How many rounds can guys usually go?

I’ve only been with one man. Sometimes I wanted another round, especially if the first was a bit too quick and left me unsatisfied. But he never could/wanted to go for another. Is that how it usually is? Because I’ve heard people talk about second rounds.

And please, let’s discuss sex as a topic like adults, no perverted comments!
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Follow up question. What would be considered a “normal” sex drive. How often would you want to have sex. Beginning of the relationship, 7 months in etc
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  • That depends on how quickly you want to go round after round, also how old your partner is. When I was younger 2-3 times a day was a pretty normal thing for me, now once a day is pretty common with twice a day being something really special.

    With the timing for guys there's a thing called the refractory period, some women I've been with have this too. Basically you get off and have a period of time where you just can't get off again, and further stimulation during that time is torture because of how sensitive you are.

    So rounding things off, if you really want that long duration, deep pounding, you need to get him off much earlier in the day so he's ready and eager at night to go again. Caveat emptor though, I've been with two women at the same time (several times) who took that approach and gotten to the point where all of us were chaffed, but still horny, or where I want to keep going, but they drained me earlier so I'm trying hard to fire off in vain through chaffing and exhaustion.

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  • More than once a day, sure. More than once in a session, depends on how long the session is and how long i have to recover. I'm honestly not sure how fast i can recover now because my partner was never willing to have sex more than once, and solo i'm not really motivated to go back to back. I -think- when your age my refractory period was in the 15-20 minute range. Probably longer now?

    As for what a 'normal' sex drive is that's a really good question, and i think one that needs to be specified as in 'real life' as well, like its nice if you want it every day if you're on vacation at a resort where everything is done for you, the question is in real life, when there's laundry and you're rushing around and day is busy, how much do you want it then?

    From late teens till early 40s i'd have said i wanted at least daily. Like every day, even if my partner wasn't trying to get me into it at all, i'd want it, and if we're not having sex, i'd be masturbating once a day. now if something was happening around me (i. e. partner trying to turn me on actively) i might want it more then that, and i'm certainly willing to have more sex then that, but like left alone, i'd want it daily. Last few years, i'm a lot less automatic, and i can be reasonably satisfied getting off more like every other day, but the weird thing is now i sometimes go a few days without then do more than once in a day. In any case i still think i'd be pretty happy with daily or more, i'd prefer that to a few times a week, but i could live with 3-5 times a week more happily.

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  • Now my guy is a little older he's almost 30 we can either go 3 X if he just cums about 7 to 10 minutes each but then other times he can go for 45 minutes to an hour if we are just steady nice making love but that is only one time 45 minutes to an hour and he's limp

    • Happy for you haha. Hope to fall in love with someone sexually compatible as well.

  • Not nearly enough. Why a guy who cares will let her be with a few.

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  • Male refractory periods vary greatly as do sex drives. Does his sex drive match yours, more or less?

  • Most of the time, we only go one round. We have gone two before, but I probably need about 20ish minutes between. We usually just spend that time making out or I go down on her. Once I'm ready again, we have round 2. Would he go down on you after your first round? I mean if he doesn't want to go for a full 2nd round, but would go down on you, at least you would be better satisfied than it seems like you are now.

    • I see. No I don’t like someone going down on me, preferred fingering which he didn’t like doing. We broke up, I wasn’t sexually satisfied but I loved him.

    • Sorry to hear it didn't work out

    • It was for the best :)

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  • Usually one from my experience with one guy

    • I see

  • I can usually go 2 with a rest in-between, but it's not normal to go more than 1 considering that men often work full time laborious jobs.

    Testosterone is what makes men the horni, we excrete it by exercising and having sex. When a guy is working 50 hours a week of hard labor he probably won't even want sex every night.

  • In my teens and 20's I can go for 2-3 rounds easily. Sure I need to recharge for a bit in between them. My fiancée and I have sex about 5 days a week and when we have time often go for round 2.

  • It varies from man to man as well as how areoused they are and if they are getting any pharmaceutical assistance

    For some men as soon as we cum everything switches off and it takes a while to get the urge.
    If we're lucky we can get going again in a few mins if you really tease us in the first place.

    Also the first round could have sapped us of too much energy to go at it too hard on follow up attempts so you might have to put more effort in.

