Guys, can a woman be too tight?

[Anonymous]

I’m 24 and a virgin. I’m sorry this is TMI, but I’ve noticed when using a small toy for G Spot stimulation, if I get more aroused, I’ve noticed that my vagina clenches on it to the point it’s difficult to move the toy and I have to calm down for a second. This isn’t painful at all nor is it an orgasm, but if I decide to have sex, a penis is easily 2-3 times bigger than toys I use. Does a woman get increasingly tighter throughout sex? Has a woman been able to clench too hard around you or is it because a guy has more strength thrusting than a woman using a toy on herself that he’s able to overpower it?

[Dargil]

+1 for a thoughtful question.
"If I get more aroused, I’ve noticed that my vagina clenches on it to the point it’s difficult to move the toy and I have to calm down for a second."
*My guess is that every girl initially has some degree of vaginismus; clenching as a reaction to entry. Just be aware of this and use personal lubricant so you are as slick as possible.
"If I decide to have sex, a penis is easily 2-3 times bigger than toys I use."
*It is not length, it is width/girth that. A 1" dildo has a girth of 3.2" A normal penis has a girth of under 5", so the difference is incremental. The key will be that you be very slick and get him inside before you clench. Very short strokes will be ok even if you grip him tightly.
"Does a woman get increasingly tighter throughout sex?"
*No After the initial shock of entry, she will loosen up.
"Has a woman been able to clench too hard around you"
*No. I just stroked shortly and slowly until she loosened up.
"Is it because a guy has more strength thrusting than a woman using a toy on herself that he’s able to overpower it?"
*We have the strength to overpower it but there will also be more friction and a smooth toy. That is why lube is critical. Your natural wetness will not be enough.
Good luck!!

[harvest]

Technically - yes. There is a possibility that you can be too tight. However, not in this type of situation. If a girl is too tight, guy can have problems starting intercourse in the first place. That's why foreplay is so important. To relax and prepare you. Once he's in there, you can squeeze all you want. He's not going anywhere. In fact, those squeezes are your vagina trying to "gather" his sperm increasing the probability for pregnancy.

[JPrez]

It really depends on your frame of mind. The V is supposed to accomodate any size D so you just need to relax your muscles and your mind. Also, lube helps. I've been with some tight ones before but eventually they do loosen up.

[exitseven]

I didn't know you could be too tight.

[Andres77]

Lots of patience, practice with fingers and gradually larger toys and lube... lots of lube.
Sometimes oral sex or clitoral masturbation helps relax the muscles a little so when the toy is used it's a little looser.
Good luck and enjoy your practice.

[s2firestar]

Yeah, they can. And it takes a LOT of effort to make her more loose. I suffer with this every time I have sex, bc. most girls are a bit tight for me, and the first few minutes can be painful.

[CaptainLegal]

Yeah, well when girls get turned on or when they cum their pussy start spasming and become tighter but also more wet so, it's easier to penetrate and feels good because it gets tight

[Meldrum]

If a guy is pushing too hard to overpower your natural reaction to his insertion, he's just there for the sex. If you clench and it's more difficult to go further, he needs to take the time to make it more comfortable and pleasurable for her. Take care of your lady has always been my philosophy.

[Lucious22]

Never experienced a woman becoming tighter, as long as your wet it shouldn’t be an issue considering the vagina is quite stretchable

[COMMODOREII]

She can get tight but during sex you should compensate to him.

[Twalli]

There is a condition called vaginismus. I have never heard of it only happening during sex though.

[Whtevernever]

Absolutely. It's happened many times that my partner just couldn't get it in. It stretches eventually but when you are big this happens.