Guys love sex, and it's an important part of a relationship for nearly all men, but a relationship is more than just sex, and if sex is the only thing keeping a guy around, he won't be around forever.
Most people enjoy sex, and our bodies want it when we are with someone, but if you're trying to build a RELATIONSHIP (and not just a casual sex partner), then you should hold off on sex a little bit (at LEAST 3 dates or several weeks) so that you can get to know him better first, and the two of you should spend that time talking about issues of long-term compatibility:
Do you have the same morals, values, and life goals? Do you want marriage? Children? Do you have family obligations? Does your job keep you away from home, or require you to move around the country/world on a regular basis? Do you want to live in a big city, in the suburbs, or out in the rural country? What is your career like, and what kind of income can you expect? Do you have debt?
There's more, but you get the idea. When you are in a long-term relationship with someone, those questions - and their answers - MATTER, and if you aren't compatible, you need to find that out BEFORE you start sleeping together. That way, if you have to break it off, it's much easier on you emotionally.
Once you get into a relationship with someone, you get who you get - you can't change them, so if you failed to notice that they have $400,000 in credit card debt, or they are an alcoholic, or they flick their boogers at the TV, or whatever it is, you either have to learn to live with it or break up with them. Your only chance to choose and filter people is BEFORE you've made a commitment to them, so you better know them VERY well before you do that.
Well a couple things
1 he gave you an explanation and said it was over, so he didn't ghost you, ghosting is when they leave and you never hear anything from them again.
2 it sounds like you expected him to stay just cause you were swallowing, it sound like you were using sex as a tool to keep him around. Dont do that, sex isn't to keep us around, sex is just suppose to be for fun, plain and simple fun, so if you dont like to swallow dont, have fun and dont expect any guy too stay just cause you had sex. If you want to know a guys serious about you you're better off making him wait awhile for sex.
It honestly sounds like he told you the truth, I think he did like you but just not enough, sounds like you really have different goals.
Thank you for the closure he didn't want to give me. I really appreciate it. I stopped crying after reading this and will keep it in mind
He blocked me right after saying it was over so thank you
Yeah cheer up, it sucks when it dosent work out, but as long as you learn some life lesson is all good right? Im sure being blocked hurts right now but even that i dont think was done to be mean, it just makes it easier for both people to move on. Chin up girl, this relationship was a bad fit but now you have an even better idea what to look for in the next guy!👍
Sorry hon. Some men are jerks. Fooling around with some of them casually this is likely to happen. It always feels crappy if you were interested and they vanish after. My rule for hooking up is if I feel something gor them I don't give them what I want until I know they aren't one of these types. Usually the bad ones will show their true colors once they see you aren't going to just jump on them right away.
i should do that next time. I just hate to feel like its a trade off
Were you that bad? Only in that you were dumb enough to do it. In fact it was so dumb, as is your question, that I doubt it's veracity and think you are just trolling as a lot of pink anons do because they are probably guys. I would like to think the fairer sex is not as dumb as you portray us.
Are any of us that dumb? This is hilarious! The anon stories are getting worse.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!uh no probably not, a lot of people use dating apps just to get laid
he just wants to get it from as many girls as possible
It was not you... he was an ass. Did he ever return the favor and give you some good orgasms?
He used you, and you let him! No, he isn't coming back! he has probably used at least two other women, since he had you! He's a Player Punk Douch-bag!!
He just wanted to blow a few loads. You did good. This happens. accept it and don't hold out on the next one just because this guy left you after he cummed in your mouth
He would probably only come back for more sex at some point if his other options are not available. He got what he wanted and left you hanging basically. Sorry this happened to you. I would need to know more if he thought it was bad but it could be a possibility.
Yeah i figured he dropped me because he had better options
Sorry this happened. Chin up girl, I'm sure you're amazing. Dude is probably an ahole.
He was just after a hookup.
You should try and avoid putting out to such guys if you're more into something long term.
He tried to pressure you. That’s gross.
Yeah i told him i liked him and he would pressure me when i was in his car all the time
Gross. I’m sorry that happened to you.
Pressuring a girl is a form of rape. Not ok. You don’t want to be with him. You can do better.
nope he isn't coming back, he used you to bust a nut, i dont know what to say sorry 🤷🏽♂️
I doubt it's anything you did, try not to take it to heart if you can. He's the type of person who's in it until they get bored then move on. Selfish people, for sure
Sounds like he got what he wanted, you're better off without him.
You made a pretty wrong choice. Didn't anyone ever warn you this would happen?
You are the first girl who is this gullible
his orgasm was complete. He doesn't owe you anything afterwards.
It might have not been good... sorry to say
He probably won't return to you, I doubt your oral skills were the reason.
There are guys that are Trophy Hunters, one and done, quantity not quality.
They usually can be found on Tinder.
How long did you date?
About 2 months
It sounds like he didn’t want to commit and isn’t man enough to tell you face to face
he just used you for sex
you still think of him like if he will come back..
you should be thankful that you saw his real face.
he is a predator, he does it as often as he can, finds girls and dumps them. it isn't you... it's him
He never was serious about you
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