Boyfriend WANKS over me when I dont feel like sex too tired to give a bj/HJ, exercising, showering, sleeping, period, etc. Is this normal 4 a guy?

[Danny_dan92]

LMFAOO you’re a really pathetic creature.


Cause I see RIGHT through your bs.


You got a boyfriend, you’re asking him about a concern of yours, and then feel the need to post a picture of your ass when it has absolutely NOTHING to do with your main concern

[Anonymous]

It's normal. Usually at the start of a relationship both parties have an equal sex drive. But if there is a mismatch, the other would need some outlet...
Earlier, my partner was as eager. As she lost her interest, I felt rejected and lonely...
It's a challenge to match sex drives.
How long have you'll been together?
I too get charged by the thought of spilling on my partner... but she will usually trick me by telling me "cum in my hands" and removing her hands at the last minute. Anyway, it's the thought that matters. Do try to create some outlet for him...

[rainbowbi]

if you don't feel like it and don't want it ( at that moment ) then tell him , you should be able to express your feelings , sex isn't your responsibility or your job , it should be joyful for both of you.
if he wants bj / hj a lot he has to go down for you a lot too

[KeiaYamada]

Wanking to you, normal. But doing it over you while you sleep, doing it as often as he does where he does, that's definitely unusual.

[Finchie40]

Not normal , and in a way it’s disrespectful , for the fact that he is just looking to get off whether it’s with you or himself , he is using you as an object and not valuing you , basically it’s a manipulative behavior and selfish behavior Cuz if he doesn’t get his way with you then he just thinks of himself and gets off , basically you could be any thing to be honest with a hole in it and he would fuck it , so you might really need to reconsider being with someone like that to be honest

[OlderAndWiser]

The behavior you are describing is not abnormal per se, but the extent to which he does this does seem excessive, particularly doing such things in pubic places where he could be caught.

[misanthropistkev]

One , he is really attracted to you the fact that you make him that horny or everytime he is horny he wants you is a good thing some would even say a complement
two , your crazy if you think a guy that really likes you can be around you so much and not want to blow your back out
three, at least he doesn’t cheat or get angry he wants sex but he knows your not up for it so he will settle for wanking to you Very considerate if you ask me I do it all the time if my girl isn’t in the mood I just go through her dirty laundry and rub one off (esp her gym clothes 😩)
lastly , not in the hair dude that’s not cool 🤦‍♂️

[Jjpayne]

I think affection is one thing but sexual need is another. There is a time and place for sex while I feel that affection is fair game at all times you are with each other like hand holding, kisses, closeness (leaning into each other) stuff like that but I think I agree with you that sex should be mutually agreed and consensual. It should be desired by both and not demanded by one. But intimacy overall is a good thing and a healthy thing for any relationship

[rc321]

I'm not sure if your aware of this but it sounds like what your describing is sexual assault. Being in a relationship for over 15 year I have never needed to have sex with my significant other while they were sleeping or force myself upon her. What he is doing is abnormal and beyond just an addiction.

[EaterPeter]

He likes you the way I used to like my ex. It's a good thing and it's a bad thing. There should be some privacy respect and good hygeine. As much I like someone to jump my morning wood while I sleep. I don't like to wake up dirty either. Sex while one is sleeping is non consentual. There should be boundaries.

[Anonymous]

Oh please cry me a river , Showing off your bare naked ass on social media yet complain about her being horny? Stop playing the victim card. You whores are the problem and blame everyone else. You are classless rachet whore. Showing your ass to every one that says a lot and if he does that it's your fault.

[BookNerd20]

In my opinion you should break up with him. If he can’t respect you for when your not wanting to get him off or doing anything like that since you don’t feel good or are on your period then he isn’t worth it. If you have jizz on your hair or anywhere else then this guy has issues. You did NOT consent to any of this. He seems very immature and needs to grow up and learn consent. There is a time and place for sex. This guy needs help because this is not normal.

[pajamasam]

THAT much seems kinda odd. Like maybe a girl likes to feel wanted even when she isn't in the mood. But that makes it seem like your an object that he just uses to get off. That's a bit much from my point of view.

[Citizenkirk]

I can't speak on normal, but it is disrespectful, and I refuse to acknowledge the male gender as being genetically conditioned too disrespectful behavior towards a lady, so I think your boyfriend might, quite possibly, just be a jerk.

[Red_Arrow]

Wanking as he is viewing you is normal. But do it into cloth, not on you and causing you to be disturbed and need to clean up. He is lucky enough that you are right there to enjoy visually. Appreciate that and stop bothering you as you sleep!

