For most guys, butt or breasts is a big turn on. Why not vagina?

[amelia094]

[Realistic07]

So I would argue it’s not so much that we don’t have attraction towards the vagina it’s more so that butt and breasts are more apparent, and socially excepted as talking points so opinions can be formed of them.


I’m sure if vaginas were as apparent , and as socially excepted talking points as butts and breast then we would voice our attractions more frequently.
Also keep in mind though that there are in reality certain social norms that just so happen to fall into conversation about the female form that are very socially accepted.


That being said there are certain realities as men that we’ve come to learn, and face is that certain topics are better left not talked about. Particularly due to the fact that by talking about them it may make us seem creepy or sketchy.




If anything I would argue that we don’t talk about vaginas so much simply; because it’s socially abnormal in which to do so.
At the same time however that doesn’t mean we have less attraction to vag. If anything I would say that the vagina being treated as such a delicate topic has made it more attractive to men due to a certain social Mystique that’s been put around the topic itself.


It’s the concept that; because One does not talk about it one’s curiosity and attraction to it may be vastly greater. However due to the reality that social norms dictate not to talk about vag particularly men not to talk about vag due to the fact that we may be considered as sexual harasser‘s. it’s led to a dynamic in which we just simply more often than not avoid it as a talking point so as to avoid being labeled as perverts and rapist.


Is it a double standard yes, is it a social norm that is inherently sexist yes, is it unfortunately the reality of society at large yes. Unfortunately; because of that we often say less than the more that we are thinking so we don’t get labeled or treated badly for being curious.


Well I hope I’ve answered your question to the best of my ability and as always till next time I hope you are doing well and have a wonderful life.

[Andres77]

Because you can't see the vagina from across the room... unless you like to flash a little...😏.

Men, we spend 9 months trying to get out of the vagina and the rest of our lives trying to get back in... of course we want the pussy but that's the prize we need to earn.

[MrOracle]

It's a turn-on for sure, but unless she's naked and has her legs spread, it's not like we can normally see much. Boobs and butts have shapes that can be seen even while clothed. But once a girl IS naked, her vagina is definitely a turn-on for us.

[AustinMan]

T&A are more visible.

[harvest]

Because the look of a vagina doesn't have anything to do with your ability to give me children. That's the short version. If you want longer explanation, let me know cuz this is a bit more complicated than more people would think...

[knottywriter]

For me I love the pussy. I think it's just not part of the normal conversation because most questions are abouts butts or breasts. I'm an equal opportunity lover there. But I love a nice pussy most, we just don't typically talk about them. Probably because they aren't as prominent a feature in everyday clothes.

[OlderAndWiser]

All of the above!

[ChrisMaster69]

Not really on show as much as other two.

also let’s face it it’s the first thing the majority of us saw and that was a bit messy lol

[JackSmy]

I guess I am the 'weird' one, then, because I love her most intimate place, and the curves, and how she looks, and the 'accidental Camel Toe' and going down there, and when she loves it, and silly noises, feeling that joy!

[AndyOh]

Because the butt and boobs are right there for all to see.
The vagina is a bit hidden.

For me, I love the vagina first.

[JPrez]

We love vaginas. Just gotta see ‘em to know how sexy they are.

[wankiam]

im not most guys... i mean i like boobs not fussed about her but and i love vaginas. i mean i really love them

[TOTEMPLASTER]

The first two items are on prominent display while the latter is tucked away out of sight.

[boggboss]

Lol you are talking rubbish lol it is a turn on the difference is a guy can see but and breasts with clothing women don't walk around with there pum pum exposed

[TadCurious]

For me the vulva/vagina is a huge turn on.

[Miristheiss]

Oh it is.
That particular intimacy isn't anything you can really get a feel for when she is wearing her clothes. Depending on what she is wearing, you can get an overview of the other 2 while she is walking around normally.

[amelia094]

Which one u focus the most?

[LiamSawyer]

I like the whole package but for me the biggest turn on is the vulva, the labia size, dies the inner labia protrude, job prominent and long is the clit hood. This is all a turn on as I love to give oral.

[Dargil]

Do you mean looking at her vagina (vulva)? Of course it is.
My actual favorite? Pulled open and peeing. I can't explain why but it is just beyond hot to me.

[Apope16]

No. I would say the pussy or vagina is the biggest turn on. That gets me erect and hard as fuck. The other stuff is a huge turnon but nothing tops seeing a woman on her back with her legs spread showing her pussy.

[Dragonpurple]

It is for me, in fact that is my favorite part or turn on, I'm not a breast guy or a butt guy. I get turned on by seeing a women in a bikini bottom or even if she just standing nude or laying out in the buff on a beach or somewhere.

I don't even need her to have her legs spread.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Honey guys love vaginas! lol

[Red_Arrow]

And just seeing it will make us horny. At least many of us. I am not one who thinks it looks bad.

[BillHe1]

The butt and breasts are predominately visible while walking, while the vagina has to be imagined. Now if all is equal and the body is naked... I'll go for the breasts and vagina every time.