    Best thing to do really if round 1 isn't enough for you is learn the signs he is about to get close to cumming then slow down, change position or find some way to distract him so it makes things last longer. Remember this beneo him too as keeping him close to the edge longer makes his final orgasm much more powerful!

  • Ots dependent on the guy I tend to stay hard after finishing and can go again but I my case my girl gets sore fast so we only do about 1 round per session heard from friends they only like 1 round whilst others love to go again

    • Oh I see. But if you didn’t stay erect, could you get erect after some forplay and then go for a second round?

    • After about 10 mins yeah we have on occasion if I finished to fast done that whilst I played with her before getting hard again

    • Oke, thank you for sharing :P

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  • Depends on mood. Just like you feel you can go "round 2" so it is with men.

    Maybe get him spending more time on foreplay and making you cum first, before going all in to finish himself.

  • Personally I'm always willing to go another round. Sadly I've never been with anyone that wanted to either. A lot of people seem to think/feel that once and you're done.

  • I usually can go 2-3 rounds. I always make it a point though to go down on her until she cums at least once before any penetration

    • I’m starting to realise that my ex was not making much effort.

    • Some guys really can't go more than one round. If it's been awhile, I usually don't last long and can't get up again. Also, libido varies from person to person. There is no "normal" sex drive. It's still possible he was making an effort

    • I was referring to that you make sure to make her cum

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  • at 19, I went 10 in a row. Now, maybe 3-5. Add some viagara, boom, double that :)

  • Here's my honest admission. I get only one shot at a time and need several hours to reload. So it is a romantic night and then morning before breakfast. But I have adapted my routine to give a girl as much oral sex as she wants and I am very good at it. Some girls I have been with liked it so much (multiple orgasms or surges in every session) that they may not have cared if I had a penis at all.

  • USUALLY ONE ROUND.

    But if you wait every 2 days and he doesn't masturbate then he could go 2 or 3 rounds.

    I've gone 5 hours with 5 times cumming. Only if the connection is intense and no condom.

    The solution is slow tantric sex. For hours.

  • On drugs 15 times

  • Usually once, but twice in a pinch. If he's cumming too soon the first time to satisfy you, try to find a way for you to cum first or simultaneously with him. You could try to lessen the friction so he lasts longer by opening your legs wider, using some lube, or try using some desensitizing cream/spray on him. Also try to avoid positions that make him cum quickly and focus on what works best for you. If you think he's getting close too soon, stop him and take a break during which he could eat you or use a vibrator on you. Also, challenge him to try to make you cum at the exact same time as him. Don't hesitate to finger yourself to help.

  • I normally go one, can do 2 but it takes ages for the 2nd time

    • So that’s probably the norm, understandable

  • i often can go 2 or more but those extra rounds take a longggggggggg time.

    • not fully sure what truly is a normal libido (sex drive) as i can only go by mine which i know is quite high. as for amount of sex early/begining stage/s. maybe something between every few days to at least once every couple of weeks. really depends on her comfort, libido, and availability of us both as well as other hopefully obvious factors. at around 7 months to a year. i would hope its at least up to every couple of days. going one further step with 1.5 to 2 years. hopefully living together and for the most part daily to a few times a day. all this assuming other factors dont cause issues.

  • The guy should never even consider sticking his dick inside of the girl until he's made her cum about 5 times through oral and fingers and toys...
    Then... when he's "paid the toll" or "entry fee", so to speak, he can fuck her.
    He needs to earn you. He needs to put your pleasure first, make it a priority. Once a guy cums he usually needs to take a break. Not always but most men need a break. Girls can cum and cum and cum...
    I've focused on my wife so much that she can cum 10-20 times in a fuck session (usually weekends when kids are out of the house). When she's too exhausted to continue THEN it's my turn.
    Even if he can only go one round, there's no reason why any woman is ever left unsatisfied... ever.
    Pay the toll, entry fee, cover charge, 5 orgasm minimum... call it what you like, make that lazy fuck EARN you... every time.

    • Interesting... this got a down-vote from a guy... because he's a lazy selfish fuck and doesn't like being called out? Or because he doesn't think it's possible for a woman to cum this much?

  • I can keep going for a few minutes after I cum and stay hard, but I can't cum twice

  • I can usually go only one. But that usually lasts a good 40-50 minutes. So, all in all, for the girl, she goes more than one round anyways.

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