The thing for me is really the last part. To me, just because you don't have a job should not make you unattractive but what are you doing in the mean time? Are you going to school to further yourself, are you making plans to start your own business, do you plan to go out on your own with your families money... But doing porn all day does not sound like a good trait for a person. If I were a girl, I'd want to see what their fruits and plans were. I think I would be more accepting playing video games all day with the idea of encouraging them to do something apart from just that, life is bigger than that. And maybe you can still do that with them too, encourage them to do something more than just watch porn all day. Encourage them to do something productive with their life. Maybe simply, work to get them out of the house as a friend and doing something like walking
No, he doesn't study he finished his degree few years ago and since then been jumping from one job to another. He used to have a business and as per what he said covid-19 messed up with everything and he had to close that business. A few months ago he said he was going to start renovating houses but that never really happened and he keeps saying this is not a good time because of covid-19. Seems like covid-19 is an excuse for everything now. He goes to the gym daily for like an hour.
At least he is going to the gym but covid is a valid excuse for many now unfortunately... However, I'd still encourage him to start getting ready for the next big thing and start investing time in doing little things. All building up to his next big project so he can get started as soon as possible once covid gets better which might be hopefully this year if we are lucky 🤔
At the same time I don't feel like I'm in the position of giving him a heads up. I'm just a friend not a girlfriend or someone I see every week.
Lazy without ambition. Even with covid, there are many jobs available. And he could go for a higher degree to prep for work that would pay more and often be able to work from home. His family’s money gives him more opportunities. He is not using them.
He's not the type of guy who would get any job. He cares more about status.
Broke and lazy is not a good status.
Oh no but he loves to say he's rich and he will always be rich lol.
I think little of him. Even if he doesn't need the money he should be doing something with his life
A lot of people been using this pandemic as an excuse to do nothing.
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Because sounds unusual to me too.
Not UNUSUAL, but patently lazy and unmotivated. Even rich people find something they're interested in to do. Beck was a rich kid and he found something he was good at that made him even richer! He had a talent and exploited it AND gave people pleasure. To vegetate is worthless.
I agree.
Unless his family is wealthy and his plan is to live off of stock market or some other business his family invested in, he shouldn't be living like this. He should grow up.
Agreed.
Is he trying to get a job or going to school though?
I don't think so. Last time we spoke about work was a few months ago and he said he was going to start restoring houses and sell them later. That never happened since last time we spoke about our careers.
Sounds like a loser to me, and NOT because he's living with his parents.
I share the same opinion.
I hope this is not your boyfriend. He needs to get a life a job and someone he cares for. Sure all guys like jerking off frequently (they will never admit it) but he needs to change.
He's not a boyfriend lol he's just a friend.
If was a Chamillionaire I'd lay around and punch the clown all day too.
Sounds typical... a sign of the times?
Could be.
Yeah more people live at home and for longer periods than ever before.
sounds very frustrating.
I think In 10 years there is a 90% chance he’ll be a 38 year old jobless man. Even if he got a job soon it’s likely he lacks the motivation to work hard and keep it.
I don't him as a person with a 9-5 permanent job and sitting behind a desk.
Then we both agree he’s unlikely to get a job
cool, i whish i had rich parents as well
But just because you come from a wealthy family that doesn't mean you'll still be rich especially if you just stay home doing nothing.
if my parents have enought money maby i can
Do you think is right to take advantage of your family's wealth?
I'd say pass
32 infertile feemale
What?
Your eggs are virtually gone
What? Why?
He’s a slow starter
But do you think he still has potential to build a career or he will also rely on his parents' fortune?
Has he ever done anything positive. Maybe he needs to get a good kick in the butt to get him started
He used to have a business but as per what he said covid-19 ruined everything. But even when he had that business he was home all the time and never had his own place.
i never think of that guy
Sounds like a bum. Avoid.
He's just a friend not my boyfriend.
Oh, that's fine then. Wouldn't wanna get involved with someone like that!
No at all. He loves to say he's rich but whenever we go out I always have to pay for everything.
I can answer this question in 3 words, FREE LOADING LOSER!
Sorry, but he’s a waste of air.
Rn its hard to say considering covid. Its hard to find a job and since his parents are willing for him to stay at home till the pandemic dies down its actually quite smart.
Scratch the end add almost 2 years and CV that's me. Granted I just finished a course in medical billing and hopefully will get a job soon, but I was very much like him at 28. I got a girlfriend though.
But at least you're willing to find a job and have a career. He finished his degree a few years ago. Didn't have a girlfriend for the past 5 years and just wants to fuck around.
I finished my degree in 10 years and didn't get a girlfriend until I was 27. If I get a job gain it'll be my first paying job. It's not easy for some of us, and I am better than most. At least I appear NT.
I think his parents fucked up in raising him and he's a deadbeat.
This.
Waste of time...
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