If a person you are dating goes overseas and returns with foreign condoms... is that a red flag or them thinking of you upon return?

If a person you are dating goes overseas and returns with foreign condoms... is that a red flag or them thinking of you upon return?
Say your boyfriend or girlfriend returns from overseas with condoms from another country.
Red Flag!
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No big deal. Condoms are cheaper in some foreign countries than in the United States.
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She got them from her brothers fiance because she was on birth control. They have a close family. This story told 3 months later matches what she said at the time. She is either a good liar or telling the truth.
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  • Bro, how much would you be saving by buying condoms in MX? A few bucks at most so no it doesn’t make sense that she bought condoms. Would you buy condoms at a foreign country? F no, that would look 100% suspicious right. Dude, there are all sorts of red flags around this trip to MX, get some answers from her. How long have y’all been dating each other? Do you know much of her past? Once you get a good idea of her patter of behavior you can make a better informed decision. But this story would def raise red flags.

    • 2 months.

    • I just remembered now. Before she left we had sex but had an issue with her magnum condoms. Im 8 inches but the magnums are slightly too girthy. Well... before she left we had sex and the condom came off and got stuck deep inside her. There was a freak out because we couldn't find the condom right away. So on her arrival that night. She pulled out new condoms that fit more snug. Make sense?

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's a red flag cause I would think does she want me to use them condoms or was she having sex with a dude overseas?

    • Thanks For Most Helpful Guy :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe they're making a condom collection. Personally, I 'd never use anything but US condoms because I know they undergo stringent testing and have low failure rates.
    I don't think someone returning with condoms means anything at all except they don't want to get involved in someone getting pregnant.
    Only a red flag if they're touting the "raw" situation.

  • If they told you about them (without you first discovering them) then it's a +.

    If they hid them, or you found them, and they then had to comment and acted awkward, then it's a 🚩.

    • Thanks!

    • Yw 👍

    • "THis is a neutral question. But in my instance the person was a female. And she pulled them out casually to use with me." Good. Then no worries. But out of curiosity, what was special about these condoms, that she bought them in Mexico? Tingling? Colours? Glow in the dark? Extra large? Hypoallergenic? You don't have to answer if you don't want but the more specialized and unique they are, the better, the more you can trust her.

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  • Honestly it all depends. On what kind of person are they, how the condoms were brought up into conversation etc

  • Yes!

  • I don't use them but if my partner came back with a hunch if different types and was excited to try them out is be down.

  • I wouldn't mind, if she went overseas without me we probably have some non-mono relationship and it'd be cool if she was having protected sex. Maybe we are having unprotected sex, so that's a fair situation too.

  • Are they different from the US condoms? Like scent, flavors, etc?

    • The packaging was all in Spanish. Very generic. Nothing fancy.

  • Better than bringing back a foreign disease.

  • Not as good though. Cheap can mean not as good.

    • Yes. BUt is it a sign that she cheated overseas if she bough condoms overseas?

    • Could be. But does she usually use and carry them. Do you use condoms , so she could have brought some different ones back..

  • I got japanese condoms Im dying to try!

  • They were what was used by other guys who fucked her and she brought you the leftovers !

  • red flag

  • Did he try to hide them from you? Or pull them out to use with you? I’d need to know that before I could choose an answer.

    • THis is a neutral question. But in my instance the person was a female. And she pulled them out casually to use with me. We had sex several times and I think we used up all of the mexican condoms that she had left. Went back to her last stash of Magnums.

    • I think she was planning to get some action with you.

    • OKay thanks. When it first happened that was what I was thinking.