LMFAOO you’re a really pathetic creature.
Cause I see RIGHT through your bs.
You got a boyfriend, you’re asking him about a concern of yours, and then feel the need to post a picture of your ass when it has absolutely NOTHING to do with your main concern
Who said that was a picture of her? Probably found it on the internet smh
Look I know you and I had our deference the past but I agree with you.
If she did find it on the internet that’s probably worse lol
It's normal. Usually at the start of a relationship both parties have an equal sex drive. But if there is a mismatch, the other would need some outlet...
Earlier, my partner was as eager. As she lost her interest, I felt rejected and lonely...
It's a challenge to match sex drives.
How long have you'll been together?
I too get charged by the thought of spilling on my partner... but she will usually trick me by telling me "cum in my hands" and removing her hands at the last minute. Anyway, it's the thought that matters. Do try to create some outlet for him...
1. That's a pretty sexy and artistic photo of you (sorry, comment is not relevant, but let me say it...) 2. "Boys are after one thing, and its disgusting, lol." Really, no! What is amazing is how much girls/women misunderstand this. Ma'am, if you had 10-20 times as much as testosterone as you currently have (as a woman), you'd know how sex would be to you. Guys have that leve of it, and nothing can be worse when deprived sex... 3. It's not "disgusting", but what keeps the human race alive and kicking. Agree that we have too many humans causing too much destruction on the planet. But without that sex drive, the human race would have probably not even reached here. 4. Please try to prioritise sex with your b/f and make time for it, if you're serious and want the relationship to last. How often do you have sex? Have you discussed this? Has it changed over the course of the relationship? Sorry to sound almost rude, but I know what being in a sexless marriage for 22 years is all about...
if you don't feel like it and don't want it ( at that moment ) then tell him , you should be able to express your feelings , sex isn't your responsibility or your job , it should be joyful for both of you.
if he wants bj / hj a lot he has to go down for you a lot too
Wanking to you, normal. But doing it over you while you sleep, doing it as often as he does where he does, that's definitely unusual.
maybe he just likes to wank a lot... i know i do ;)
@wankiam can he not go in the bathroom and do that?
@BookNerd20 ofcourse he could but wheres the fun in hiding it?
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You need to leave this guy. He's simply using you as a sex doll.
I'm very sorry for this situation, but he is not a normal guy. Get away.
The behavior you are describing is not abnormal per se, but the extent to which he does this does seem excessive, particularly doing such things in pubic places where he could be caught.
Seems that he uses you for sex rather than enjoying you as a sexual partner.
He enjoys me too and I enjoy him.
That is all that matters.
Wanking as he is viewing you is normal. But do it into cloth, not on you and causing you to be disturbed and need to clean up. He is lucky enough that you are right there to enjoy visually. Appreciate that and stop bothering you as you sleep!
THAT much seems kinda odd. Like maybe a girl likes to feel wanted even when she isn't in the mood. But that makes it seem like your an object that he just uses to get off. That's a bit much from my point of view.
He needs more insite a stronger energy that you can feel once he touches you with that you will be willing for anything
I think your right but I still think you should try a little bit harder to do it the right way but that is pretty sexy it is a turn-on for some reason you might be a picture or the image of it I guess the image of you not him LOL
Very abnormal behavior for a guy
That sounds like sexual harassment.
I think affection is one thing but sexual need is another. There is a time and place for sex while I feel that affection is fair game at all times you are with each other like hand holding, kisses, closeness (leaning into each other) stuff like that but I think I agree with you that sex should be mutually agreed and consensual. It should be desired by both and not demanded by one. But intimacy overall is a good thing and a healthy thing for any relationship
I'm going to have a brief thought though too... We were all both genders in our mothers womb. So technically boys are part girl and girls are part boy. We look at each other as worlds apart sometimes. But not all boys are like that about sex and not all girls don't want to do crazy sex stuff either. Gag has taught me that girls can ask, "is anyone else horny right now?" It happens! I think it's our different means of attraction and our bodies natural sexual goals. To me, this is all biology! And I honestly would like to see what that looks like but I'm sure I've seen mytakes on here that talk about both genders needs in detail
i think its normal when a guy likes wanking as much as sex... it would certainly do for me as long as i could wank over you while you are still awake ;)
its also makes life easier for you both that he does it over you because it can get complicated when women get jealous of a wanking boyfriend who likes using porn
@update... dont know if all men are like that but im certainly a pervert lol
If any of that is really true, then it's abusive and toxic behaviour.
if a guy is horny and he has a girl then he expects to get off somehow
Not normal , and in a way it’s disrespectful , for the fact that he is just looking to get off whether it’s with you or himself , he is using you as an object and not valuing you , basically it’s a manipulative behavior and selfish behavior Cuz if he doesn’t get his way with you then he just thinks of himself and gets off , basically you could be any thing to be honest with a hole in it and he would fuck it , so you might really need to reconsider being with someone like that to be honest
Nice to see a guy's point of view like this
Thanks , but it’s truth, He doesn’t value her he just wants to fuck her , if he respected her he wouldn’t be masturbating when he doesn’t get his way with her , it’s total disrespect , Say she wanted sex and he denied her and she said well if you aren’t going to please me I will find an alternative , it’s a selfish behavior and shows total disrespect to your partner , why most relationships don’t last because selfishness is the number one killer in relationships, people only really care about themselves and don’t care about their partner , they only do what’s best for them
I can't speak on normal, but it is disrespectful, and I refuse to acknowledge the male gender as being genetically conditioned too disrespectful behavior towards a lady, so I think your boyfriend might, quite possibly, just be a jerk.
Normal
But shouldn't do such things in public
I'm not sure if your aware of this but it sounds like what your describing is sexual assault. Being in a relationship for over 15 year I have never needed to have sex with my significant other while they were sleeping or force myself upon her. What he is doing is abnormal and beyond just an addiction.
He has an addiction.. The dude needs some help.. Maybe to out his energy else where instead bein addicted to sex basically.. It's fine that he is very attracted to you, but some things are just kina crazy..
Yea that’s normal , would you rather have him visit pornhub
No. I wouldn't
Annoying but normal. He’s just super horny.
That’s really annoying!
Yeah, I believe he should give you space and don't wank over you when your asleep or not feeling like it I guess I'm old school and believe in better respect for a girl
Once in a while is OK but all the time is a little excessive. At least he is looking at porn of you and not somebody else.
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