My boyfriend isn't really interested in anything sexual for the past 2 months and I'm having a hard time coping. Do you have any insight to share?
We did end up having sex a week ago, but I felt like he wasn't completely into it, so I asked him afterwards if he wasn't really interested in sex that time but did it anyways. He confirmed that to be true, so I told him from now on I don't want to do anything unless it's what he actually wants. He kind of laughed a bit and said that I wouldn't want to go by that rule because he can just masturbate and be fine... I felt rejected and got out of his bed and got dressed immediately. I just feel like this shouldn't be happening. He's 27 and I'm 23. I feel like we're too young to be having these issues.
Today I asked him why he makes those sexual comments if he isn't interested in actually doing anything sexual, and he said he just likes knowing he can get some if he wants it. That answer definitely bothered me and I didn't even know how to respond to it.
Other than the sexual aspect, he's a great boyfriend and I like spending time with him. This is just a huge bummer and emotionally troubling for me to be having sexual interest issues
Any insight or suggestions would be greatly appreciated
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