[Screenwriter]

In America, this is called rape.
You need to leave this guy. He's simply using you as a sex doll.
I'm very sorry for this situation, but he is not a normal guy. Get away.

[JDavid25]

He has an addiction.. The dude needs some help.. Maybe to out his energy else where instead bein addicted to sex basically.. It's fine that he is very attracted to you, but some things are just kina crazy..

[ryckrohan]

Look he is a horny dude but he is horny for you. Have you taken the time to appreciate that? You drive him nuts not other girls or images of other girls. You! Be proud and appreciative that he wants y this badly and not another.

[Andres77]

Why doesn't he ever go down on you to show his interest?

[wankiam]

i think its normal when a guy likes wanking as much as sex... it would certainly do for me as long as i could wank over you while you are still awake ;)

[Stoner710]

Yea that’s normal , would you rather have him visit pornhub

[bowenw]

It's disrespectful if you haven't given him permission to do it. If that's the case, tell him to stop. A good guy will respect your wishes. If he doesn't, it's time for him to find a new girlfriend.

[ohshee]

He needs more insite a stronger energy that you can feel once he touches you with that you will be willing for anything

[exitseven]

Once in a while is OK but all the time is a little excessive. At least he is looking at porn of you and not somebody else.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah, I believe he should give you space and don't wank over you when your asleep or not feeling like it I guess I'm old school and believe in better respect for a girl

[jshm2]

If any of that is really true, then it's abusive and toxic behaviour.

[Nalix]

Jerking off to pictures of you is great, but it sounds like what he's doing is excessive. Ask him to take it down a notch or two.

[Sevenpointfive]

if a guy is horny and he has a girl then he expects to get off somehow

[Glasgow55]

Not normal and it's a little abusive, in my opinion.

[Smegskull]

It's not strange that he wants to at your age but there are serious boundry/concent issues here.
Do you really want to normalise this for him? What if you break up and he thinking this is normal now traumatizes his next girlfriend?

[Angelo75]

I remember that I used to be like that with my wife in my 20s.
I'm soooooooooooooooooooooooooo glad that my hornyness became less after 30s.

[jasco]

I mean when your horny, you gotta do something and if ur girl won't help, just jerk off

[K-I-S-S]

If he wanks over you then that is great.

Pressuring you into sexual favors is not good.

[Floppy2112]

Men are sexual, but most are not that sexual... I'd say he's got some sort of issue.

[worldscolide]

Woukd you rather he jerk it to porn or other, more willing girls?

[Mav12]

Unless you consent and are fully aware of any sexual act in or around you its definitely not something I would do and I'm positive its not normal

[Ericthebarberic]

I chose normal because I do/did the same thing with my wife

[yucel_eden]

This is either sexual assault, satire or attention seeking.

can't decide

[LeoElias]

this post is a fucking joke not even going to give it a serious reply

[Twalli]

Normal to jerk off to/on you. Less normal that he does ot outside of the house

[glassman]

He is just using you for his fantasies, the same as porn or video, time to change boyfriend

[Anonymous]

He prolly is wanking over some other girl and dumping it on you while you sleep hahaha id put it in ur shampoo !

[DaMack999]

It's normal. It's just being high sex drive male I had a female that was just normal.

[Shy_Steve]

Of course it is, I thought you Girls already knew that.

[Anonymous]

I assume he had to hit on you or talk to you first or ask you out first

[bananathunder]

sometimes it's just nice for you to just be there. It's like being involved to some degree

[colin77]

No that is not normal... he needs prayers... but how often do you give him sex?

[catmint]

What if I said you don't have a boyfriend and you are rubbing it off posting pics on here?

[Sohorny4younggirls]

Normal i would be the same if i had your permission as him if i was with you your super sexy

[bclbn77006]

no.
it is not normal if he is really into true love and cares for you.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Annoying but normal. He’s just super horny.

[Catlover1999]

That sounds like sexual harassment.

[Jess1812]

Very abnormal behavior for a guy

[chriscdi]

that sucks, can't even sleep in peace smh

[Bhavin2184]

Normal
But shouldn't do such things in public

[Browneye57]

Maybe you should have a cat instead.

[TheFlak38]

serves you well since you dont even suck dick

[Millicano]

it's good for the skin 😅

[mather80]

I can see why he wanks over you!

[MountAverage]

Why does it matter to you if it's normal or not?

[clampfan101]

I’d suggest finding someone else...

[Jmmmfi4]

I don't see a problem

[Valnac]

He has a high sex drive like me.

[Xoirwinkan]

You did not say how often you say no to it.