Do white guys genuinely love Asian girls or are they just trying to get back at white girls?

[Anonymous]

I know that a few white girls are vocal about preferring black guys to white guys, some of them even act in a silly way and say silly things about white guys. I understand that white guys don't like girls like these.

However, why do some white guys blame us all for the behavior of a few ones? Why belittling white girls?

If you're into Asian women, that's fine, I don't see any problem with that as long as you love an Asian girl for who she is, not for a trait she shares with billions of other women. Don't do it to make us white girls feel bad and jealous just because you think we all prefer black guys. This trope of “white women with a BBC fetish” is a male fetish, it's not something that turns most white women on.

Instead of punching us down, why don't you white guys do some efforts to be a better man? Stop cheating on your girlfriends, be more genuinely humble, be more loving and considerate of people around you.

[TonyV]

Wow, this sounds pretty narcissistic.

Your first thought is that the only reason a white guy would like a Asian girl is to get back at white women? Do you even hear yourself?

Its insulting to Asian women cause you are implying any white guy dating an Asian is doing so as a last resort or out of revenge towards white women.

Then you insult all white men by saying "why dont you just become a better man so you can date a white girl", like you think you white women are better than Asian women.

You seem to think Asian women are lower value than white women and any white guy who dates one is settling cause he's too lazy to put in the work to be "worthy" or a white girlfriend.

You sound just as bad as the toxic men who seem to think they have a right to sex, I would call this toxic-femenitiry.

If the first thing you think when you see a mix race couple is that it's some kind of revenge on you, then you have a problem and need to change your way of thinking.

I'm dating a Latina woman, do you think I'm a "race trader" that's just too lazy to improve myself to your ridiculous standards to be acceptable to white women?
Get over yourself, the world doesn't revolve around you or white women.

[iLoveJuice]

... yeah I’m pretty sure that’s not what she said.

[TonyV]

Well she wasn't exactly clear what her issue is leaving me to try and figure out what her problem is. She seems to have a problem when white guys dont date white girls. So much so that she thinks any guy who doesn't date a white women is trying to get "revenge". She seems confused as to why a white guy would date an Asian girl, like she thinks less of them and not worth dating when there's all these white women around. Then she said white men dont get dates from white women cause we dont try hard enough to meet her standards. She sounds like the kind of girl that's always playing some kind of stupid games and is exactly the type of woman I avoid. I will not jump through hoops for any woman. Really sounds like she played too many games, she thought men would pursue her no matter what cause she thought she was the only option and is just shocked we would consider dating a Asian woman. Ignoring all that, looking at it at face value, she is confused why we like Asian women, so she clearly thinks Asian women are ugly or not worth dating.

[iLoveJuice]

... no dude. I’m pretty sure she’s talking about white men who ACTUALLY date outside of their race to spite white women. Yes, there are men (of all races) who do this AND brag about it. I’ve experienced it for myself. Don’t wear shoes that don’t fit... otherwise it sounds like you’re telling on yourself.

[TonyV]

I've never heard of it happening to white women, so its news to me. The whole idea of dating outside of race out of spite is kind of new to me too, well for women anyways, I've obviously experience prejatist, I'm a white guy, plenty of people feel comforable saying how we are the cause of all the worlds problems and to avoid us at all cost, in person or online. I haven't worn your shoes, but I've worn a pretty similar pair. It's only happened once but I did get turned down by a white girl cause she only dates black guys. I really dont understand why race is such a factor too some. I had never heard of dating out of spite, but I'll just take your word for it that it happens.

[LillKrull]

I can certainly not speak ln the behalf of all white guys, but according to me, "race" has nothing to do with if I am able to love someone or not. If I fall in love with a girl and she happens to be Asian? That's great! If I fall in love with a girl and she happens to be european? That's also great! There are Asian women more attractive than white women, and vice versa.

In the end it comes down to attractive features in both character and looks of the person, rather than a specific race.

All this being said, I think it's safe to say that I honestly couldn't care less about white women going for black guys if that makes certain women happy, just don't be a dick in general.😂

[iLoveJuice]

Some might genuinely like them & are compatible with them, some just fetishize them, some like them because race isn’t a factor in their dating life, & some may be trying to get under your skin like you said.


