intercourse before marrige

[Asker]

I don’t have sex before marriage that’s a big no no

[Tylermassengill]

I hate to say it but a lot of men are fairly simple creatures with obvious... signs. Of course one sign is if he gets a boner but most of the time they will try to hide their hornieness or are absolute pigs with no filter or self control. Usually when a guy is horny and trying to hide it they will try to find something to do to distract you and themselves from the signs and thoughts. Some guys will get nervous and start sweating and getting Anxious, but a lot of times they will get hot flashes. I don’t know why but whenever a guy gets horny there body temperature goes out of control

[summiter]

Usually he will make good eye contact and if he has a boner then it is a definite sign. Your thoughts?

[Asker]

Sounds about right thanks

[summiter]

Enjoy and have some fun when the time comes!

[anupamagrawal]

If a man is turned on - he can control his breathing, his expression but not the little jack in the pant. Feel it and you will know if he is ready to please you.

[OlderAndWiser]

Is he boner-fied?

[ChrisMaster69]

Drooling, wanking at the dinner table.

usual stuff

[JackSmy]

REALLY? Are you THAT CLUELESS? He is HARD! DUH!!!

[spartan55]

I've heard it's called a boner?

[Angelo75]

Check for a bulge in his pants.

[Danny_dan92]

His dick gets hard

[Asker]

I meant other signs

[Danny_dan92]

That’s the main sign you’re gonna see. Tbh.

[Asker]

I can’t really tell if it’s hard I don't know the difference

[Danny_dan92]

I don't know what to tell you

[Ewgies01]

For future reference: Hard means erect. Like sticking out. It’s easy to see. Even under pants. If you can’t see it through his pants it’s probably not hard. Now run away from this abuser and find someone your age.

[Danny_dan92]

If you’re calling me an abuser I don't know why. But yeah, that or he has a small dick

[Ewgies01]

@danny_dan92 - nope. Read the thread above. This sicko has been grooming her since she was a kid.

[Asker]

No I said not until 18 he started doing that

[Asker]

He’s NOT an abuser but I’ve liked him for years

[Ewgies01]

He’s still in a position of power. It’s imbalanced. It’s not a good idea.

[Danny_dan92]

I only see the title of the question

[Ewgies01]

I guess my thread is below

[Makeushiver]

By the hardness of his cock. The range is somewhere between over cooked squash to steel cable.

[Massageman]

He will pitch a tent in his pants

[hhH2traveler]

Its a good sign if he has an erection, but you can't always/just go by that. Look at if he’s looking at you sexually, is he touching you?

[AmeerX]

Just see the erection

[kajad1]

What 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Wise4myage]

Feel his crotch and listen to his heartbeat. If its racing, then he is. turned on.

[MountAverage]

When his wee wee goes boing.

Do you know what a penis is?

[Asker]

Well besides that

[MountAverage]

Are you telling me you've never been around a person who was sexually aroused?

[Asker]

I probably have but I can’t tell

[MountAverage]

And what makes you think it would be so different from how you are when you're turned on?

[Asker]

There are some different signs between a man and a woman

[MountAverage]

Like what?

[Gedaria]

By the bulge in his pants.

[Meldrum]

Feel around his crotch area. If you feel something long and hard, he's turned on.

[jasco]

In person his meat shall be risen on the phone more than likely he will tell you

[Valnac]

Look at the front of his pants.

[bananathunder]

his dick will be hard lol

[Waldoe]

his cock will be hard, just grab ahold and see... he won't mind...