Should I reject a guy if he tries to talk about sex around me?

I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to sexual discussion outside marriage but I wonder if the guy will stop his unclean conversation if I give him a chance to correct his behaviour or if I should just cut him off and let him try his luck with somebody else.
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  • tell him you will not talk about sex

    • thanks for mho @jennifer_bloom

  • I say cut him off.

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  • little old to be omg sex talk is bad but if it's not what u want tell him how you feel early on.

  • I guess you could tell him how you feel and see how he responds and go from there 🤔

  • Yes, you should.

  • It depends how he's trying to talk about it. If he's bringing it up for titillation then cut him loose and leave if you've made it clear you don't want to do that. If, alternatively, he's wanting to be more than just a friend then it's an important conversation to have so once you get to marriage there's no false hopes/expectations.

    Unfortunately there may be some overlap. Most guys are likely to be turned on by talking about their turn-ons.

  • Tell him that sexual talk like that makes u uncomfortable. Many guys will take a lack of resistance as acceptance, when it comes to conversational topics like this... as in you not saying you dislike sexual conversation when he discusses it means "yeah she's cool with this type of topic".

    If he persists anyway with sexual conversation, then he's being disrespectful towards your wishes and you can stop talking to him.

  • I would say give him a chance and if he can't stop his sexual talk then send away I'm against sex outside of marriage, I believe one should be married before having sex?

  • dude, there is this guy that wanted me to send him n***** and what not and I told him no the first time and he kept asking me about it, so I even blocked him and I told him I wasn't interested in that, time and time again and he wouldn't listen and kept insisting, he didn't respect my wishes or me and I told him I was uncomfortable and so yes, you should reject him if he doesn't respect what you want or your choice.

  • If he can't or doesn't want to change his conversation on this subject I'd walk away and not look back he has to respect you and your feelings to be in any kind of relationship whether it's with you or someone else.

  • Do what you think is necessary. Why ask for and opinion on something you clearly dont want or like. You have answered your own question.

  • probably should tell him our beliefs and values before you date

  • Yeah, give him another chance and see what happens. Make sure he knows its the last one he will get.

  • It is your life, your rules. However, not everybody would want to play by *your* rules. I also have certain rules when it comes to relationships: some are not negotiable, while others are.
    I will drift into the topic, so I am out of the running.
    Good luck with your decision.

  • If you don't wish to talk sex with someone and they continue to do so, you have the option of blocking him.

  • Wow you are stuck up

  • probably just cut him off, he's not going to change internally, only modify his behaviour, imho he's just trying to get you in the sack,,,

  • explain 1st... it's not unusual for people to discuss sex, after all, you are on here... talking about sex...

  • I would happily go years without sex.
    I couldn't go more than a few days without inuendo.
    Do you really want to marry someone who doesn't show any sexual interest in you? Does abstaining count for anything if they don't want it in the first place?

  • Nope

  • Thsts a good policy and if he can't respect that he no friend

  • No. You can simply tell him you're feeling uncomfortable that he do it. If he ignores you then you need to think about dumping him.

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