Either way, I wouldn’t sweat it too much. I’m black & trust me, we get told every damn day by black men about how white women (especially) & other races are better. A man doesn’t owe you a date & he can dislike you for whatever reason under the sun anyway, so focus your energy on men who do like you. Let miserable people be miserable.

[Asker]

A few white guys are starting doing the same to us white women and it sucksssss! Thank you and I loved your comment!

[Aurora1010]

What do you mean? You mean americans, no?
The white man having so called yellow fever is overrated
Only in usa and parts of west Europe
Cause there are white guys here (yes they are white being born in mexican soil doesn't take away that) and they do not care about Asian girls
Most white latin American guys do not
I mean the ones from hear I cannot speak about usa latinos

[Aurora1010]

Latin American*

[Aurora1010]

And when I say they do not care I do not mean they do not like them. Some do But it is not like Americans

[Aurora1010]

Here* sorry for my bad English

[Asker]

Don't bother with that, sis. I understood what you said and that's fine. I appreciate your comment. Oh, yes, I was talking about American men, white men in other countries seem to be more down to Earth.

[normalice]

I think white guys actually just prefer thin girls. The Asian thing is just a proxy for that: show guys who claim to like Asians a few overweight Asian girls and their interests will rapidly wane.

[Asker]

Oh, wow, it makes sense since I've never seen a white guy who is into thicc and chubby girls.

[JPrez]

Geez, what is up with all the Asian girl questions lately from men and women?

[maria2716]

😂😂

[LiamSawyer]

Any woman I like, is because of who she is, how she acts, maturity level and of course because to me she's attractive not because she is white, black, Asian or Indian.

[Dargil]

Genuinely love Asian (East) girls. I married one.

[Neko911]

They don't lmao. I've never really seen any white man put white girls down just because he prefers Asian girls

[Asker]

A few guys compare us to Asian women and seem to resent white women in general, it's okay if they actually love an Asian woman, but there's no need to bash white women or to make unfair comments about us. We white women are not that different from Asian women. 🤷🏼

[Britishclassic]

Asian women are cute af, 5'4 freaking a good way, that love tall white guys - British women are manipulative cunts 80% of the time, I always trust an Asian woman

[Asker]

Do Asian girls love attractive white guys? So do we white women. We're women, we love attractive guys ofc.

[Britishclassic]

I said tall, not attractive. I'm tall, about a 6/10 and I get attention from Asian women most of the time. white women only care attractiveness

[Asker]

You don't seem unattractive to me, and we care about personality too. Hell!!! We're women in the first place, we are not that different from women of other races, there are good white girls, bad white girls, the same goes for Asian women as well.

[disgustingweebtrash]

"British women are manipulative cunts 80% of the time" this truth hurts..

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

They really prefer them.

[Asker]

Is there something wrong with white girls? 🙍🏼

[Nachowedgie]

That would be a long list

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Nothing at all. My wife is blonde and as white as one can be. Some guys like Asian girls. Some like white. We all have our preferences.

[jeremy_09]

if they're doing it to get back at white girls they're not suffering when they do it because Asian girls are super hot

[Still-alive]

We just think they’re attractive stop overthinking it

[Still-alive]

It’s racist attitudes like yours that fuels the flames of hate crimes I hope you know that Do you support the new movement “Stop Asian Hate”? ↗

[Aurora1010]

That is horrible that they target an Asian cause of covid

[Still-alive]

@Aurora1010 yeah no thanks to Trump and his loyal followers. Then there’s people like this chick asking the question thinking there’s some conspiracy against white women when they date Asian girls. News flash there isn’t. But her thinking there is does more harm to the social fabric of our society that can and often do have serious violent repercussions. So yeah people like her need to cut the shit.

[Asker]

Oh, boy!!! Where did I justify violence against Asians? Are you insane? By the way, you can't put the blame of the anti-Asian hate crimes on White girls because WE ARE NOT THE ONES COMMITTING IT. Do you see White girls raping Asian girls? We don't have a d*** for starters. Your comment is totally unrelated to my question and, to be honest, you don't seem that mentally stable. Ugh!!!

[Still-alive]

You’re adding to the flame. You’re a covert racist and you’re just projecting it onto the white guys who keep rejecting you. Maybe it’s because your personality sucks. Ever think of that? But no it’s because white guys are “getting back” and white women that lots are dating Asian girls. nope that isn’t it. It’s just simple attraction.

