Girl gives me one month to get my "sexual" act up?

[Anonymous]

So sex lately has been less frequent And its really pissing her off, every moment in the day she can bring it up, she will and will often try to tear my entire character apart in the process leaving me sad and confused I have spoken to her about it and even gave her valid reasons, which she never believes cause she is really convinced she is the blame With the main one being; My parents are kicked out and looking for a place to move by summer, they're both older and not as excellent physically, plus we are basically dead broke She is 20(im 25) and really doesn't understand this i think I mean her households right now is the complete opposite where they can afford to buy whatever, whenever...(horses, dogs, 1m house etc) I buy her most of the gifs, foods, drinks etc while im poor as hellShe always says "i got no money to buy u anything, i feel guilty"Meanwhile whenever she gets money she would buy whatever for herself, even gets mad when i claim the money she promised to return... She only nags about her sexual frustration comparing me to everyone and no one.. to make me feel bad? Jealous? And if i throw this back to her she will just get mad as jell Id literally do anything for her, i mean yesterday was my straw, i had to ask my younger sister for money which is saddening, a new low point, but she doesn't/didn't careAll i heard today was; "my mans doesn't even want to touch me"... At the same time my mom told me it would be over for me if i dont come around more frequent So you see the war thats going in my head? Im about to lose my girl over thz fact that my family has gone broke and needs to move out, i can't even process this without pressureAnd i love her so much... Like i gave her more than i ever got or could give

[boggboss]

No you are about to lose your girl over her being immature and her unable to listen to what you are saying mate at this point I dont even see why u are still with her this is not a women that is long term

[Asker]

How do u mean? Its so odd, cause after the ranting she will be all over me again, not even able to leave her place etc..

[boggboss]

She is incapable off putting lust aside if I'm horny but my partner is stressed I can't just expect them to get in the mood over a long period It will cause issue but it seems she is unable to think like a adult in this case and u to just be in the mood on demand

[Asker]

She is unable to listen tho Like I've heard all her stories and problems, she can talk hours on end Like even right now, her lenses are broke and she blames it on me for not buying any for 3 weeks lmao While she is the one spending money on everything; trips, foodies, drugs etc

[boggboss]

Yet you know this is her behaviour and decided to be with her if she is not looking to change u have to learn to accept this about her or deceive if u want a women that more mature

[Asker]

Indeed she doesn't understand really Even when i talk about it she never goes deeper into "how can k help you?" But directly puts herself in the victim position and how it influences her Like every damn thing she's the biggest victim or has it worse I bought her so many gifts except her b day (special day) and she keeps complaining about her b day When did she last bought me a gift? lol She barely even helps or comes to my place only to nag how dirty the place is (duh were poor)

[Asker]

Its hard man Shed mature most of the time except emotional and responsibilities She just throws anything while shouting

[boggboss]

But again mate thats the thing you decided to be with someone who is this immature and yes u can complain but you stay with her so it allows her to continue these behaviours

[Asker]

Same thing with envy She can talk with anyone But me? Noooo not even a work associate lol

[boggboss]

Lol your crazy mate

[Asker]

What u mean mate

[boggboss]

That why would u stay with such a toxic girl

[Anonymous]

Sorry all this is happening to you bro. I know you said you love her but she is not a good woman. Anyone who would give you an ultimatum like that rather than being supportive of all the shit you are dealing with is not a good person and you are better off without her in your life.

[Apple1996]

If she's 20 and y'all broke the only fun thing to do is have sex. Not saying to give into her if you don't want it but you should maybe consider it if you want to keep her.

[Asker]

she's rich lmao she gets her pocket money And I get that tho but u xan consider each others mental being too

[Apple1996]

Yeah maybe I just feel for your girlfriend since I know what it's like to not get sex then feel extremely unwanted because of the rejection. It's like you need to find a healthy place for yourself too but by ignoring her it's gonna break down the relationship

[Asker]

I dont ignore her lmao I'm with her 24/7 cause she wants it We do have sex tho

[Apple1996]

Ah okay in the question it's coming off like you never give it to her

[Asker]

Yes I do just not as often anymore cause of what's happening inside Like she can only complain about sex as if there aren't bigger issues to solve u kno Instead of helping me with mine, so basically helping hersel Nope she has the "biggest" and most important issue znd needs to be remind me every day Till i answer and then she just gets mad and switches subject

[Apple1996]

Maybe you should try buying her some toys so she can take care of herself

[Asker]

That's the thing I'm dead broke plus corona=no job All the small money I get SHE SPENDS on drugs so...

[Asker]

Also that's what I mean responsibility If u get money spend it wisely She didn't do that then blamed it on me for not buying it and using her money (while i pay 85% of the time) all the time lol And every time we get a little confrontational dhe says; i want u to go home That's running from ur problems=responsibilities She does it with her mom too and i told her already

[Apple1996]

Ah so it's the drugs making this girl so horny. Get her off that shit and maybe she'll settle down 😂

[Whtevernever]

Well. You clearly can't do both so, pick one.