[Still-alive]

Also “ Do you see White girls raping Asian girls? We don't have a d*** for starters. ” Are you suggesting women can’t rape other women? Because they absolutely can. A penis isn’t a prerequisite to rape.

[Asker]

Let me get it straight... So a Black guy rapes and kill an Asian woman and you put the blame on white women for that crime? Boiiiiii, are you okay?

[Asker]

Kills***

[Still-alive]

You share some of the responsibility for adding to the rhetoric that fuels racism and hate crimes in this country. Your hot take shifts the blame away from yourself and onto Asian women and makes them seem less human or worthy of dating white guys. Just let people date who they want to date already regardless of race or ethnicity. you didn’t pull the trigger but you supply the bullets words have consequences they aren’t harmless so just stop with your racist attitude. You knew it was racist to post this that’s why you’re anonymous. What you want to say something racist and not be called out for it?

[Asker]

You are completely crazy. A Black guy raped and killed an Asian girl and you are putting the blame on White women for that! Hello!!! I have no control over black men's hands and d***s! And then you justify your obviously weak point of view by unfairly claiming that “I'm adding to the rhetoric that fuels racism and hate crimes in this country.” And then you say that I want to make Asian women seem less human and worthy of respect. Just WOW! You lost your mind my guy...

[Still-alive]

Yes you know exactly what your doing. You just refuse to own up to it. Like I said you aren’t pulling the trigger but you are supplying the bullets. So stop blaming white men and Asian women for your date problems.

[Glasgow55]

Well, that's us put in our place.

[Asker]

Care to explain?

[Glasgow55]

You've accused white men, en-mass, of blaming you, belittling you, going with Asian women just to make you feel bad, having fetishes, being arrogant (the antonym to humble) and not being sufficiently loving or considerate. Quite a damning statement, and one which I don't feel I should have to defend. We aren't all like that. Maybe the men you've been with have been like this, but I can assure I'm not. And I'm married to a Chinese lady I met in England and we fell in love.

[Twalli]

I don't discriminate on race but as a % I find more East Asian girls hotter than any other group. It has a lot to do with a youthful appearance. They're generally petite and don't have big boobs which are two things I find attractive.

[Asker]

There are plenty of petite and skinny white women as well!

[Twalli]

I know. I am dating one. There is a smaller % though.

[Asker]

If you're dating a m White girl and love her, you could be more appreciative of White women. Do you think she'd feel comfortable if she heard from you that Asian girls are hotter than White women and might be more attractive than her just for being Asian?

[Twalli]

I have found more white girls attractive than Asian girls. I honestly can't imagine my girlfriend being Asian. I can imagine possibly dating an Asian if I find one if my girlfriend and I break up. I am not looking, but I do know my physical preferences and more Asian girls have that than white, black, or Latina women. I don't really know about Middle Eastern, because they don't really advertise that in the current U. S.

[disgustingweebtrash]

Did your white boyfriend leave you for an Asian girl?

[andy530]

I can’t speak for all white guys but I genuinely like Asian girls

[Asker]

If you actually appreciate Asian women, that's fine, just don't bash white women as a few guys do.

[andy530]

Oh I have no reason to bash white or any other women

[Valnac]

I like all girls.

[jirwin7979]

i would forever love an Asian girl and to start a family but it seems as a white guy in my early 40s i will never have a family and its sad

[Seppel]

I was never into Asians

[Relentless1]

I wouldn’t chase any type of girl to get back at another girl or type of girl. Not even an ex that just isn’t fair to myself or especially the girl I’m pursuing.

[Nachowedgie]

I was gonna respond but after reading the whole post and your responses below I'll just take the free points for commenting and be on my way

[SpaceGalaxy]

It goes both way. Many Asian girls (specially Chinese ones) have what is referred to as "white-fever"

[Asker]

Yeah, but do these Chinese women love white men for who they are? Being white is a trait that millions of men share, this seems to be a fetish.

[EstevanMadrid898]

Actually I personally prefer a white girls then any other race and ginger girls as well and the state I live in there's very very little black guys actually it's the Spaniards and Mexicans that is the most preferred and Superior race with the girls and by superior I mean we own all the bars and nightclubs